In the end, Chen Aihua ran away again, just like a drop of water falling into the sea, quietly passed, and Yu Ying didn't pay attention to Chen Aihua anymore, after all, she was no longer the person Yu Ying cared about.

As for Jianbei, after returning home, he finally returned to his old job: farming.

In the past, Jianbei thought that he would be like a fish in water in the city, but the reality gave him a slap in the face, looking back, that period of life in the city, and later looking at it, he was a fool who was tricked.

When everyone knew that the hat on Jianbei's head had turned green, he was still at a loss, which made Jianbei know that he was not suitable for life in the city, and it was better to go home and farm.

At the very least, as long as you pay for farming, as long as God is not angry, there is always something in return.

Yu Ying did not object to Jianbei's choice, and chose to support it, of course, when teaching Jianbei, he was also partial to agriculture, how to let a little white farmer who could only plant land indiscriminately plant good land.

When Yu Ying asked Jianbei to farm, she used scientific farming, for example, when fertilizing, Yu Ying did not let Jianbei use a lot of chemical fertilizers.

In fact, in the beginning, the heavy use of chemical fertilizers did increase the production of food, but then the disadvantages began to appear, the fertility of the soil began to decline, the quality of agricultural products also deteriorated, and even the residue of chemical fertilizers would damage the environment.

Therefore, in later generations, green farming began, and when the appropriate amount of chemical fertilizer was used, farm fertilizer was used at the same time.

The other is the issue of insect control, which is to use other means to eliminate pests, rather than using a large number of highly toxic pesticides.

Of course, Yu Ying also knows that she will not starve to death just by farming, but she will definitely not make a fortune by relying on these few acres of land. Therefore, it is possible to grow other cash crops to increase the income from farming.

Later, Jianbei remarried a wife, not at all different from Chen Aihua, the new daughter-in-law looks good, not to mention, her hands are very skillful, she is also very diligent, and she can make a good hand of tea and rice, Yu Ying pointed out, so the life of the young couple is also good.

What made Yu Ying happiest was that Zhao Fang was admitted to a prestigious university after three years of high school, and when the admission notice arrived, Yu Ying finally knew that her task was completed.

After Zhao Fang was admitted to university, the three brothers and sisters-in-law felt that their faces were shining, and their younger sister was going to study in the capital region of the motherland, and they were all busy preparing for their sister.

The night before preparing for school, Yu Ying found Zhao Fang. The mother and daughter talked on their knees.

At this time, Zhao Fang was already a big girl, and now the three brothers and sisters-in-law are not poor in the family, so they are generous to their sisters, and it can be said that Zhao Fang does not have that kind of rustic atmosphere now. Instead, it has a bookish aroma.

"Fangfang, if you want to go to college, I won't go, it just so happens that your second brother will give you a trip. I hope you remember that college is just a new beginning for you. Yu Ying said slowly.

Zhao Fang nodded, she was willing to learn more knowledge and be like her mother in the future.

Seeing Zhao Fang's movements, Yu Ying smiled, her heart was soft, now the little girl looks slim, although she is not the kind of absolute beauty, but she is also a beautiful girl.

Seeing Zhao Fang at this time, Yu Ying couldn't help but think of her first task client.

That stupid but very kind girl suffered the biggest blow in her life when she was in college, so Yu Ying gave Zhao Fang a advice when she went to college.

"If Fangfang meets a suitable boy, she can also fall in love, but she must learn to protect herself. What matters to a girl is herself, don't care what some men say. Yu Ying said.

At this time, Fangfang blushed, lowered her head, and said a little shyly: "Mom!"

Even though Zhao Fang's IQ is not low, she still has some yearning for love and marriage, after all, she is still a woman who has always been well protected.

Seeing Zhao Fang's appearance, Yu Ying just smiled, the little girl had grown up.

When she met the young man she liked, her heart was budding, and she even had a kind of trouble that she couldn't ask for, this is the life that Zhao Fang has to experience, and no one can make a decision for her. The only thing that can be done is to give her some vaccinations.

So Yu Ying changed the topic and said: "When you don't have a legal identity, it's best not to have too close a relationship with a man." Don't create a human life, because you may not be able to give the child a legal identity. ”

Hearing this, Zhao Fang was a little surprised, her face turned pale, she raised her eyes to look at Yu Ying, her lips moving. As if I couldn't believe that this was what my mother said to her, why did she say that?

Seeing this, Yu Ying shook her hand slightly, signaling Zhao Fang not to speak, after all, there are some words, Yu Ying plans to say them in one go.

"Fangfang, I'll tell you now, just because you're an adult, you'll meet a lot of people. In your life, you may meet the person you like the most, but whether you can be together depends on the fate between you. Yu Ying said.

"There was once a girl who fell in love with her male teacher when she was in middle school, and under the passionate and sincere pursuit of the girl, the two became a pair of lovers, writing lyrics and poems, and they were compatible with each other. Yu Ying's voice came faintly.

Hearing this, Zhao Fang's eyes widened, the teacher-student relationship at this time is indeed relatively rare, so the little girl is full of strangeness, there is such a thing?

"As a result, the girl was transferred by her family and the male teacher was dismissed. Yu Ying's voice was calm.

The emotions in Zhao Fang's eyes did not change much.

In fact, in the school rules of middle school now, there is no allowing in love, as a student is not following the rules is already wrong, not to mention that as a teacher, he actually falls in love with a female student, that is to know mistakes and make mistakes, so parents will definitely sue the teacher, which Zhao Fang has long thought of.

After a few years, the female student has also married and had children, but she always feels that her husband is not in her favor, and the most popular person in her mind is the former male teacher. Yu Ying continued.

It's just that when she talked about this, Yu Ying said, "Fangfang, guess what's next?"

"It can't be that female student who went to find her former dream lover again, right?" Zhao Fang said.

At this time, Zhao Fang no longer had the discomfort and grievances just now, because Yu Ying's words were not aimed at her, but at the situations she might encounter, so she used her brains.

"Yes, she went to look for it, but the man she found was no longer the man she remembered. Yu Ying's voice was very flat when she spoke.

"Because of the complaint of the parents of the female students, the male teacher had to go to a remote place to find a job. Yu Ying said softly.

At this time, Zhao Fang nodded, in fact, in this case, the teacher has more responsibility, after all, he is an elder.

"So the male teacher lived in poverty, and he was already more than 20 years older than the female student, so when the female student saw the originally polite teacher, she could no longer recognize him, and he became unrecognizable, and he had become a bad old man. Yu Ying said with a sigh.

Of course, male teachers are at fault, but the love of female students is also a scourge.

"When a female student pursued a male teacher, the male teacher initially refused because he was concerned about each other's identities and was afraid of the difference in age. But the schoolgirl is very determined because she firmly believes in the supremacy of love. When she said this, Yu Ying smiled.

Love! Such a terrible love, it's better not to be.

So when the female students saw the man they once liked the most become like that, they didn't come forward to recognize each other in the end. The Sea Oath Alliance, which used to be extremely strong, actually scared that person away when he encountered the other party's old age and decay. Yu Ying's words were filled with a cold smile.

In fact, the so-called love, shouldn't you fall in love with that soul?

Why is the soul still the same soul, but the skin wrapped on the outside has become old and old, and the heart of love has disappeared?

Hahaha!

Love comes first, is it the soul that is loved?

At this time, Yu Ying complained in her heart.

"So Fangfang, when choosing your other half, you must be cautious. Sometimes you have no fate, and sometimes you don't. Well, Fangfang, you remember, don't force it. ”

"And don't look at what the man's mouth can say, but what the man can do for you? Some men talk about the sky, but they are short in action. Yu Ying said.

Zhao Fang's face was a little shy, but she still listened carefully.

"Some men are better off not marrying, in fact, it is just a passerby relationship, and it is better than becoming a husband. Yu Ying said.

This sentence made Zhao Fang a little confused, and Yu Ying glanced at Zhao Fang and said: "For example, some men put all their feelings on their careers, this kind of man is not bad, at least he won't hook up, but women are too tired to marry him." ”

"Because things at home, everything, will weigh on you alone. ”

"And the kind of man who shows mercy everywhere, and he won't ask for it. In fact, if you follow that kind of man, you have to be angry, because you don't know when that kind of man will complain?" Hearing this, Zhao Fang laughed.

Although her mother is a lot old, she dares to accept new things and has a lively language.

"If the woman he hooked up with thinks that you have taken her place and wants to kill you, then the person who suffers from the unjustified disaster will be miserable. The problem is that kind of man never feels like he's at fault. Yu Ying continued.

Zhao Fang nodded again and again, and the woman who had a relationship with Duan Wangye did not end well in the end, including his original partner.

In Zhao Fang's heart, this kind of rich and handsome who looks affectionate is better to stay away, anyway, his heart can be divided into N parts, even if he gets his sincerity, it is also a Mimi.

"In addition, there is a kind of man who is a mother, everything has to be commanded by his mother, if he marries this kind of giant baby, the woman is considered to be moldy, not only to be a mother to Mabao, but also to have a bad relationship with her mother-in-law. In the mother-in-law's opinion, you are here to snatch your son from her. ”

Poof! Zhao Fang laughed.

In fact, listening to Yu Ying, Zhao Fang also knew that a man like this must not marry, and the guy who can become a mother treasure often has very soft ears, which is very similar to her third brother Jianbei.

But thinking of this, Zhao Fang shook his head, in fact, when Jianbei first started, he was not a mother's treasure, but a daughter-in-law fan.

Thinking of the third brother's previous behavior, Zhao Fang hoped that the third brother was a mother's treasure, not a son without conscience.

Of course, the ideology of the real mom is that what mom says is right, and if it's wrong, it must be that you don't understand it right.

The relationship between mother and son for decades, thinking with their toes, outsiders can't fight the deep love between mother and son. So who will have a good life but, go and marry Ma Bao.

So Zhao Fang interrupted Ma Bao in her heart, this kind of man must pay attention and can't marry.

But Yu Ying said this, look at Zhao Fang, I don't know who she will marry in the future? No matter what, we must take care of this pass.

"Fangfang, of course, you should also know that in fact, everyone has some small problems, after all, we are all ordinary people. When Yu Ying said this, she touched Zhao Fang's head and said with a smile.

The probability of a saint appearing is too small, and saints have lived in legends for many years.

"When you interact with people, people who can get along with you should socialize more and strive to be friends. People who are not very good generally stay away, but when others are knocking on the door, they are not afraid. The last sentence said Yu Ying's heart, she is not looking for trouble, and she is not afraid of things.

"Mom, I know. Zhao Fang hugged Yu Ying and said.

Although her mother is only a peasant woman, as her daughter, Zhao Fang is proud of her mother.

"I'm so happy to be your daughter, and I want to apologize, Mom, I once doubted Mom, if she loves us children?" Zhao Fang's voice became low, but Yu Ying could hear it.

In fact, for a while, her mother became very cold to her three brothers, which frightened the little girl, thinking that her mother had changed into a different person, because her mother had always loved her children the most.

Even though her mother's attitude towards Zhao Fang has not changed, Zhao Fang still feels uncomfortable, afraid that she will not know when she will not listen to her mother and be snubbed by her mother.

What happened later made Zhao Fang finally understand one thing, that is, there is a reason why her mother is cold to her son. The eldest brother and the second brother's family are considered to have lost their way and are respectful to their mother.

Only the third brother Jianbei and his wife are far away, and his mother doesn't care at all.

Zhao Fang was worried in her heart, she didn't know what her mother thought, but she still had a little worry about the third brother in her heart.

It's just that Yu Ying has always been an old god, but she doesn't care much.

So as a daughter, it is natural to maintain the same attitude as her mother.

However, Zhao Fang soon discovered that in fact, her mother had been paying attention to the third brother's family, and the second sister-in-law's best friend had been sending the news of the third brother and his wife.

It can be said that Yu Ying soon knew a lot of things about Jianbei and his wife. After Zhao Fang knew about this, she had always admired her mother a little, and she had already found someone who could ventilate the news.

Of course, in return, the sister-in-law also told her best friend about the situation of her best friend's children.

In this way, Yu Ying was watching the play while thinking in her heart.

At this time, even Zhao Fang knew that Chen Aihua would not be willing to go on like this for the rest of his life, and he would inevitably break with Jianbei.