Chapter 259: Teach the Son Again
All the women in the backyard of the house know a hidden rule, if any one is pregnant, the master will visit at the same time, and will also rest in the pregnant person's house.
So, when he learned that the master did not rest at the Guerjia clan, he speculated in his heart. At the same time, I also look forward to the grandfather coming to their house to rest.
After all, since he came back, he has been resting in the study.
It's been so long, it's time for you to come to the backyard, right?!
And a dream is a dream, it will always be a dream, the fourth master went back to the study after coming out of the peach courtyard directly, and never came out again until the lights went out.
The girls in the backyard suddenly had their dreams shattered, all kinds of resentful women, all kinds of tossing and turning, and couldn't sleep.
Taoyuan, Jia Ming and Hongxuan had a good night's sleep.
Early in the morning, the mother and son woke up early and took a walk among the flowers and plants in the yard.
Among the bushes, there was no one around, Jia Ming told Hongxuan, "Later, I will go to the end courtyard to see your sister-in-law, don't speak so coherently, say so many words, be brief, it's better to talk less, listen more, and watch more." ”
It's really that the little guy is too smart, and everyone in the house knows that he will definitely be regarded as a thorn in his side. Even if she protects him well, she is afraid that those people will be desperate to deal with the little guy, after all, she can't guarantee that he will always be well protected, and there will be no accidents, and there will be no accidents.
"Why?" the little guy who was walking a step in front of Jiaming turned his head, stopped, tilted his head to look at Jiaming, and asked.
Jia Ming didn't stop, and continued to walk forward, while thinking, while holding the little guy's little hand, and after walking together, he said, "You know the pearl, right?"
Xiao Hongxuan nodded, and said in a milky voice: "I know." ”
"Is it better to be round and full, lustrous and transparent, or is it better to have pearls of other shapes and colors?" Jia Ming asked with the pearls that the little guy had seen and understood.
The little guy replied without hesitation: "Round and full, luster and transparent, good with treasure light." ”
Jia Ming nodded, stretched out her hand to push up the peach branch that was blocking the way in front of her face, and continued to walk with Hongxuan, continuing as she walked: "So, under the same conditions, people like high-quality pearls that are round and full, luster and transparent, and have treasure light, you know." ”
"Understood. After the little guy finished speaking, he pouted, "But E-niang said this, what does it have to do with going to E-niang to talk less?"
Jia Ming smiled and touched Hongxuan's head with her free hand.
The little guy looked up with questions in his big eyes and looked very cute.
couldn't help it, Jia Ming was about to put down his hand, and continued to touch the little guy's head. At the same time, there is a look on your face that you are so cute, and Eniang likes it very much.
Little guy: If "......" can be embodied, you can clearly see the black line at the door of his head.
Jia Ming understood the little guy's expression, but she was not embarrassed at all, she calmly and naturally put down the hand that touched her head, cleared her throat, and continued: "Of course it matters." ”
"What's the relationship?" asked Hongxuan.
"E-Niang told you so!" Jia Ming suddenly stood still, pulled Hongxuan face to face, looked at him and said: "Smart and clever people are just like the superior pearls, and those ordinary people are just like the inferior pearls." ”
Hongxuan still didn't quite understand what he wanted to express, and frowned slightly.
Jia Ming continued: "Do you remember your third brother Hongshi?"
"Yes. Hong Xuan replied.
"Your third brother is older than you, but you speak earlier than your third brother, you can walk and run early, you know a little more than him, and your body is stronger than him, isn't it?" Jia Ming continued to ask.
Hongxuan thought about it and nodded, really.
"Then use pearls as an analogy, you are a better pearl, and your third brother is a little worse. ”
Hongxuan was taught by him Ama to be quite brotherly, although he was not so familiar with his third brother, but he also understood, seeing that his third brother was compared to a not very good pearl by Eniang, his brows frowned a little, and he was a little unhappy.
However, he could still understand the metaphor and continued to nod.
"For pearls, better pearls are more endearing under the same conditions, but people are different. Jia Ming continued.
When the little guy heard this, he thought for a moment, and then looked at him with burning eyes.
"Not everyone will like you", Jia Ming stared at Hongxuan, and said it word by word.
Xuan'er understands that Li Eniang doesn't like Xuan'er. Hongxuan couldn't help but recall the feeling she felt when she felt Li Eniang and them looking at her since she was a child.
"It's good if you understand", Jia Ming said this, after a pause, continued: "People who don't like you, don't like you to behave well, to use pearls as a metaphor, that is, you are someone else's pearl, and this other person is what they hate, then of course they want other people's pearls to be inferior, and their own pearls are superior, better than others, they are happy." ”
After a long paragraph, Jia Ming was not worried at all that the little guy who was only three years old could not understand.
Sure enough, as she expected, Hongxuan understood, "Li Eniang, I don't like Xuan'er's performance, well, better than the third brother?"
Jia Ming nodded, "It's not just your mother, but many people who don't like you don't like you to perform well", speaking of this, her face suddenly became extremely solemn, "If you perform even better, they who don't like you will even ruin you."
For example, if there are only two pearls in the world, and other people's high-quality pearls are destroyed or even disappeared, then they don't like others, and the inferior pearls in their hands are the best. ”
Hongxuan, whose IQ and EQ are comparable to that of a six- or seven-year-old child or even higher, immediately understood when he heard this, his frowning brows loosened, and he made a solemn promise to Jiaming: "E-Niang, don't worry, Xuan'er understands and will talk less." ”
Speaking of this, he suddenly had an idea and added: "Just like Amma, he is short of words." ”
"Yes, that's it, but you have to be careful. ”
"Where?" asked Hongxuan, puzzled.
"Think about how your third brother speaks", Jia Ming didn't wait for Hongxuan to answer, and didn't even give him time to think about it before continuing: "Is it the wrong order of speech, after listening, the listener has to rearrange the order of his words to understand." ”
Xiao Hongxuan thought about it, and nodded his little head, it was true.
"It's good if you understand", Jia Ming gave Hongxuan an idea: "In your grandmother and Li Erniang, or others, well, let's put it this way, in addition to Eniang here, there is also your Ama place, you follow your third brother to learn, just talk like that." ”
However, it was not right to think about it, and immediately denied: "No, you were quite logical in what you said before, but you couldn't say long sentences." Forget it, you follow your third brother's example, just say a few words, just pause, don't say too long, you don't need to learn from him to speak upside down or something. ”
Hearing this, Hongxuan nodded, "Understood." ”
"If you understand, you have to do it well, E-Niang is worried that your performance is too good, too eye-catching, and people in the house who don't like you will shoot at you. ”
Because Jia Ming has experienced the end times, he doesn't care whether the child should learn at this age or not, but tries to teach everything to the child, plus Hongxuan's IQ and EQ are much higher than those of his peers, so many things are not hidden from him.
Fortunately, she has not forgotten to teach the little guy the truth of being a man since childhood, that is, to have principles.
The experience of the last days warned her that without principles and without a bottom line to adhere to, her heart will be extremely empty and she will live in a blank and empty life. She had seen many such people, and it was more uncomfortable to live than to die.
Therefore, at a young age, Hongxuan, even if he was taught the darkness in the world by Jia Ming, he was still not stained with darkness, and his bright smile still infected warm people, and he was still loved by his uncles who were brothers and sisters in front of him, and uncles who stumbled each other in the future.
Then, she repeated once again that there was no need to hide it from him Amma, that is, the fourth master.
"Why is that?" the little guy seemed to understand.
The reason for Jia Ming is that the royal family is more suspicious, and Hongxuan is honest and frank to the fourth master, which makes them have less suspicion between father and son, and more true feelings, with the fourth master's love for the little guy, the relationship between father and son must have been good, so that the little guy can live better.
Of course, she wouldn't say this to Hongxuan, after all, the meaning of the words always seems to be calculated.
She only said to Hongxuan: "You Ama is good to you, and people who are good to you always want you to be good, or even better." That being the case, then you shouldn't let your Amma down, try to make him more satisfied, and you shouldn't hide it from him. He would be unhappy if he knew you were hiding it from him. ”
Seeing Hongxuan pondering, she continued: "You think so, the person you believe in, suddenly betrays you and hides from you, will you be happy?"
The little guy shook his head, "Not happy." ”
"You and your Ama are on good terms, and the relationship is deeper, and it must be deeper than you and the person you believe, right?" Without waiting for the little guy to answer, Jia Ming immediately continued: "Since you can be unhappy because the person you believe in suddenly betrays you and hides from you, then Amma, who has a deeper relationship with you, will be even more unhappy because you hide from him." ”
This analogy, the little guy understood better, and immediately said very firmly: "In the future, Xuan'er will definitely not hide from Amma, and will not make Amma unhappy." ”
Although the goal was achieved, Jiaming didn't feel happy at all, and her heart began to pantothenic acid again.
Really, he was so good to Amma, the little guy was too favoritistic, obviously he was born by himself.