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One day at noon, Liang Bo met a family member with 19 beds while waiting for the elevator, she was holding a bag of fruit in her left hand and a paper bag containing three plastic boxes in her right hand, and the words "Yonghe soybean milk" were vaguely seen outside the bag. As soon as she saw her, she greeted Liang Bo with a smile: "Doctor Xiaoliang, hello, have you eaten?"

"Hello, just finished eating. Liang Bo replied.

"Oh, Xiaoliang, where are you from?" asked the 19-bed family enthusiastically.

"Qi County's. ”

"Oh, Qi County! I've been to that place, and the construction is quite good, and there are a lot of businessmen there, all of whom are so rich. I used to have a customer from Qi County. The 19-bed family members chatted endlessly.

Liang Bo was not interested in such a thing, just as the elevator opened, he quickly diverted the topic, "The elevator is coming, I'll help you mention it." ”

But the family members of the 19 beds said politely: "No, no, it's not very heavy." ”

"It's okay, I'll help you carry it. Liang Bo insisted.

"Not really, Xiaoliang, you're such a nice lad. Liang Bo saw that the 19-bed family insisted, so he didn't ask anymore and walked into the elevator with the 19-bed family member. The 19-bed family did not intend to end the topic just now, and continued to ask: "Do you have any brothers and sisters at home?"

"And a sister. Liang Bo responded.

"Oh, that's good, a son and a daughter, is my sister married?" 19 bed continued.

"It's over. Liang Bo replied helplessly, and was afraid of being questioned further, so he hurriedly added, "I got married and had children." ”

"Oh, that's good, by the way, have you found a girlfriend?" Liang Bo wanted to end such a hukou-style question as soon as possible, but the family members of the 19th bed had no intention of stopping.

In addition to Liang Bo and the 19-bed family members in the elevator, there are 3 other ward family members, although they don't know Liang Bo, but Liang Bo is still a little embarrassed when he is asked these personal questions in public. But it was not good to ignore her, after all, she was an elder, so she reluctantly replied: "No." ”

"Ding-" The 12th floor has arrived. Liang Bo hurriedly escaped from the elevator as if he had caught a savior. Liang Bo thought about walking faster, so as to leave the 19-bed family members behind, but he never expected that the 19-bed family members who had carried heavy objects actually followed, and chased after him and said: "Hey, Xiaoliang, wait for me, I just forgot to take the fruit for you to eat." ”

Liang Bo looked at the old man in his 50s, carrying a heavy object to follow him, and suddenly felt a little guilty about what he thought just now, stopped and hurriedly said: "No need, you can eat, I just finished eating at noon, and I am very full." ”

"Take it, you're full, it's okay to eat later. As he spoke, he forced Liang Bo to give him a big apple.

Liang Bo hurriedly shirked it, and the family member of the 19th bed said: "What's the matter? You don't dare to eat our old man's fruit? It's okay." Hehe... ”

Liang Bo looked at her kind appearance, and suddenly thought of his relatives, so he no longer shirked it, took the apple, and also picked up the bag carried by the family members of the 19th bed to help her send it to the ward.

Maybe it's because the 19-bed patient is the first patient he admits and Liang Bo spends more time on him than other patients; maybe it's because the patient's family members are amiable and easy to get along with, and Liang Bo's care for them is different from other patients, especially because the 19-bed family members feel different from other family members, unlike the relationship between doctors and patients, but more like the elders in the family.

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On the afternoon of the third day of admission to the 19-bed hospital, the final examination report came out, and the diagnosis was pancreatic cancer. Liang Bo took the examination reports to Director Fan to discuss the treatment plan, considering that the patient was still young, he planned to undergo pancreaticoduodenectomy.

After confirming the surgical plan, Liang Bo came to the ward and called the patient and the patient's family to the office, and after the two of them sat down, Liang Bo took out the various examination reports that had been prepared and spread them in front of them, and pointed to the results on the report with a pen and said: "The examination results are out, it is indeed pancreatic cancer." ”

"Are you sure it's that disease?" The patient's personality is completely different from that of his family, or it may be because he is sick so he talks very little, and every time he rounds the ward, the family members are talking, and this time it is the same, the patient's family members say on behalf of the patient, "Then treat, we will treat how we want to treat." Dr. Xiao Liang. ”

"I gave you a general introduction when you were admitted to the hospital," Liang Bowei said, "Our common method of treating pancreatic cancer is surgical resection, and I also discussed with Director Fan, and in your case, pancreaticoduodenectomy is also adopted." ”

"It's just going to be surgery, right? Spend as much as you want. "The patient's family doesn't seem to understand.

Although pancreaticoduodenectomy is a common procedure in hepatobiliary surgery, it is a major operation for patients. There is an unwritten rule in the hospital that when operating on patients over the age of 50, the children are required to be present as much as possible and to sign an informed consent form for the operation. If the operation is unsuccessful or there are complications, the children will "settle accounts after the autumn" on the grounds that the doctor is fooling the elderly, this kind of thing Liang Bo has heard many times. Asking children to be present is not only convenient for doctors to communicate with their families, but also for the sake of self-protection.

Liang Bo thought that only these two couples were in the hospital in the past few days, so he asked: "Aunt Wang, let's see if you want to ask your children to come over and discuss it, after all, this is a major operation, and the pre-operation conversation still involves signing, it is best if your children can be present." "Aunt Wang, she is a family member of the 19th bed, Liang Bo was embarrassed to call it this way when they met several times before, but now that she is more familiar, she is not so angry.

"It's okay, although my aunt doesn't read much, we have been in business for many years, and I still know common words. Aunt Wang turned her head to look at the patient and continued, "And I can sign it." ”

"Yes, any operation has a certain risk, and we can't predict the sudden situation on the operating table, and we have to explain these situations to you in advance. Liang Bo looked at the patient, "It's best if your child can come, after all, young people will have better understanding than you." ”

"It's okay, Xiao Liang, uncle and aunt believe in you, whatever you tell us, we will do it. Aunt Wang insisted.

"Doctor, it doesn't matter, I can sign it or anything. When the patient saw that Liang Bo insisted on calling his child over, it was difficult for him to speak.

"It's not that we don't trust you. Liang Bo continued to explain, "We have encountered too many such things, some patients have signed, but after the operation, complications arise and regret that they are unconscious and forced to sign by the doctor, and some children think that the medical expenses are expensive and that we fooled the elderly into doing surgery, and we are all at a loss." ”

"Don't worry, Xiaoliang, we definitely won't be like this. Aunt Wang said firmly.

"I'm not saying you're going to do that, I'm just going to tell you why. Liang Bo was afraid that they would misunderstand, and hurriedly explained, and put himself in his shoes, "There is another very important problem, the patient will not be able to take care of himself for a long time after surgery, and I am worried that you will not be able to take care of it alone." ”

Aunt Wang and the two were relatively isolated in the provincial hospital, and they were very moved to see Liang Bo thinking about themselves so much, and explained: "Xiaoliang, it's okay, you are really a good child, you don't have to worry about your aunt not being able to take care of it, it's really not good, you can also hire a nurse for a few days when the time comes, it's okay." ”

"But our hospital does have such a rule. Liang Bo said embarrassedly, "If the patient has adult children, the operation must be done with the consent of the children, and it is okay to have one child here." ”

Seeing that Liang Bo had been persuading, Aunt Wang suddenly grabbed Liang Bo's hand and said: "Xiao Liang, Aunt Wang knows that you are a good person, we will never be like you said, we don't let the child come, because I only have one daughter, and she married to another province, so it is really inconvenient to come." When we were admitted to the hospital, we discussed it and didn't tell her about our illness. And he said hesitantly, "and... And telling her also worries her. ”

Liang Bo thought to himself, pancreatic cancer is not a minor disease, the degree of malignancy is high, the cure rate is very low, and the mortality rate of surgery is high, I have already told them when I was admitted to the hospital, but they still insist on not letting the child know, if something happens in the future, suddenly tell the child, wouldn't it be even more difficult to accept! Liang Bo was very incomprehensible, and considering that the patient and family were so resolute, it was inconvenient to repeat it again, so he just said weakly: "It is better for the child to be present for such a major operation, and the postoperative care is still individual work." ”

Aunt Wang saw that Liang Bo didn't have such a tough tone just now, so she said, "Hehe... That's okay, Trabeculation. After that, he looked at her husband again, "Xiaoliang, it's okay, you can arrange surgery for us as soon as possible, you don't have to worry about other things, I can handle it alone." ”

The patient also nodded heartily.

Although Liang Bo really wanted to let the patient's daughter come over, the final choice was to respect the opinions of the family, but fortunately, the patient was still young, not yet seventy or eighty years old, so he said: "Okay, I'll tell Director Fan, I will arrange the operation as soon as possible, and I will notify you after the time is confirmed." ”

"Thank you, Dr. Leung. Seeing that Liang Bo agreed, the 19-bed patient smiled and said, "Then you will be busy first, and we will go back if there is nothing to do." ”

"Yes, okay. Liang Bo responded.