Chapter 27: The Voices of the Doctors' Families
"Yes, the profession of a doctor is very hard, coupled with the incident of Xie Pengfei, I am afraid to think about it, but now it is, not only afraid that their bodies will not be able to bear it, but also worried about whether there will be any malicious patients or family members who will mistreat them. Zhao Qingfang said, "I also told Lianghua about this the night before yesterday, I'm really afraid." ”
"That's right. Ni Nan seemed to remember something after speaking, and added, "By the way, did you watch the evening city in Linzhou yesterday? Yesterday, that program broadcast Xie Pengfei's matter." ”
"Well, I also watched it last night, and the speed of news spread is really fast now, and I see that there are people in the circle of friends who post Xie Pengfei's matter. Zhao Qingfang said, "But the report of that news is too subjective." ”
"That's it!And that content is too directive.,I feel like if there is an injury to the doctor.,It must be that the doctor did something wrong.,No one cares about what's going on.,It's not a big deal to watch the excitement.,You see that some people in the circle of friends say that the doctor has no medical ethics.,And then it's the news that he deserves to be cut?"
"I didn't see that. ”
"My colleague forwarded it to me, and I was very angry when I saw it, but I didn't want to reason with them. Then at night, when I saw the news reported on TV, it was so unscrupulous, and I was speechless. I'm thinking, it's good that Xie Pengfei is in the hospital, and I didn't see the news, otherwise I would have to be angry!" Ni Nan said unjustly for Xie Pengfei, "Let's not talk about whether Xie Pengfei is wrong in this matter, at least the family kills the doctor and it is a crime in itself! Everyone says that they should be cut to life or something, and there are also those who ask the criminal to have his sentence commuted, isn't this not a wrong view? Moreover, the mother of the murderer still looks like she has been wronged, how can they not think about whether Xie Pengfei was not born by his parents!" His son should be forgiven for killing someone, so what should Xie Pengfei do now? ”
Everyone likes to think about their own things from their own point of view, but they are never willing to think about things from someone else's point of view, even if they put themselves in their shoes, they will not make such a thing. Zhao Qingfang agreed.
"Hey... Yes!" Ni Nan sighed and tilted his head to the ceiling and said, "Speaking of this, I can't help but worry about Liang Bo and them! In fact, sometimes I think that we are too worried, but the reality has given us so many living examples, and I feel that God is coming to warn us, which makes us have to think more." ”
"yes! You're right. Zhao Qingfang said empathetically, "But I think it's not a matter for us to live a life like ours all the time, which is not only bad for our health, but also affects their mood, and we can't solve any practical problems even if we think about it too much." ”
"So I don't think about that now, on the day of Xie Pengfei's accident, Lianghua and I had a deep talk, and it can be seen that Lianghua seems to have a deep feeling about Xie Pengfei's matter. Zhao Qingfang added.
"Liang Bo and Meng Lianghua and Xie Pengfei are graduate students and roommates, so they are so familiar, they will naturally feel a lot. After Ni Nan finished speaking, he sighed again, "Hey... Speaking of which, I saw Liang Bo when Xie Pengfei had surgery that day, and no one has seen it until now. I also wanted to comfort and comfort him, but he was not busy making a phone call, and hung up the phone after saying a few words in a hurry, that is, he was in surgery, and he didn't answer the phone directly, and even sometimes he didn't turn off the phone when he went to surgery, but it was the phone answered by the nurse next to him, so that I didn't dare to call casually anymore. ”
"Hey... yes. I'm so entangled in the phone call you said, I'm worried if I don't call, and I'm afraid of disturbing them when I call. Zhao Qingfang agreed with deep understanding.
"That's right, what do you say it's all about? I always feel that we have to think carefully about making a phone call to them, and if we accidentally step on the wrong point, either no one answers, or just want to speak, and the other party says that they are busy, so they hang up the phone. Ni Nan seemed to think of something after speaking, and suddenly said while holding his mobile phone, "By the way, I recently read a paragraph, and I think the content is so appropriate! ”
Ni Nan suddenly got up in spirit, she was lying on the sofa, she sat up all of a sudden, sat upright, cleared her throat, took her mobile phone and read slowly: "Say that a doctor's family complained to the Buddha: She used to think that marrying a doctor was a very proud thing, but after getting married, she realized that it was a ruin! She said that after getting married, she felt that she was like being a junior when she married a doctor, and asked all day if she could accompany me tonight? Why did you leave again? When will you come back?" And when he called him, when he said that he was busy and hung up in a hurry, it was like his wife was by his side, so it was hard to talk about! And when he slept well in the middle of the night and was suddenly called away by a phone call, it was like her wife suddenly came to check on the post. ”
After speaking, Zhao Qingfang couldn't help laughing, covered her mouth and smiled: "Dizzy... It's really apt!"
I saw it on a website a few days ago, and I thought it was written so badly, the person who wrote this is definitely a doctor or a doctor's family, otherwise how could it so vividly express the true feelings of those of us as doctors' families. Ni Nan was in a better mood when he said this, and said with a smile, "By the way, the best is still to come, do you know how the Buddha returned?"
"What do you say?"
"The Buddha said: Female donor, congratulations, you are very happy, because marrying a doctor, you can not only enjoy the name of the main house, but also enjoy the excitement of being a junior, and finally add a sentence, doctor, you deserve ...."
After saying that, the two laughed together.
Ni Nan's joke made the depressed two people relax a lot at once, and Zhao Qingfang said when he saw this: "What he wrote is really good, it can be seen that it is normal for doctors to be so busy, so we should also be calm." ”
"Since these situations are the norm, then we shouldn't pay too much attention to it, right?" Zhao Qingfang continued.
"Hmm. ”
"You usually communicate more, don't hold things in your heart. Zhao Qingfang persuaded again, "Let's go to the hospital this afternoon, won't you be able to see Liang Bo, and you can have a good chat then." ”
Ni Nan heard that Zhao Qingfang's topic had turned to reality again, and said a little helplessly: "Hey... You don't know, we see too little, not like a couple at all, you see, although Meng Lianghua is also very busy, but he often comes to accompany you at night, and I am also very busy at night because of the high school class I am bringing now, sometimes he is a little free, and I have to be on duty at night, so I finally waited until the weekend, and he was always busy. ”
"Tsk... That said, you do have fewer opportunities to see each other. Zhao Qingfang replied.