199, Concept, Husband and Wife Communication
Gao Shen paused slightly, and his expression was a little uncomfortable, and in the concept he received, it was a man's duty to support his family! There was no reason for a woman to go out and make money.
However, he also knew that his daughter-in-law was different from other women, she accepted more avant-garde ideas, and this kind of thought implanted in the bone marrow could not change because she lived in a different place!
"In this era, this is such a concept! I don't want you to work hard~" Gao Shen said softly.
"You should know that I have different ideologies, and you can't demand me from the standards of women in this era. Moreover, I don't think there is anything hard about this matter, you work hard for this family, I work hard to make money for this family, our goals are the same, we all want this small family to be better. Jing Qing said softly.
In fact, Gao Shen has done a good job, he does not have the machismo that men in this era have, and he does not despise women, and he will also help with some housework, which is very good.
Jing Qingxin also knows that he is also influenced by the traditional ideas of this era, even if he does not have machismo, he does not look down on the status of women, but he is a man and has the pride and dignity that belongs to men.
Therefore, for this point, the two really need to run in well, otherwise it will affect the relationship and relationship between the two for a long time, so it is better to make it clear as soon as possible!
"I know, don't worry, I won't force you to do something you don't want to! For me, your safety is the most important thing!" Gao Shen said in a low voice, revealing a hint of helplessness.
Gao Shen felt that as long as it touched Jing Qing's heart, he would always compromise easily!
For Qingxin's matter of going out to make money, he is indeed a little awkward in his heart, this kind of behavior will make him, as a man, can't help but feel useless!
Because in this day and age, thinking is such a tradition!
If he hadn't met Qingxin, maybe he would have upheld such traditional thinking until he died!
But now, it's different!
"Ah Shen~, thank you!" Jing Qingxin hugged Gao Shen, leaned his head on his chest, and rubbed his face lightly.
"Anyway, you have to remember! Don't do some risky things that involve your own safety!" Gao Shen hugged Qingxin in his arms and said solemnly.
Jing Qing smiled lightly and said, "I know, don't worry, I have a life talisman!" ”
After a pause, Jing Qing said shallowly: "Ah Shen, this family is owned by us together, and it is not your responsibility alone." Both of us have to work hard, you are responsible for fighting for the future, and earn me a military commander's wife, but I have two military commanders' wives in my family, and I can't fall behind, right? So, this is your goal and task. And I'm in charge of taking care of the little family, but I also have to find a goal, you don't want me to be bored in the house every day, right? I also want to find something to do, so that even if you're not at home, I won't be bored. ”
There are still two years before the policy can be completely liberalized, and at that time, everything can be done, but there are still two years to go, and she can't do nothing, right?
can't stay in the military courtyard every day, listen to the military wives talk about the short things in their parents, and then gossip about other people's family affairs, that kind of life is not what she wants.
No matter how beautiful love is, it is inseparable from the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in life! The satisfaction of material life determines the harmony between husband and wife and the duration of marriage.
Therefore, in the past two years, it is better to take advantage of these two years to secretly accumulate some capital, and when the policy is opened, she will have sufficient funds to do it!
Although there are a lot of gold, silver and jewelry in her space, those are all inheritances, not relying on their own skills and labor in exchange, and that kind of success is meaningless!
After listening to Qing Xin's words, the only trace of unease in Gao Shen's heart, all the strangeness disappeared!
Gao Shen chuckled and said, "Give me such a big goal?!Then I have to work harder in the future! I can't let my daughter-in-law fall behind, then I'm embarrassed to face my father-in-law and mother-in-law." ”
Jing Qing said in her heart: "Yes, so, you have to work hard! You have made a name for yourself in the military world, and I will touch your light and work hard to find a way in the business world." Then we will be a strong alliance of military and business, and we will fight invincible opponents all over the world!"
Gao Shen couldn't help but feel a shock in his heart, his daughter-in-law's words made him instantly full of enthusiasm, and his whole body was filled with infinite strength, find the right goal, and move forward bravely!
"Good!" Gao Shen replied.
Qingxin is right, he can't let her live like a woman of this era! That will only wear down her will and block her freedom.
The most important thing is that his daughter-in-law is so good and knows people, if she really lets her serve at home like a little daughter-in-law, then she is really wronged.
Qingxin, there should be a piece of sky of her own, and she can fly freely!
Compared with his daughter-in-law's happiness, his little awkwardness is too insignificant!
He once made a promise that everything should be based on Qingxin's feelings and happiness!
So, thinking about it like this, Gao Shen was completely relieved!
The husband and wife live their lives, and the most fearful thing is that they have their own ideas, but they can't reach a consensus, but they are both stuffy in their hearts, trying to ask or change each other with their own thoughts, so that the longer the time, the more serious the problem will accumulate, or even more!
Unsatisfactory marriage, Jing Qingxin has seen too much in the postmodern era, so she couldn't help but say with emotion: "Ah Shen, if you have any questions or doubts in your heart in the future, you must say it and let me know that everything can be communicated, otherwise we will have disagreements, I don't like to quarrel! I don't want to affect our feelings." ”
Gao Shen tightened his hugging hands and whispered, "There won't be such a day!"
Because in his heart, other aspects can be adjusted, as long as she is by his side! Originally, it was a great fate for them to be together, how could he lose her because of these little things!
"Also, if there is anything in the future, don't easily listen to what others say, you must listen to the other party's personal confirmation!" Jing Qingxin said bluntly, there is no shortage of people with red eyes in life, and where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are women, there are right and wrong gossip! These are simply impossible to prevent!
Hearing this, Gao Shen smiled lowly: "I must trust you." The rest of the people, it doesn't matter! Why do you suddenly say that?"
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