In order to continue to live a good life of eating and drinking, the younger son sold all the houses in the family, and even drove the two husbands and wives out of the house.

In fact, this content is not a story, but it is a typical case of many families, Jing Qingxin tells it as a story, and she just wants to give Ma Zhaodi a reminder, even if she loves her children, she can't be too favoritic.

The doting of parents, that is not love, is the poison of tea poisoning people's hearts

After listening to Jing Qingxin's story, Wang Yan and the three of them were silent for a while, and their expressions were a little incredulous

Jing Qingxin can also understand their reactions, after all, the social environment is like this, everyone has no such educational awareness, they only know how to be good, and just give all the good to their sons

People don't think about whether such a preference will lead to the lack of a child's personality

Wang Yan's heart couldn't help but feel a little sad, and said with a trembling mouth: "Is there still such an unfilial son?"

"Why not, is it possible that the sisters-in-law's side, such an unfilial thing, is there a lack of it, think about it carefully, raise an unfilial son, do his parents love their son very much, is it any good thing, do you think your son is the best, others say a few bad words, but will be scolded" Jing Qingxin gradually asked rhetorically.

Wang Yan was dumbfounded, she was speechless, thinking about it carefully, it seemed that it was really as Jing Qingxin said, and it was all caused by the preference of her parents

Jing Qingxin opened her mouth again and asked: "Think about it again, what you hear the most around you is whether you are a filial son or an unfilial daughter."

The three of them choked again, they had never thought about it.

What Jing Qingxin said, what he asked, although it is not absolute, but it is also typical for most people, at least in the past twenty or thirty years, the status of women is not so high, and the accepted ideas are still very traditional, and there is a situation of unfilial piety, which really can't be compared with the data of unfilial sons.

In Jing Qingxin's view, many of the rules and regulations of the older generation are not for men, but for women, and once women touch it slightly, they can be forced to death by those rules and traditions.

"If you think about why your daughter is called a little padded jacket, isn't it because your daughter is intimate and sensible and well-behaved, girls are delicate, and they can better understand the difficulties of their parents, so if you give all your love to your son, but raise such an arrogant son, what's the use of having a son, not necessarily being able to support the elderly, having a daughter, not necessarily not being able to support the elderly, as long as it is your own child, educated, your daughter and son will provide for you for the elderly. It's not a question of men and women, it's a question of family education. Jing Qingxin spoke softly and firmly.

Immediately, Jing Qingxin whispered to Ma Zhaodi: "I said this, sister-in-law Ma, can you understand?"

After speaking, Jing Qingxin didn't want to get Ma Zhaodi's reply or statement immediately, turned around and continued to be busy with the work in her hands, she knew that Ma Zhaodi needed a space and time to think, and she was not in a hurry, anyway, she said everything she could

"Brother and sister, you're right," Wang Yan suddenly agreed.

She also has a son herself, and she is used to being pampered on weekdays, but in terms of etiquette, the two couples have always educated their children, and they are not completely dependent on the child's temperament.

At this moment, after listening to Jing Qingxin's words, Wang Yan suddenly felt that she had benefited a lot from family education

Jing Qing smiled and said: "It just so happened that the sisters-in-law talked about this topic, so I just chatted with the sisters-in-law."

"I also think it makes sense, I haven't heard these words before, and I haven't thought about them, but like you said, as long as the child is educated well, whether it is a woman or a man, he will know how to be filial. Yangmei also spoke.

Wang Yan said jokingly: "It seems that I also have to work hard to get another little padded jacket, and I can't pin all my love on one child, if my son becomes such an unfilial son, I might as well raise a daughter."

"Then you come on" Yang Mei said with a smile, if she can have another son in the future, she must be well restrained and disciplined, and she must not be spoiled too much

Jing Qing's words made her heart unable to calm down for a long time, such remarks are a little novel, but bizarre, but they are very reasonable, if the son is not raised well, it is simply to raise an enemy for his own family

Jing Qingxin and the three of them looked at Ma Zhaodi with a distracted face, and the three of them also disturbed her, each doing their own thing, leaving a small space for her to think slowly

In the evening, the three women told Jing Qingxin's family education in the afternoon to their own men listening to Wang Yan and the men of Yangmei's family, and naturally they agreed very much, and also highly praised Gao Shen's daughter-in-law, saying that Gao Shen's daughter-in-law is a woman with great wisdom in her heart.

Although they also understand some things, but they can't say those reasonable words, the men once again have a sense of admiration for Jing Qingxin, and tell their daughter-in-law to have more contact with the senior daughter-in-law and learn more

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