Chapter 467: Postpartum Depression

In the next room to the ward where Gu Er lived, Gu Hui silently shed tears for half an hour.

Fu Yanfeng sat opposite him with his arms crossed, his patience running out.

At this time, Gu Hui finally wiped it vigorously and opened his mouth in a low voice: "I'm just happy...... My sister, she's finally come to an end now!"

After Gu Hui's explanation, Fu Yanfeng realized that there was a time when Gu Yi was very afraid of marriage, and even more afraid of having his own children.

Because of the failed example and education of Gu's father and mother, she thinks that after marriage, couples are always arguing, for all kinds of things, there is only a beginning, there is no end.

She didn't want to get married, she was afraid of getting into endless quarrels with her husband, she was afraid of having children, she was afraid that she would not be a good mother, and that the child would live like she did every day trying her best to please her parents, but rarely got a smile!

She was also afraid that in that kind of life, she would gradually become less like herself!

“…… At that time, I was still in the hospital for treatment, I remember very clearly, I was very tired that day, so I lay there and rested with my eyes closed, my sister was very light when she came, I didn't notice it at first, and when I knew she was coming, but before I could open my eyes, she choked up and said a lot to me!

I know, she didn't tell me. She was just too scared and lonely, and she had no one to talk to, so she could only say to me. But she was afraid that I would hear about it, so she thought I was asleep before she dared to say it. I was young at the time, and I didn't understand a lot of what I said, but as I grew older, I realized that that home brought my sister not only bad memories, but also lingering psychological shadows!

But I didn't dare to mention it to her, because I was part of that family! I was afraid that if I did, she would only blame herself, and would never dare to say anything while I was asleep, for I was afraid that then she would get sick! Later, maybe my sister didn't say it again, or maybe when she said it, I really fell asleep and didn't hear anything.

But in any case, I already know the bitterness in her heart. But there's nothing I can do but hope that one day she'll find a man who will let her break those shadows!"

Gu Hui raised his face with tears in his eyes and smiled at him: "I think, now she has really found it!"

He hadn't sighed before, and he sighed that Gu Er had finally come out of the shadows.

But nothing touched him more than seeing his sister and nephew sleeping together!

Fu Yanfeng felt that he seemed to have completely understood the reason why Gu Er had repeatedly rejected his marriage proposals, and thinking of her heart knots, he was not only not unhappy, but even more distressed!

The cancer of the Gu family and his wife not only killed his parents, but also his own children, which is really chilling.

He now feels that he is a pity that he did not dispose of them with his own hands!

Of course, he only had such an angry thought in his head, in fact, even if the couple stood in front of him again, he would not be able to do something himself.

After all, they gave birth to Gu Er.

Even if he thinks that this is nothing at all, but after all, they are blood relatives, if it is really his hand, Gu Er will be hit after he knows about it.

He didn't want her to be upset, and he didn't want the two of them to be estranged because of this kind of thing, but he wouldn't let them go either!

So now so, good!

Fu Yanfeng breathed a sigh of relief when he thought of this, and saw that the brother-in-law opposite fell into a trance, he cleared his throat and woke him up, "It's not early, you can rest early, I have to accompany your sister and children." ”

"Good. Brother-in-law, has the child got a name?"

Fu Yanfeng nodded slightly: "My sister and I have already discussed, the boy's name is Fu Xingqi, nicknamed Qiqi." ”

"Qiqi...... Very good!"

It seems that my sister and brother-in-law have expectations for their children!

Fu Yanfeng's eyes flashed with pride, and he also felt very good.

Although Gu Hui calmed down, he must have been tired after sitting in the car for so long, and Fu Yanfeng directly asked him to rest in the room. And he himself went back next door to take care of Gu Er and the child.

This night, Fu Yanfeng hardly fell asleep.

The child will cry every few hours, and when he cries, he will have to feed, or he may pee.

Breastfeeding can only be done by Gu Er, but at other times, Fu Yanfeng feels sorry for her, and she does it herself, so if she can not alarm Gu Er, she will not alarm him.

Every time he just felt a little sleepy, Qiqi woke up......

In just one night, Fu Yanfeng knew how hard it was to take care of children.

Fortunately, the next morning, the sister-in-law came to report and acted as the main force with the child.

The rest of the day went well.

Qiqi is a very good little guy, rarely crying, basically hungry and uncomfortable, he will snort a few times, and adults will know if he is hungry or need to change diapers. At other times, he was mostly sleeping, occasionally waking up, babbling and "talking", and over the course of a month, his jaundice and red skin faded, and gradually became white and tender.

Long eyelashes, a pair of big eyes like Gu Er, when looking at people, it makes people's hearts sprout.

The confinement sister-in-law's surname is Cai, she is a good-natured middle-aged elder sister, holding Qiqi every day, always praising that she has never seen such a good-looking and well-behaved child, just like those doll stars in the commercials!

When Gu Er heard others praise his children, he was very beautiful.

Watching the child change his appearance day by day and become more and more beautiful, she was even more excited.

I have long since thrown the idea that I thought Qiqi was a little ugly out of the clouds!

Now in her heart, Qiqi is a well-deserved first!

Gu Wei pretended to be sad and said: "Sister, now you only have a little nephew in your heart, and you don't want to ask me carefully how I am doing at school!"

In the past, every time I came back, I had to be caught by his sister and ask him non-stop, and he even had to ask what dishes he often ate in the school cafeteria, but now, ...... He asked very perfunctorily, will this affect the schoolwork? He said that it didn't affect at all, and then it was gone, it was gone!

Gu Er really has some little grievances!

Although I expected this to be the case before, when it actually happened, it was still a bit of a snack vinegar!

If he is still an element of drama like this, then Fu Yanfeng is really depressed!

He came over every day after work, but his wife couldn't tell him fifty words in one night, and at least forty-five of them were about the daily life of Qiqi, a stinky boy, and three more sentences were about Gu Hui, and it was estimated that only the last two sentences were reserved for him!

Dignified Mr. Fu, poor with a weak sense of existence!

Fu Yanfeng couldn't help but feel sorry for himself for a minute.

But he didn't dare to protest.

Doctors have taught children and fathers, take good care of their wives, try to make their wives happy, don't transfer the pressure from the outside or the pressure of the family to their wives, women who have just given birth are prone to postpartum depression, once there are psychological problems, it is very easy to do radical things.

It is said that the incidence of postpartum depression has increased year by year in recent years, and there are many cases of wives who are depressed to a certain extent and feel that they can no longer bear it, and quietly commit suicide with their children.

Therefore, fathers should be vigilant and never cause such a tragedy in their own homes.

When he first heard this, Fu Yanfeng panicked.

What's even more alarming is that not long after listening to the doctor's education, such an incident occurred in the city.

A woman who gave birth soon after she complained that her mother-in-law's cooking was not delicious, so she was reprimanded by her husband, and she jumped off the building without thinking about it.

The person died on the spot.

Thankfully, she didn't hold the baby with her.

However, the child lost his mother before the full moon, which can also be described as a tragedy.

When the incident first came out, many people immediately blamed the woman who committed suicide, thinking that she was too narrow-minded, so they reprimanded her suicide for a few words.

However, the doctor later came forward to clarify, saying that the woman had mild depression before childbirth, and it was more serious after childbirth, and she suggested that the woman's husband take her to a psychiatrist for a good chat, but the other party did not take it to heart.

It turned out to be an accident.

In the end, the woman's husband cried so much that he was wrong in front of the camera of the reporter's interview, saying that he did not expect such a cloud......

But what's the use of crying again?

People are gone.

The direction of public opinion has changed, and I began to sympathize with that woman.

But none of this means anything to her and her family anymore!

Fu Yanfeng happened to see this news, and his heart was shocked.

Because Gu Er herself is a person who is used to keeping things in her heart, and she loves to think crankily, if she feels uncomfortable in something, but she refuses to say it, but just ferments in her heart, will it lead to psychological problems in the end?

In those days, as soon as he came over every day, he asked Gu Er how she was doing today, what she had done, how her sister-in-law and Gu Hui were doing, and whether she had met people and things that made her unhappy...... Gu Yi rolled her eyes when she asked, once she joked that "I'm very unhappy today", but Fu Yanfeng looked solemn and asked her what was going on, and the posture seemed to be eager for her to say the name of the person, and immediately find the other party to settle the account, and she had to be satisfied and happy!

Gu Er was stunned, and said that he was joking.

Fu Yanfeng's face darkened for half a night, and finally he had to explain the origin of his panic.

Gu Er was silent for a long time.

Since then, the two have converged a lot.

Fu Yanfeng is no longer so nervous, always worried that Gu Er will be depressed after giving birth, and Gu Er no longer jokes about this kind of thing, when asked by him, he will answer obediently, and every time he smiles, his eyes crooked. Because she knew how much he cared about her!

Gu Hui stayed here for two weeks, and finally had to go back to school. Before leaving, he was very reluctant to his nephew.

During this time, he established a good interactive relationship with Qiqi.

As soon as the Qiqi child began to babble, his little uncle followed him to learn his babbling response.

Gu Er deeply suspected that Qi Qi regarded Gu Hui as a peer, otherwise he would not be very excited to see him!

When Gu Hui was reluctant to leave, Qiqi, a little bit, still fluttered his arms and wanted to catch him, but he seemed to be very reluctant!

Gu Yi laughed uncontrollably.