However, Qi Qing scoffed at her idea: "When you unload the goods, you will want to stuff it back again." ”

Yan Rushun didn't think: "How could it be?" I want to see it with my own eyes in my dreams, touch its little hands and feet, and tease it to be silly. ”

Qi Qing didn't care: "I also heard this, and when you are born, it will be tested in practice." ”、

She didn't conceive a child, and there really was no comparison.

However, she also knows a little about the story of childbirth: "You must count the fetal movements, I heard that there was a mother who didn't pay attention to the fetal movements, and one day suddenly noticed that there had been no movement in the stomach for a long time, so she hurried to the hospital to check, and the doctor saw that the umbilical cord wrapped the neck tightly, and the fetus was suffocated by hypoxia, and it had become a stillbirth." ”

So terrifying?

Yan Rushun was even more nervous.

Every day, as soon as I have time, I start pinching the time.

However, counting the fetal movement is also a headache.

Other people's children are punching and kicking in their mother's womb and making trouble in the heavenly palace this month, and it is not too easy to count. Her child is lazy and lazy all day long, and many times she can't tell whether the goods in her stomach are moving, or if her own intestines are moving after eating too much.

I often fall asleep when I count and count, and I only count again when I wake up.

Later, thinking about it, it was really annoying, so she simply bought a fetal heart test.

So, every night, Xin Weiyang was like a demining scout, holding a fetal heart rate to probe the fetal heart rate everywhere on his wife's big belly.

The powerful thumping sound must be heard so that the two of them can sleep peacefully.

This period of time can be regarded as the most harmonious days for Yan Rushun and her mother-in-law.

Yan Rushun had to sigh: In some ways, mother-in-law and mother are easier to communicate than their own mother.

Taking advantage of the harmonious atmosphere, she decided to communicate with her mother-in-law by the way, and try to reach a consensus on the child's upbringing after birth, and then play happily, oh no, it is a happy cooperation!

After this communication, she found out that her mother-in-law and her mother were not in tune with her anywhere, such as:

She said that babies have physiological O-shaped legs, and they don't need to be swaddled and strapped. Xin's mother had already taken out the old-fashioned legging-type baby carrier she had prepared;

She said that babies do not need to use children's language, and can directly use normal adult language, just slow down the speed of speech, so that language skills can be developed. Xin's mother said disapprovingly: You know what a person who has never raised a child, children like to listen to people about eating, pulling stinky smells, and turning on lights;

She said that the child has just been born and has low immunity, so she should try to avoid too many visits from relatives and friends to avoid spreading the germs to the baby. Xin's mother had an expression of "you have a lot of rules", and then Balabala's teaching she should understand the sophistication of people, and not always use bad intentions to speculate about relatives and friends......

It's hard to list them all.

Yan Rushun emphasized that his methods are the result of scientific research, and there are many examples to prove it.

Xin's mother insisted: For thousands of years, Chinese have been raising children like this, and I haven't seen anyone bring out a problem, so don't let the layman command the insider to teach me this old driver.

It took more than half a month, no matter what, neither of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law could convince anyone.

Yan Rushun was anxious: The baby is about to come out, but the opinions of teammates are different, you work hard this way, I work hard over there, the child is in a state of five horses at any time, how can he grow up happily?

The problem is serious and time is of the essence.

She immediately found Xin Weiyang and issued a death order: It must be solved for me!

The first S-level task issued by his wife, Xin Weiyang attached great importance to it.

But in the words of Yan Rushun: "It's not enough to pay attention to it, I also have to look at the results." ”

And Xin Weiyang said helplessly: "We currently attach importance to this matter, except for seriously stating our position and attitude, we have nothing else to do for the time being." ”

This one...... It seems to be true, too.

You can't let Xin Weiyang use a knife to force her mother-in-law to recognize her own concept.

However, just like he said, the position and attitude must be clear in advance, and only then can there be evidence to follow when fighting in the future.

So, Yan Rushun turned the book again, and summarized the words and deeds of her mother-in-law, and drafted a "Common Code for Infant Raising Families" (hereinafter referred to as the "Code") overnight, listing 20 key points that are most likely to disagree, describing in detail the operating principles, and even decomposing actions, which should be both a position and a popular science education.

Xin Weiyang solemnly invited the parents of both sides to meet and held the first consultation meeting of all family members.

He said frankly: "First of all, parents are ready to help with the child, we are very grateful, but in order not to have too many contradictions and conflicts because of the child in the future, damage the feelings between family members, we think it is necessary to unify the guiding ideology, and at the same time determine the project leader of the project with children, once there is any disagreement in the future, the opinion of the project leader shall prevail." ”

Xin Weiyang is a person who has been holding all kinds of meetings, and he is talking about these clichés to speak with the leaders of the two sessions.

The mothers on both sides didn't have the consciousness of the delegates at all, and they laughed before he finished speaking, and laughed so much that they were arrogant and arrogant, and tears were soaring.

This one patted that one on the shoulder and said, "Ouch, I've opened my eyes, it's the first time I've seen someone who has to have a family meeting specifically for the sake of taking care of the children." ”

The one slapped the Code and said, "yes, there's a meeting paper." Oh, take a look, it's simply Tao Xiucai's song to the mountain song - pulling a boat of books is now turning over and singing. I'm laughing to death!"

This one laughed and said: "I think we both took the children in vain thirty years ago, and now we have to fry a pot of meat in the hands of the two babies." ”

That should be and: "Yes, yes, those who have brought babies have become laymen, and those who have never done have become experts." ”

The two mothers said one sentence on the left and one sentence on the right, and said Xin Weiyang and Yan Rushun's face was purple.

They really don't think there's anything funny about it:

Are there fewer families who quarrel and quarrel for their children?

Wouldn't it be better if we didn't make it clear in advance and wait until it was time to carry it out?

Do you have to wait for the woman and the man to quarrel until the divorce before they start paying attention?

However, not to mention the two mothers, even the two fathers are also very happy.

Yan Rushun was angry, Xin Weiyang cheekily defended: "Mom, Shun Shun has specially gone to kindergartens, early education institutions and private schools to study, and the current education concept is completely different from your era, can't you learn it with an open mind?"

Xin's mother leaned forward and backwards for a while: "Then what do you mean, the person in charge of the project is Shun Shun?"

Xin Weiyang was categorical: "Of course it's Shun Shun, she is the child's mother, and of course she has the final say on how to take the child." ”

"She?" Xin Mu laughed uncontrollably, "It's good that she can understand herself, and you still want her to command the two of us, ouch, I've never heard such a funny joke in my life." ”

Yan Rushun's face turned black into the bottom of the pot: "Mom, why didn't I understand myself?"

Xin's mother replied casually: "You don't even understand where your future job is, what kind of children are you worried about." After giving birth, it is a serious thing to find a job as soon as possible. ”

A burst of anger exploded in Yan Rushun's mind: I thought that my mother-in-law understood her choice, and she was quite grateful, but as a result, people didn't care about it, but they didn't say anything, but in fact, they looked down on it in their hearts.

Xin Weiyang defended: "Mom, Shun Shun has a job. She's writing it. ”

Xin's mother looked like she laughed off my big teeth: "Ouch, what kind of serious work is writing, how much money can you make?"

didn't make much money, Yan Rushun deeply felt that this society was terrifyingly snobbish.

She gritted her teeth and asked, "Isn't it a serious thing to take care of children?"

The mother-in-law said with a smile: "You young people, you still have to focus on your career." You say that you are in the prime of life, and you are a college student, and you end up doing things that only old mothers and country women do?

The previous words were already very poisonous, and the last fluttering sentence even turned Yan's mother into a pig's liver face.

Since she was embarrassed and ashamed, she glanced at her daughter with a complicated expression, and her eyes seemed to say: Look, I said a long time ago that your mother-in-law can't tolerate a housewife's daughter-in-law, right?

Yan Rushun was so angry that her brain was dizzy, she raised her voice, and her tone was sharp: "Mom, education is a century-old cause, and family education is the cornerstone of the entire education project.

The atmosphere suddenly changed from cheerful to grim.

was yelled at by her daughter-in-law in public, and Xin's mother's face immediately sank.

Xin Weiyang held Yan Rushun steadily, and at the same time stroked her back to comfort her that "emotions can't be too excited" and "Be careful that it's not good for children" - for fear that if she gets excited, something will happen in her stomach.

Father Yan and Father Xin also hurriedly stood up and persuaded them.

Father Yan shouted: "Shun Shun, how can you talk to your mother-in-law?

Yan Rushun's eyes were red: "Dad, when you are reasonable, can you not talk to me about morality?"

Father Yan said angrily: "If you have a reason, you won't talk about filial piety?"

Yan Rushun took the opportunity to grab words: "Oh, that means you also think I have a point, right?"

Father Yan: "...... Is this what I'm talking about?"

Yan Rushun raised his head: "Why isn't it? We have been discussing the matter of taking children!"

Father Xin said: "Fu Yiying, when you say that you have children, you say that you have children, why did you talk about the work of Shun Shun?"

Xin's father couldn't stand it anymore, and she stiffened her neck and shouted: "Why can't I say it? You go and ask your in-laws, they spend so much money to send their daughter to college, and finally become a housewife, don't they feel ashamed?"

Mother Yan was still bowing her head and being ashamed, but when she heard Mother Xin's words, her strength came up.

She stood up and pushed the chair: "Mother-in-law, what do you mean? Could it be that our Shun Shun has no job for the time being, so we will lose your face?"

Xin's mother crossed her waist and said, "Am I still going to be proud?"

Mother Yan's eyes were red with anger: "Shun Shun resigned in order to keep the child, according to what you said, Shun Shun should go to drain now, this child doesn't give birth!"

Xin's mother was also angry: "It's great to have a child? I have also given birth, every woman has to give birth, and your daughter can threaten all of us when she is pregnant with a child?

Xin Weiyang and Father Xin shouted at the same time: "Shut up!"

The scene was chaotic.

Xin's mother was yelled at by her son and ex-husband at the same time, and she muttered unconvinced: "What I said is the truth, I don't know if I am loyal to my ears......"

Yan's mother was angry and hateful: "Since my family Shunshun has embarrassed you, then you can divorce your son and my daughter!"

Yan Rushun's tears flowed down.

She noticed that her mother was angry and covered her chest at the same time, obviously angry and angry. Her strong heart is passed on from her mother, and she knows very well how much her mother wants face in front of people.

Because of her insistence, her mother was ruthlessly cut face by her mother-in-law, and her mother obviously did not approve of her being at home full-time, but she stepped forward to protect her and speak for her. This especially made her feel ashamed of her mother, insulting her parents, and being extremely unfilial.

At this moment, she was so sad that her liver and intestines were broken.

Xin Weiyang didn't understand why he was talking about taking care of the children, and how it ended up being a divorce discussion between him and his wife.

However, he knew that he had to find a way to calm his mother-in-law's anger now.

He apologized and explained, saying that his mother was straightforward and fast-talking, and he couldn't talk brainily, so he asked his mother-in-law to forgive him.

Father Xin tacitly helped him suppress his ex-wife and prevent her from making trouble again.

However, Yan's mother was so angry that she was determined to take Yan Rushun away, and scolded her daughter: "People dislike you so much, why are you still relying on not leaving? Our daughter of the Yan family is not so cheap!"

Yan Rushun gasped with tears in her eyes and said, "Mom, I'm sorry...... But my stomach hurts......"

One sentence flashed so that everyone lost their souls, and the whole room was full of chickens and dogs:

"Lie down, lie down!"

"Look inside your pants and see if you're red?"

"Mom, why is Shun Shun's stomach as hard as a stone?"

Yan's mother shouted: "Contractions! 120 ......."

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