077 Bullying
on the street.
Father and daughter stood on the sidewalk and looked at each other.
It is very remote, and although it is located in Zhonghai, a super first-tier city in China, it is still a scene of urban-rural junction.
On one side is an elevator apartment under construction, and on the other side is an old-fashioned unit building that has been built for a long time.
After Chen Xi put the little guy down, she took a few steps back in front of Chen Xi, and then put her hands behind her back.
Seeing this, Chen Xi wanted to pull her into his arms.
But at this time, the little guy flashed a step back, and didn't seem to want Chen Xi to hug her.
Chen Xi looked at the little guy's expression seriously, but found that her expression was a little strange.
There is a feeling of being wronged, but it doesn't look like it's going to cry, but it pouts, looking very stubborn.
Four-year-olds are not yet fully developed in their language skills, so sometimes, they can only vent their emotions through behaviors such as splashing and rolling, crying, etc.
What kind of parents there are, what kind of children there are.
Aunt Zhang set a good example for Niannian, so Chen Xi firmly believes that Niannian will not hit others for no reason.
"Nian Nian is good, have you suffered any grievances? You tell your father, and your father will avenge you!"
Chen Xi pulled the little guy again, this time she still wanted to flash.
But Chen Xi really wanted to catch it, how could she hide from it?
So he was hugged by Chen Xi all of a sudden.
"Tell Dad, okay?"
Chen Xi scratched her little nose with his hand.
At this time, the big cat also stood at her feet and meowed very well, as if encouraging the little one.
The little one's long eyelashes were lightly fanned twice, and then he twisted his body and said quickly, "I want to play with the big cat!"
Hearing this, Chen Xi immediately let go of her.
It's good to be able to talk......
The little guy took the big cat in his arms, rubbed the big cat with his little head, and then put down the big cat again, squatting on the ground and constantly ** its hair.
She looks like a child who has been wronged and wants to hide in the corner and draw circles!
Chen Xi stood next to her and waited for her for a while, feeling that she should have adjusted almost completely, and then said softly: "Niannian, it's time for us to go home." ”
After speaking, Chen Xi bent down slightly and stretched out his left hand in front of the little guy.
Seeing Chen Xi's outstretched palm, the little guy hesitated slightly, and then slowly raised his little hand.
Big hands lead small hands.
The father and daughter walked slowly down the street, while the big cat followed them from a distance.
When a husky saw the big cat, he immediately rushed over with his tongue flicked.
The big cat didn't pay attention to it, and the husky snorted and snorted around the big cat.
Maybe I find it a little annoying.
The big cat suddenly squinted and turned its head to the husky and growled.
"Meow!"
The sound was not loud, but in an instant, the frightened husky exploded, kicked on all fours, and the body immediately jumped out of the distance, and then ran faster than when he came with his tail between his head and his head.
When you get home.
The little guy seemed to recover a lot, and then he sat directly on the sofa and watched the cartoon by himself.
Chen Xi changed her shoes, saw that she was looking attentively, and did not disturb her, and walked into the kitchen wearing an apron.
Chen Xi tinkled with pots and pans.
Usually at this time, the little guy would always run into the kitchen very clingy, and then laugh and be gently pushed out by Chen Xi.
She clearly had something on her mind today.
As long as human beings are conscious, they will naturally have something on their minds.
Children who are more than two years old will have something on their minds, not to mention that Nian Nian is already more than four years old?
It is not difficult to guess what is on the child's mind, Chen Xi has actually guessed what she is thinking about a long time ago.
It is precisely because of this that Chen Xi chooses to let her be alone.
A child who grows up in a normal environment will definitely hear this kind of education from his parents since he was a child: don't hit people, don't bully people.
This is the first time Nian Nian has beaten someone.
It was precisely because she knew that it was wrong to beat someone, so when Chen Xi took her home, she had such complicated emotions.
This is actually a manifestation of not daring to face the mistakes you have made.
I can't talk about regret, but I will definitely feel very wronged.
Why did others bully me, but I was the one who was scolded for making a mistake in the end?
Even if Teacher Wang didn't blame her, Chen Xi didn't blame her.
But at the moment when she beats someone, there will definitely be a child with a sense of justice who stands up, shouts and beats someone, and then runs to complain to the teacher.
Many parents only pay attention to educating their children, not to hit others, not to bully others.
But if you don't guide your children correctly, what is bullying?
Nian Nian felt very aggrieved.
Chen Xi also felt a little helpless.
Others bullied Niannian, and Niannian also beat others.
Could it be that he, as a parent, had to come forward and kick the child to the moon?
Some things seem simple, but when you really want to talk about them, they become very complicated.
During the meal, the little guy was silent, and after a few bites with a spoon, he threw the spoon away, sat on the sofa and continued to watch TV.
Seeing this, Chen Xi also put down the chopsticks in his hand, then sat down and gently hugged her in his arms, and watched cartoons with her.
Zhonghai is a coastal city, and the sunrise is very early, and the sunset is also early.
And as the sun continued to set, the room became darker and darker.
Chen Xi got up and prepared to turn on the light in the room.
At this time, the little guy noticed his movements and thought that he was leaving, so he immediately grabbed Chen Xi's sleeve and said cowardly: "Baba, I'm sorry......"
After saying that, her tears kept sliding out of her eyes like a dam had opened.
Chen Xi sat back on the sofa.
Gently hugged the little one into his arms, and then comforted: "Good, you are not wrong. ”
Hearing this, she finally couldn't help crying.
Chen Xi waited for her to cry for a while, and after seeing that her emotions were slowly calming down, she gently wiped away her tears and asked with a smile: "Do you want Dad to beat him up and make you angry?"
The little guy leaned on Chen Xi's arms and thought about it, but he still shook his head gently.
"Don't, the teacher said it's wrong to hit someone......"
"It's good that you know. ”
Chen Xi rubbed the little guy's hair with great satisfaction, and then hugged her to turn on the room light.
Then, Chen Xi picked up the bowl and fed her hand-in-hand.
After she shook her head and said that she was full, Chen Xi wiped the corners of her mouth for her, and then turned the little guy's body around and asked her to look at her.
"Remember, remember. ”
"It's not right to bully people, so you should never bully people in the future. ”
"But. ”
"Don't be afraid if someone bullies you in the future......"
"Beat him up!"
"I won't dare to bully you after beating him!"
"Remember?"
The little guy looked at Chen Xi with a very cute expression, and he didn't seem to be able to come back to his senses.
Chen Xi looked at her cute little appearance, and suddenly couldn't help but kiss her on the face.
Night fell.
It was not yet the fifteenth day of August, but a full moon was already hanging high in the sky.
A smile also appeared on the little one's face.
The father and daughter occupied a swing and looked at the moon in the sky.
"Niannian, we don't cause trouble, but we're not afraid of things either...... That's *** said. ”
"Who is ***?"
"Uh......"
"Baba, will Ma Ma go to the moon?"
"No, it won't. ”
"Why?"
"Because Dad has been there. ”
"Baba liar!"