372, she didn't dare to give birth, she was also selfish
Ma Zhaodi's question, in fact, Wang Yan and Yang Mei are also very curious, in their opinion, Jing Qingxin and Gao Shen have a very deep relationship between the two husbands and wives, and they have been living a good life, and there is absolutely no financial burden on raising children.
It's just that their personalities won't ask so bluntly, this will, Ma Zhaodi asked, and the two of them also looked at Jing Qingxin with a concerned face.
Jing Qingxin's heart at this moment, there was really a feeling of crying and laughing, but seeing that the three of them all had a look of curiosity, Jing Qingxin had to answer: "We plan to regenerate two years later." ”
"Why?" Ma Zhaodi asked puzzled.
Jing Qingxin said frankly: "I'm still young now, so I'm not in a hurry, so Ah Shen wants me to delay my regeneration for two years, which will be better for me and my children, and secondly, the two of us also want to live more than the world of two people." ”
The women around us all started giving birth at the age of eighteen or nineteen, and some women started having children even earlier, at the age of sixteen or seventeen!" Yang Mei said disapprovingly.
The environment in which she lives is such a phenomenon, and I have never heard anyone say that the child is born too early, and it will be bad for the body.
Wang Yan smiled and quipped: "You two husbands and wives have a deep relationship! However, you didn't live with your mother-in-law, if you live together, you want to delay for two years to see if you don't talk to death." ”
"That's it, this woman, what is she getting married for? Isn't it just to have children and live!" Ma Zhaodi echoed.
Jing Qing was a little helpless, she couldn't refute their views, and she didn't judge their ideas as wrong, after all, they lived in this era, and the general environment around them was like this.
Regarding the matter of having a child, Jing Qingxin felt that this was a matter between her and Gao Shen, and there was no need to argue with everyone about right or wrong, after all, the ideas were different, and the attitude towards life was naturally different.
Immediately, Jing Qingxin beat Ma Haha, and said with a smile: "Don't talk about me, this matter is decided by Ah Shen, I listen to him." ”
"Alas, you are not in a hurry to give birth, I want to give birth, but I can't give birth. Yang Mei sighed.
Everyone looked at Yangmei with a concerned face.
"Our husband and wife only have one daughter, but my in-laws have always wanted a grandson, Sister Yan, you know, our family has to support four old people, a large family, just rely on Cai Wei's allowance alone, where dare to give birth!"
Although the two elderly people live in the countryside, although they don't have to worry about food and housing, after all, they are old, and they are always sick and painful, and they burn the most money to see a doctor and take medicine!
Yangmei's family also has an older sister, who marries far away, and the conditions at home are even worse, so she can't count on it at all, Yangmei is better than her sister's marriage, and the elders in the family have something, so you can't help but take a hand! Fortunately, Cai Wei is filial and responsible, and is willing to bear Yangmei's parents.
And the two elders of the Cai family gave birth to a son and a daughter, Cai Wei's sister married early, and the matter of supporting her parents is naturally Cai Wei's responsibility as a son.
"Alas, I know! I can understand!" Wang Yan took Yangmei's hand and reassured, Yangmei had also mentioned this before, because of her own family, she dragged down the Cai family, and she was very unhappy, knowing that the two elders of the Cai family have always wanted grandchildren, and they also want to give birth to a boy to make up for it, but the conditions of the family can no longer afford two children!
Therefore, the guilt in Yangmei's heart towards her in-laws has never been given a chance to make up for it.
"Alas, who doesn't want better living conditions at home and have more children, the old man often says, more children and more blessings! I still want to have another son!" Ma Zhaodi also said with emotion.
The conditions at home are poor, and it is not easy to feed the child after it is born, so why let the child suffer!
Actually, we, the women who can follow the army, are good. Wang Yan also sighed.
The daughters-in-law who came with them to join the army are much better than the daughters-in-law in their hometowns and villages, with less harsh treatment by their mothers-in-law, less questioning eyes from the villagers, and less hard work.
Jing Qingxin looked at the three sisters-in-law's sudden depressed mood and emotional words, and she didn't know what to say for a while! She had read history and knew better than them how many tragedies had been caused by the current environment.
But she is not a god, she can't save all the people who are in deep trouble, even if she has mercy in her heart, she can't change this era, this world!
There are many precious gold and silver jewels in her space, and there are many precious pills that are priceless, and these values can make many people's lives better!
But she has no obligation to feed everyone! She is only one of all things, insignificant, unable to compete with the world and God!
Even if she knows the trajectory of history and the development of the next few decades, she has people she loves and people she wants to protect, and she can't change anything!
She is also a selfish person when it comes to loved ones!
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