Before reaching the wave line, the Xin'an children cried and hugged their mother's thighs, no longer moving half a step forward, and screamed: "Mom, I'm afraid, I'm afraid!"

Yan Rushun's head was crawling with black lines in an instant: the picture she sketched shouldn't be like this, her Jian Jian shouldn't be Ye Gong's good dragon's child!

I was obviously very yearning for the sea before, how could this be?

A flash of inspiration flashed in her mind, and she suddenly reacted: it must be her mother and mother-in-law who are talking nonsense in front of Jian Jian, saying that it is so dangerous and dangerous, and Jian Jian, a sensitive little girl, listened to it in her ears and became interested.

Children are too clever, and sometimes it's not a good thing.

This trip to Thailand cost the whole family tens of thousands, and one of the main goals is to let Jian Jian run, what is going on now!

Yan Rushun wanted to cry without tears, and at the same time made up her mind that she must remind her mother and mother-in-law when she went back, so that they would never talk nonsense in front of Jian Jian again.

And now, it's all coming, so it's natural to give it a try.

She called Xin Weiyang, and the two of them tried their best to sweat all over their bodies, and finally coaxed the little girl to soak her feet in the seawater. But the next moment, the little one rushed back to the shore as if he had stepped on a soldering iron.

it!

Yan Rushun was so tired that she panicked, and her liver hurt so much.

There was no way to reason with the old man about this matter, so she was very immoral and poured her anger on her husband: "I'll leave it to you, I must let her move today." ”

Xin Weiyang's face was embarrassed: "Why me? Doesn't she listen to you more?"

"Usually you don't have time to cultivate a relationship with your daughter, I'm giving you a chance now, don't you want it?" said softly, but the expression was clearly threatening.

My wife is going crazy!

Xin Weiyang shuddered and hurriedly went to coax her daughter to take a walk along the coastline.

Then, as much as he could, the little one did his best to make the professor's father collapse on the beach, and he was as straight as a dog.

Seeing that Xin Weiyang also tried his best, Yan Rushun couldn't force him anymore, but it wouldn't work if it went on like this.

She thought about it for a while, and patiently began to popularize correct safety knowledge to her daughter.

Speaking of which, safety should have been on the daily schedule.

Two or three years old is the time when curiosity is heavy, and it is also the time when everything around you is specious, if you don't teach more safety knowledge, I am afraid that I don't know when there will be an accident that people regret.

Among the three basic abilities of self-care ability, learning ability and self-protection ability, self-care ability should actually be the highest priority.

It's just that Jian Jian spent more time at home and had few opportunities to go out before, and Yan Rushun didn't have a particularly good opportunity to tell her safety-related issues in addition to prohibiting her from entering the kitchen and bathroom alone.

This is a good opportunity.

So, Yan Rushun talked eloquently about the safety matters that should be paid attention to when crossing the road, told her what the car accident was about, and also told her that there are many people who die in car accidents every year in the world.

At the end, his tone changed: "But, because there are car accidents and deaths every year, can we just go off the road and not go out?"

Jian Jian thought for a moment and shook her head: "No." ”

Yan Rushun was overjoyed in her heart and continued to deepen the effect of education: "Yes, you see that Dad must go out to work, Grandpa must go out to buy vegetables, Grandma must go out to run errands, and you must also go out to school in the future." So, can we stop going out because there's going to be a car accident on the road?"

"No, you can't. ”

"You're right, we can't afford not to go out, but we can cross the street in a safe way, so we can get out and avoid danger, right?"

"Yes. ”

"In the same way, the sea is dangerous, but can we not touch the water in our lives? You don't drink water, okay?" Yan Rushun smoothly turned the topic back to the sea.

Jian Jian also looked obediently taught: "No." ”

"That's right, so we have to learn to harness the water, not be afraid of it. As she spoke, she pointed to the swimmers and surfers along the entire coastline, "Look at those uncles and aunts, they have learned to control the water, so they are not afraid of the water." And those older brothers and sisters, and younger brothers and sisters, do you see, they are now playing in the waves while learning to control the water, isn't it a smart thing to do?"

"Yes. Jian Jian also nodded obediently.

Yan Rushun breathed a sigh of relief, and at the same time secretly rejoiced: thanks to her full-time baby, she established a deep parent-child relationship with her daughter, so Jian Jian could listen to her so much and listen to her reasoning.

It's rare to see a two-year-old doll like this who is willing to be reasonable!

Accompanied by such an exclamation, there is also a slight swelling of pride in my heart.

"Come, Jane, Mom will take you to tread water, it's fun. Don't be afraid, Mommy will protect you. ”

She took her daughter's hand with great interest and slowly approached the beach.

This time it's going to be fine.

However, reality once again proved that she was too stupid and naïve.

Jian Jian still didn't hold back the fear in her heart, screamed, ran away, fell into her grandmother's arms, and refused to move half a minute.

Yan's mother and Xin's mother began to work together to teach Yan Rushun:

"Oh, why do you have to force An An to do things she doesn't like? Let the family dress themselves, eat by themselves, these will happen sooner or later, do some things to help the seedlings grow. Look, it's scaring people now, right?"

"It's good to bask in the sun, why do you have to go to the water. Come on, Jane, let's go buy coconut to drink, it's not easy to drink this thing when we go back. ”

Jian Jian cheered, followed Grandma and left, leaving her face like Shun alone in the wind.

Oh my God, it's all pig teammates, why don't they have a god to assist?

She angrily pulled Xin Weiyang's ears, gritted her teeth and said angrily: "You didn't say to help me!"

Xin Wei raised her teeth and grinned and shouted: "I don't know how to help." ”

So, what is the use of this partner except for firing guns?!

Yan Rushun kicked him angrily.

Xin Weiyang hugged his feet and jumped straight with an "ouch": "Why have you become so rude now?"

"I'm sorry, I've always been like this!" Yan Rushun snorted, thinking left and right, and lifting his knee to give him a kick.

Xin Weiyang hurriedly jumped away and shouted: "I thought about it, I know how to make her exercise." ”

"Say!"

Xin Weiyang glanced at Jian Jian's position, lowered her voice and said, "Doesn't she like to eat?" ”

This one...... It's a good idea.

Anyway, there's no other way, so we can't waste this opportunity to come out and wave.

Fortunately, this part of Thailand is hot, but as long as it is in a shady place, there is a gentle sea breeze, it is also comfortable and cool.

Yan Rushun followed Xin Weiyang's method to find out the food strategy, and asked everyone to walk to find food to fill their stomachs, and by the way, take a look at the exotic customs.

Xin's mother was puzzled: "Didn't we say that we would cook and eat by ourselves?"

Yan Rushun offered the classic line: "It's all here......"

Everyone stared at her with green eyebrows, and she continued in a cheerful tone: "You must always taste the local characteristics." ”

The reason was so strong that everyone was finally persuaded by her to go to a certain food place together.

Then, the whole trip was the process of Yan Rushun pulling Xin Weiyang to constantly play in the ring with the four old people and Xin'an children.

"Mom, I'm tired, carry me away. ”

"Jian Jian, hold on, if you go to the destination by yourself, we will give you the biggest shrimp, okay?"

"It's not good, I want to hug, I can't walk. "Jian Jian couldn't be more familiar with all kinds of tricks.

Yan's mother couldn't help but interject first: "Oh, how old are people, just hug it." ”

"Mom, I've only walked a few steps. Didn't you say she needs to exercise?"

"Hug it, it's nothing. "Father Yan is naturally quite a wife.

"No, at least let her walk on her own for a while, you can compromise so easily, and she will only get more and more inches in the future. Before Yan Rushun finished his categorical words, his father didn't say a word, picked up his granddaughter, and walked forward quickly.

Yan Rushun stomped her feet angrily: "Dad, you put her down!"

"Oh, you don't listen to your parents?" Xin's mother also began to stir up the situation.

Fortunately, this time Xin Weiyang didn't keep watching, and helped block it: "Mom, we said that we all listened to Shun Shun about Jian Jian's affairs, so don't worry about it." ”

Xin's mother glared: "How can I say that I am also a grandmother, and I can't say a word?" Then you just don't recognize me as a mother." ”

"Mom, these are two different things, can we not mix them up and just talk about things?"

"Fart, how can I mix it up? The Chinese tradition is not to respect the old and love the young? Should you little two listen more to the old man and love An An more? As a result, what are you all doing? You have been torturing An An for a long time, such a small person, you can bear it?"

The mother and son of the Xin family quarreled non-stop.

Here, Yan Rushun forced her father to put people down, but when Jian Jian saw that someone was supporting her, she immediately began to cry and make a fuss.

Father Yan suddenly roared angrily: "Look, look, the child is fine, you have to make her cry." Is there anything you can't go back to teach you a lesson? I have to be embarrassed in front of foreigners!"

Damn, if you hadn't made your own decisions, how could Jian Jian be like this?

Yan Rushun felt that why did he have to plan a family trip without dying, this was simply asking for guilt!

She took a deep breath, pressed her breath down, and said patiently: "Dad, Mom, compared with Jian Jian's education, losing face is not a big deal at all. Please ask yourself, dare you say that what you are doing now is not a doting on Jane, and if she can not listen to what I say, then how will you let me educate her in the future?"

Xin Weiyang immediately said: "Mom, Dad, let's listen to Shun Shun in this matter." Walking is not a bad thing for Jian Jian. ”

The two fathers were speechless.

Mother Yan hesitated a little, lowered her head but saw Jian Jian's dark eyes full of grievances, and she didn't know what to do for a while.

Xin's mother cleared her throat and said, "Education is not at this time. You should be happy when you come out to travel, right?" After that, she beckoned to her granddaughter and said seriously, "An An, grandma has agreed with you, we can hug you when you come out to travel these days, but you must exercise more after you go back." ”

I thought that I was exhausted, but suddenly the willows and flowers were bright, Jian Jian was naturally busy nodding his head "um", and then happily threw himself into her grandmother's arms.

The temperament of a child is only in front of him, and he is in charge of the future.

And this is not the first time this has happened.

Yan Rushun dared to bet with her full net worth: she still won't be able to exercise after she goes back! And at that time, grandma could also find other reasons to excuse her.

In this way, tomorrow after tomorrow, never think that she has made the slightest progress. What's more, not only has her authority as a mother been hit, and it will be difficult to educate Jian Jian in the future, but Jian Jian is likely to encounter difficulties in the future, and she will immediately retreat into her comfort zone - because others have even found a reason for her to be lazy, what reason does she have to overcome that discomfort?

If it goes on like this, there will be no hope in the future!

Thousands of miles of embankment, collapsed in the anthill.

No, absolutely not!

Yan Rushun was so angry that she wanted to blow up, and she decided to let it go, even if she tore her face with her mother-in-law and didn't get along with her old age, she had to pull Jian Jian down today.

Knowing that the daughter is like a mother, Yan's mother caught a glimpse of her face, hurriedly grabbed her, and quickly persuaded: "Hey, Shunshun, it is difficult for the family to come out, why embarrass everyone? Listen to me today, don't make trouble for the time being, you want to educate us to go back and educate slowly, ah?"

Yan Rushun's face was like frost, and she said coldly: "Mom." It is not that preaching and teaching is called education, Mr. Tao Xingzhi said that life is education. Moreover, life should be the greatest education. So, with all due respect, I'm going to do it again today. ”

With that, she shook it hard, broke away from her mother's hand, and strode forward.

The situation is on the verge of breaking out!

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