What kind of wind are you smoking?" Xin Mu was the first to jump out and object.

Mother Yan followed closely: "I said that you two children, one after another come out after dark every day, endlessly." Can't you stop and take care of your children in peace?"

Father Yan hit three times: "You guys, you haven't been a family and don't know that firewood and rice are expensive, you are always so generous, and it will be too late to regret it when you have no money in the future." ”

Only Father Xin didn't say a word, looking out the window, looking like he didn't care about himself.

This result is really unsurprising.

Xin Weiyang sighed slightly: It's not that they haven't considered discussing with the two mothers separately in order to reduce the pressure of negotiation, but Yan Rushun finally felt that there was no need to discuss this matter between the two sides, and if there was more discussion, it might be over.

"It's our business, it's up to us to decide. Tell them it's just a matter of respecting them. Yan Rushun's words moved him.

Therefore, Xin Weiyang raised his anger and said gently but firmly: "Parents, we have already thought about it. During this period of time, your hard work, Shun Shun and I have seen it, the more it will only work harder in the future, in fact, you should enjoy your old age in peace, we can't always trouble you, so let's take care of the children by ourselves. ”

The two mothers and a father made a fuss:

"Where do you call yourself taking care of your children, housekeeping for housework, housekeeping for meals, you would rather trust outsiders than your parents?"

"If you have so much money that you have nowhere to burn, just give us the money, anyway, you have the obligation to support you. ”

"I know you just hate us. Okay, let's go home, and we won't come to your house to make people angry. Don't come to us if anything happens to you in the future. In the future, everyone will live their own way, and they will not get along with each other. ”

Can you use it so hard?

Xin Weiyang's head hurt, but he also knew that he couldn't back down at this time, so he could only speak hard: "Please listen to me, in fact, we decided to do this to save money - we thought about it, this housekeeper is not invited now, but after Sister Zhou leaves." When the time comes, Shun Shun and I will take care of the children by ourselves, and the housekeeping will only do housework, and we have consulted, housework and cooking will be enough for three or four thousand yuan a month, which is much cheaper than the cost of inviting Sister Zhou now......"

Before he could finish speaking, Xin's mother shouted at the top of her voice: "Three or four thousand is also money, how many people work hard to earn three or four thousand yuan a month, Shun Shun can't earn it himself now, why don't you save it?"

Yan's father and Yan's mother's face immediately cast a shadow, the two looked at each other awkwardly, and immediately volunteered: "Yes, yes, if you give me and Shun Shun's father, we will earn this money." ”

They consciously shortened the Xin family, thinking that they could add a little added value to their daughter if they played by themselves.

The problem is that they can pull down their faces to make cattle and horses for their daughter and son-in-law, how dare Xin Weiyang accept this big gift - Yan Rushun knows that he can't divorce him directly.

He decided to cut through the mess quickly: "You don't need to say it, no matter what, we just want to try to see if we can bring the child well by our own strength, lest you always say that we can't even take a child." ”

Yan's father and Yan's mother immediately waved their hands and denied it: "How can we say that, sometimes we say it casually, you are all such atmospheric young people, just forget it after hearing it." ”

Father Yan also instigated Father Xin to be a lobbyist: "Father-in-law, you can tell Yang Yang, he has always listened to you the most." ”

Father Xin shook his head: "The child has his own ideas when he is older, and it is useless for us to say more." Instead of struggling to complain, it's better to let them do it, and when they really can't do it, they will naturally come back to us. ”

Xin Weiyang was grateful in his heart, and hurriedly answered: "Yes, yes, Dad, you are so right." We can't rely on you all our lives, now we have this opportunity not to take the opportunity to exercise, in case you can't help in the future, won't we raise a baby?"

That being said, but the question is how can the two mothers be at ease.

Mother Xin pushed her ex-husband hatefully and shouted: "Oh, I know, you just dislike me for not taking care of the children according to your methods, right?"

"Mom, we didn't say that......"

"But that's what you think. Xin's mother blocked her son's mouth and said to herself, "I admit that my thinking about raising children is different from that of you young people, which is better or worse, and I don't bother to talk to you now." In this way, I can't talk to you about going together, but Shun Shun's mother can always talk to you about going together. In the future, I won't get involved in your child-taking affairs, let Shun Shun's mother help you, this is all right?"

When Yan Rushun heard this in the master bedroom, she couldn't see that her mother-in-law was quite keen, but although this incident had a little impact, it was only one of the reasons. The main reason is that they really don't realize it.

Xin Weiyang's tone insisted, saying that Xin's mother thought too much about herself, and he and Yan Rushun just wanted to be independent and exercise their abilities.

Yan's mother couldn't tell a result when she saw this, so she turned around and went to the master bedroom to find her daughter, sighed and asked in a suppressed voice: "What do you think? I don't make money, and I always ask my husband to spend money lavishly, do you know that this is very annoying to my mother-in-law?"

Yan Rushun also sighed: "It's not that I haven't worked hard to make money, and I'm not a waste of extravagance, I've done my best to make the best arrangements I think, if she can't understand, I really can't help it." ”

Yan's mother was anxious: "How can we say that this is the best arrangement? Back then, we had neither your grandma nor your grandmother to help, and we had to go to work by ourselves, and we had to take care of the children by ourselves, and at the same time, the house was also clean and tidy, so it can be said that we were caught at home and outside."

"Oh, now it's your turn, you don't go to class, the housework is also pushed to the housekeeping, and it's so difficult to bring only the children by yourself, so you have to ask the sister-in-law to help for four months - not to mention the mother-in-law, even I feel panicked. I said don't rely on Wei Yang to do whatever you want if you have feelings for you, the things between the two of you can't be explained, in case you don't have feelings one day, your actions today will become a crime of 'being lazy'. ”

Yan Rushun knew that what her mother said was heartfelt, but the generation gap between the two generations really couldn't be explained. Her three views and life philosophy with Xin Weiyang, no matter how enlightened her mother is, she can't understand it.

She could only say, "Mom, is it the same thing that you took care of your children at that time as I do now? Now, in addition to taking good care of the children, every family has to carry out early education to a greater or lesser extent, which takes a lot of time and energy from parents.

"And you made me feel very satisfied to keep me fed and clothed and protected from harm, I was sent to nursery school when I was one year old and two months old, and the teacher was afraid that I would pee my pants, so I sat on the spittoon for an afternoon......"

Hearing this, Yan's mother immediately exploded: "Do you mean that I abused you at the beginning and didn't take you well? Don't you want to think about it, if I didn't work at that time, would your father be able to support our mother and son......"

I accidentally poked my mother's pain point.

Yan Rushun wiped his face and defended himself helplessly: "Mom, do I mean that? I understand very well that everyone did that in that era, and I never expected you to have the vision and ability to transcend the times, to be honest, I think you have brought me quite well, but the times are developing, and we will definitely do better than your time! So, please don't over-interpret it." ”

Yan's mother's heart knot was untied here, and she grabbed it again: "Why are you embarrassed to say that you are better than us? If you really have the ability, don't hire housekeeping, like me and your mother-in-law back then, take care of the housework by yourself, take care of the children well, and I will serve you." ”

Isn't that vexatious?

Yan Rushun could only smile bitterly: "Mom, is it good for you to be reasonable." I admit that it was not easy for you at that time, but at that time, your father shared the housework and the children, and it didn't matter if you did it well or not, anyway, grandma and grandma would not do work inspections. But now that you have set industry standards for our housework, and I have to keep up with the pace of the times to teach Jian Jian early education, the difficulty level is completely different from yours, how can you use your standards to demand me?"

Yan's mother didn't follow: "Then don't say I'm good, the hot moms in those news are all your peers, people haven't given up their jobs after giving birth to children, and they have to go to the gym in addition to taking the baby, and they have to cultivate such and such hobbies." That's it, other people's babies have not been delayed, they are smart and clever, and they are much more powerful than ordinary children. Why can't you do what people can do?"

Yan Rushun's face was expressionless: "I don't believe it." ”

"What?"

"I don't believe anyone can do it on their own. ”

That's what people say on the news. ”

Yan Rushun sneered: "Then the news must have forgotten to say that there are several nannies at home, a few private trainers and so on." Mom, children's early education can't escape hard work, hard work means that someone must pay the corresponding time and energy, so, I put your words here, these hot mothers must have a logistics support system behind you that you can't imagine. ”

Yan's mother pouted: "You can't do it yourself, and you still say that others can't do it, hypocrisy!"

Obviously, she could think of it after logical analysis, but because she said it, my mother didn't believe it.

Even though they are the closest people, their children do not have the trust of their parents, or their parents do not get the trust of their children, is this due to human nature or culture?

Yan Rushun suddenly felt very sad, and her eyes suddenly became hot.

She forced herself to remain calm, but her tone was inevitably a little angry: "Mom, the kind of hot mom you said, I don't know how they did it." All I know is that I'm not a superman, I'm not a genius, and your daughter is just an extremely ordinary woman. I can't take care of my daughter when I take care of my work, and I can't take care of my daughter when I take care of my daughter, so I can only focus on one thing, and I can only focus on what I think is the most important thing. Please spare me, don't demand me with superhuman standards anymore, I'm really tired!"

She buried her head in her knees and bit her lip and sobbed "woo-woo".

Yan's mother was uncomfortable by her daughter's words, everything she said and did was for her daughter's good, who knew that kindness had no good results, and it seemed that it had caused great pressure on her daughter.

She was so depressed that she couldn't say a word anymore, just clutched her chest and gasped.

"How can you say that about your mother?" Father Yan rushed in from the door and said fiercely, "Do you know, since I knew that you resigned, your mother was so anxious that she couldn't sleep every night, her hair fell out a lot, and her heart hurt from time to time, and she didn't let me tell you." We raised you to such an old age, we didn't enjoy your day's blessings, but we still worry about you, you still say those words, do you want to make your mother angry to death?"

Yan Rushun was stunned.

Moisture slowly filled her eyes.

She knew that her mother had always been worried about her own affairs, but she didn't expect her mother to be so worried.

Whether it is unfounded or unfounded, whether it is a long-term concern or a near-term worry, her mother's heart for her cannot be denied.

Are you really too unfilial?

The steadfastness that had always been unwavering suddenly wavered.

At this time, my mother said in a low voice and earnestly: "Shun Shun, you just find a job, I don't have high requirements, and I don't expect you to earn 10,000 yuan a month, you can have a unit to buy you a social security, get two or three thousand a month, work a little more leisurely, you can take care of the family according to your own will after work, isn't this bad?"

Yan Rushun did not speak.

What her mother said was soaked in her heart. For the first time, she had the idea of giving up writing.

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