Have you ever encountered a situation where your girlfriend is reluctant to deal with you because she hates her man very much? I think this is a very realistic situation, just like I don't have that close contact with Xie Tingting anymore, a large part of the reason is that I don't like her crooked husband very much.

After Shao Siwei went through this, he was reluctant to deal with me, and he was annoyed by me when he thought about it.

The first time I began to doubt the meaning of this marriage, it was at this juncture that when your friends around you were not optimistic, you would not be so determined.

Chen Feiyang fell asleep next to me, and I seriously thought about it, thinking about why he always felt that I didn't like him, and thinking about what our marriage would look like if he continued in this state.

I began to realize that it was a mistake, a mistake from the beginning, just that the mistake was already wrong, and there was no going back. If you easily pull back and stop the divorce, I think it will also be irresponsible.

I want to have a good time, since Chen Feiyang has no sense of security, I take the time to call him twice a day, but it's nothing.

In the dance studio, Shao Siwei didn't come today, he didn't want to come, he was annoyed, he said: "I have to hide at home now, I'm afraid that I will be punched to death when I go out." ”

It's a complaint, a good friend's complaint, and it makes me a little uncomfortable.

Then I called Chen Feiyang and asked him what he was doing, and he said, "The gym has apprentices." ”

"And those female apprentices?"

He laughed, "Are you jealous?"

Actually, I'm really not jealous, that person has this need, he should teach it. But I knew that Chen Feiyang wanted me to be jealous, so I pretended to be with him, "It's okay, you can be honest yourself." ”

Chen Feiyang was happy, didn't say a few words, we hung up the phone, because the weather was hot, I was too lazy to open my mouth, and I didn't have anything to say to him.

Shao Siwei didn't come, I had to practice this dance myself, I practiced and practiced in front of the mirror, and I sweated a lot, I don't know if it was sweating or heat.

A few days later, I started to practice the soundtrack, there was a song on the tape recorder, and I was spinning with myself, very hard.

Wang Zhaoyang leaned against the door, holding two bottles of mineral water in his hands, and when I stopped, he walked in and threw me a bottle. I caught it naturally, unscrewed the cap and took a sip.

Wang Zhaoyang, an idler, came to see me dancing not for the first time, I can't control other people's thoughts and behaviors, I can only let myself learn to be generous.

Walking up to the bobblehead fan, I craned my neck and blew it, a few pieces of broken hair bangs swayed with the wind, and I couldn't help but sigh, "It's so comfortable." ”

Wang Zhaoyang was still standing by and watching, and I glanced at him, "Why are you still infected with voyeurism." ”

He raised an eyebrow, "Are you still afraid to see it?"

He looked at it generously, and I didn't bother about this, so I sat down and asked casually, "What's the matter, Mr. Wang, go on a blind date." ”

He smiled lightly and expressed regret, "People didn't take a fancy to me." ”

"Why?" I reacted a little violently.

Wang Zhaoyang looked at me with a playful gaze, "Why do you have to take a fancy to me?"

Depend on...... It's okay with your length, your work, your character, and all kinds of things...... Forget it, I still don't praise him, save him from thinking more.

Sitting cross-legged on the ground, I said, "Then change another one." ”

He also sat on the ground with me, his legs naturally straight, his elbows propped up on the rest bench behind him, and the wind blowing from the fan shook his face, and then over mine.

He said, "How are you?"

I looked at him, was going to talk to him, and said, "There's a problem." ”

"Tell me about it. ”

Simple wording, with a slight sigh, I said: "Many people say that when they are not together, they see all the advantages, and when they are together, everything is wrong." In fact, it's not a problem, it's just that there will be some inexplicable contradictions, obviously it doesn't feel like it's a thing, but it just doesn't make sense. ”

Wang Zhaoyang listened carefully and looked at me sideways, "Then how did you solve it?"

I said, "I can understand why he is the way he is, but the problem is still there." ”

He took a deep breath and said, "In fact, it is useless to understand people alone, especially between husband and wife. ”

I turned my head to look at him, with a teacher-seeking attitude.

Wang Zhaoyang thought for a while and said, "Let's put it this way, for example, Fang Keru and I, she likes to pursue a career and likes to be busy, I can understand it." Many times, we can put ourselves in someone else's shoes, but our own feelings are real. To be unhappy is to be unhappy. ”

Women are all inclined to interrupt, and it is always easy to pick the wrong point when speaking, I said: "So you and Fang Keru are married, are you unhappy?"

He looked at me, smiling in a trademark way, and didn't answer the question directly. Probably unhappy, unhappy will look for happiness in games, even in me, but after all, I am unhappy, so I left.

Suddenly, I seemed to understand one thing, Wang Zhaoyang and Fang Keru divorced because of me, but not definitely because of me. I may have been the trigger, but the problem was in their marriage itself.

I didn't tell Wang Zhaoyang what happened to me and Chen Feiyang, but he seemed to see the problem very easily, and he said, "Your husband is not mature enough. ”

I laughed, "Are you mature?"

He also smiled, very confident, "Enough to deal with you." ”

Forehead......

I choked on his words and bowed my head in retort, "What man didn't come from immaturity." ”

He said, "I'll tell you a story." ”

I nodded.

"Once upon a time there were two egg ......"

"Poof. I accidentally laughed.

He gave me a blank look and motioned for me to be serious. And then seriously, "When they're all still in eggshells, they look the same on the surface." One said I wanted to become a chicken, the other said I would become a duck in the future, the ideals were not too far apart, and then they lived together, bathed in the sun together, sheltered from the wind and rain, and looked forward to a better future together, they said that they would make a home under the big tree, and they firmly believed that they would love each other forever. Later, when the two eggs matured, one became a bird flying in the sky, and the other became a fish swimming in the sea......"

I retorted, "Fish don't lay eggs." ”

Wang Zhaoyang frowned, "Crocodile!"

I then retorted, "How can a crocodile egg be with a bird's egg......

He smacked his lips, "Catch the point!"

I pouted, indicating that I would not bother," you continued. ”

They were still in love with each other, and the bird caught bugs for the crocodile to eat, and the crocodile suggested that the bird swim in the water with him, and he felt that the water was very comfortable, but the bird would drown if he went in. After a long time, they have no common language, do you say they haven't loved, no, they will also miss the time when they were still in the eggshell, but no one can go back, so they broke up, one rode the wind and waves, the other was clear, if they were reluctant to be together, just torture on the grounds of love, then I think it would be better to separate. ”

I blinked, still thinking about eggs, birds, crocodiles.

Wang Zhaoyang, "Do you understand?"

I nodded, "Is this why you and Fang Keru broke up?"

He thought for a moment, "That's why most serious people break up," and after a pause, he smiled with a hint of self-deprecation, "One more reason we both broke up was that I was distracted." ”

I smiled wryly and thought to myself, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have let you wander.

He said: "In fact, feelings, being moved or sparking sparks, may be easy, there is fate. But to really get along, you need to be equal. ”

I muttered, "Then I don't think we're equal enough." ”

"How?"

"You're more sober than I am. I said.

He laughed, "I can bear you, can you put up with him? You can't even stand yourself." ”

Since ancient times, persuasion and dispersion are not discouraged, sometimes I wonder if Wang Zhaoyang's words will not be objective, after all, there is still a layer of meaning between the two of us. But if you think about it, what he said is also true.

I still didn't know what to do, so I could just say, "Bear with me." I won't change it and tell you, and you won't be able to help me with my ideas. ”

"Of course I can't help you with ideas, what's in my interest in giving you ideas. He pursed his lips and tilted his head up a little so that the wind from the fan could blow through his neck and take away a thin layer of sweat.

Men do this action, it's quite sexy and charming.

Sitting like this, enjoying this idle afternoon, it felt good for the first time since the breakup that we were so calm with each other.

Shao Siwei spent a few days, and then accompanied me to rehearsal, and when Chen Feiyang came to pick me up, he was still angry when he saw the two of us together.

Later, I asked one thing from his mouth, Chen Feiyang didn't believe that Shao Siwei and I were innocent, because of his sister Chen Shanshan.

When I was in college, in order to help Shao Siwei hide that he was gay, Shao Siwei and I got so close that people who were familiar with us thought that the two of us were having a good time. Before I helped Shao Siwei go to his parents to top the bag, Chen Feiyang gave it to me, and I also met Shao Siwei once.

Chen Shanshan and we are from the same school, of course, they think that Shao Siwei and I are getting better, and that time I saw Shao Siwei and I going in and out of pairs outside, so I found an opportunity to tell her brother in a high-profile manner, "You have been cuckolded." ”

This green hat, Chen Feiyang's fiery temper, it is not easy to endure.

To figure out this relationship, I went to Chen Shanshan to scold. At Chen Feiyang's parents' house, while his parents were away, I had to quarrel with Chen Shanshan.

I said, "Chen Shanshan, you can't get used to me, forget it, do you have your own brother like you!"

Chen Shanshan was confident, "Yo, it's me who is a wreck or you did it yourself, and you don't want people to say it if you cuckold people." ”

"Which eye did you see me cuckolding. I glared at her.

She said: "Hey, when you two used to go to school, you opened the house all day long and thought no one knew about it, and you are a fool," Chen Feiyang, who was observing the situation next to Chen Shanshan's finger, "If you say that you are gay, you are gay, how can you believe everything." You fucking forgot that this woman was raised by a bitch, and I don't know what your baby is when I break my shoes, and it's useless. ”

I glared and gave her a mouthful.