Let's say that Liu Qing was a little surprised when he heard about mental derailment for the first time, and he didn't understand it very well, so he continued: "I still don't understand it." ”

"Then let my husband take his time!" Kong Changyi was even more proud and continued to smile.

"Okay, husband, you can say it!" Although Liu Qing wanted to know, he was not in a hurry to ask Kong Changyi, but played with Kong Changyi, and said.

"This spiritual derailment is due to the fact that with the development and convenience of people's transportation, the original concept of being consistent with a married partner has been challenged and impacted.

The divorce rate has increased exponentially.

Many men and women do not choose to divorce for a variety of reasons, and they have extramarital affairs. "Mental infidelity" is relative to physical infidelity.

In fact, many men and women who are mentally cheating are even bored with the sexual interest of the other party in the couple, and blindly go perfunctory, so that the disgust psychology substantially affects the quality of life of the couple.

This kind of mental derailment, precisely because there is no derailment, the other party of the husband and wife often has nothing to investigate, and there is no object to even "catch the adulterer in pairs". But ignore it, and when you really cheat, it's too late to regret it.

There are several main cases of general mental derailment,

First, I often find excuses not to go home, and I would rather be alone when I stay home.

The cheating spouse will find it boring to go home, and will often make excuses not to go home, and even if he goes home, he would rather be alone.

The other party is accustomed to watching TV after dinner, so he habitually finds an excuse to do something else, that is, he is idle and bored, and he does not want to have fun with the other party, showing that the husband and wife are close at hand, but it is ice and fire, some couples encounter this situation, they think that the dullness of marriage is an inevitability, but in fact, this dullness hides a deep crisis.

The first is inexplicably bored and rejects people thousands of miles away.

The party who has a spiritual cheating must have an empathetic object in his heart, which may be a secret crush or just an ambiguous situation, but the mentally cheating party often pays attention to other objects. You will feel that your married life is very annoying or uninteresting, and you will also feel that your current partner is just cumbersome and redundant, and you have long been unable to arouse your interest. Therefore, when the other party asks about something, or the other party wants to take the initiative to make love, it will often touch the mold.

Thirdly, it has also become a routine, relying on imaginary objects to help the fun

The cheating spouse is often not interested in conjugal sex, even if sometimes out of physical necessity, it is routine, but it is often resolved quickly. If one of the husband and wife cheats, the husband and wife are very likely to lose their relationship, which is called: "The affectionate is often ruthlessly annoyed". Sometimes, when there is a cheating party, in order to cope with the other party, or even when having sex, the object of imagination is the person in mind, and use this YY to help the fun. The cheating party is indifferent to the couple's bed, and may even sleep in the same bed, but the cheating party is asleep in the other party and adopts self-resolution to achieve satisfaction.

Fourth, compare the other party with others, and see that the other party is not good.

In marriage, it is not good to see what the other party is, and even complain about a trivial matter, and even when quarreling, he will deliberately provoke and make the other party feel wronged, even if the other party deliberately behaves, he will always be unable to enter his mind, and openly and secretly always compare the other party with others, the more interesting it is.

Fifth, he is very reluctant to compromise with the other party, and ignores it when he is in a hurry

is very reluctant to give in to the other party, once he is in a hurry, even if the other party is so aggrieved that he cries, he is too lazy to give in, but leaves the other party aside, goes to do his own business, or goes to find a pastime by himself. Especially in daily life, the attitude is lukewarm, and it is rare to take the initiative to make love with the other party, and often after a quarrel, it is very easy to fall into a long cold war.

And the sixth ......"

"Wait, what do you mean it seems to be you?" Liu Qing said suddenly.

Kong Changyi was taken aback, frowned and puzzled: "''How is this me?"''

"You see you think about running outside all day long, and you always ......"

Before Liu Qing's words were finished, Kong Changyi smiled and said, "How can I be mentally cheating......?

"You dare?" Liu Qing said angrily.

"Aren't Xiaoqing and I ......?"

"That's not it, that's what I agreed to, and ......"

"And people are the real ones, you are just a third party. Kong Changyi became more and more presumptuous, and even said such presumptuous words.

"You ......" Liu Qing pointed at Kong Changyi angrily, and then said: "Don't deceive people too much, I'll ...... me."

Kong Changyi saw that Liu Qing was really angry, so he smiled and said, "Qingqing, I was just joking with you, are you angry?"

"How can I not be angry, you are insulting my personality. Liu Qing was furious.

"Let's talk about Lu Menghan, why did you say sister again, it's really damned. Kong Changyi said that he complained to himself.

Liu Qing actually smiled when he saw it, and said: "You are really interesting, what did you say happened to Lu Menghan? ”

"Aren't you going to see her, so think about her first? Kong Changyi doesn't know what's wrong with his brain, he can't do without Lu Menghan when he speaks, in fact, he is the real spiritual derailment, and his heart is full of Lu Menghan.

"Then what's there to think about, don't you know if you go!" Liu Qing suddenly felt that he was being led by Kong Changyi's nose for a long time, and then stopped: "What's wrong with you today?

Kong Changyi was a little flustered suddenly, his face changed, and he said with a smile: "What ulterior secrets can I have, I'm just my sister's driver, and I see my husband part-time!"

Liu Qing didn't care, even if she said that she saw her husband, she was unmoved, twisted her ears and said, "Say it quickly, you are so attentive today, there must be some conspiracy, or some ulterior secret." ”

Kong Changyi thought in his heart, this is over, it is seen, how can it be good?

Suddenly, he had an idea, and said with a smile: "Okay, I said, I said ......"

"Say it, say it, and I'll let you go. Liu Qing did not relent.

"I'm still driving? You're so prone to accidents, let go. Kong Changyi had no choice but to use the danger of driving.

Sure enough, Liu Qing let go of his hand, but he didn't spare it, and said sternly: "Say, if you don't look good." ”

"What's so good-looking? It's not as good-looking as my sister. Kong Changyi really doesn't want to say it, because once he says it, it can't be reversed.

"Still poor, don't be poor, tell me quickly, what's the secret?" asked Liu Qing through gritted teeth.