Therefore, things in the world are often as follows: the ideal is very full, and the reality is very skinny.

Obviously, there was such a treasure as Xin Weiyang in front of him, but Yan Rushun entered the treasure mountain and returned empty.

Everything is still self-reliant!

But what is depressing is that although she has studied so many professional books by herself, and even practiced in various preschool education institutions, she still inevitably has to cross the river by feeling the stones when it comes to such a specific issue as her daughter.

When she fed Jian Jian the last time before going to bed at night, Yan Rushun had not yet come out of her depression, but when she saw her daughter eagerly looking at her chest with bright eyes, her heart softened suddenly.

"Snack goods!" she playfully tapped a little on her nose as she unbuttoned her nursing underwear, "It's not easy for your mother and me to raise you, you have to be well-behaved." ”

Jian Jian rounded her eyes and looked at her mother cutely, so indescribably cute.

Mother Yan watched her daughter and granddaughter joke, and also felt that the atmosphere was warm and interesting, and smiled and helped prepare the bottle and breast pump for receiving milk - these are all homework that must be done every time you feed.

While she was busy with her hands, she answered in a soft tone: "Yes, your mother is really hard. Jian Jian, are you well-behaved?"

To say that the cooperation between Yan's mother and daughter is still very tacit these days, and they have always insisted on talking to Jian Jian, fortunately, it is easier for the two to sing double reeds than to talk to the air alone, so the mother and daughter have become accustomed to the state of finding something to say when they have nothing to say.

Yan's mother asked this sentence in passing, of course, she didn't expect Jian Jian to answer, it was usually Yan Rushun who answered on her behalf.

Who knows, at this time, there was a crisp sound of "good-" in the master bedroom out of thin air!

Yan Rushun and her mother were stunned at the same time, glanced at each other, and their eyes invariably fell on Xiao Bu'er's body, and then they each let out an ecstatic shout: "Jian Jian, you can speak!"

Xin'an's child sat on his mother's lap with a confused expression, as if he didn't understand what was going on.

All she could see was her mother and grandmother laughing around her in ecstasy, and repeatedly encouraging: "Jane, say one more, say another." ”

"Ouch, our Jian Jian is really powerful, only six speak. ”

"What, it's only six months in a few days. ”

"Yes, it's been more than five months. You're amazing!"

This movement was too big, attracting both Xin Weiyang and Yan's father.

After the two men learned the reason, they couldn't help but surround in surprise and join the ranks of the army of "one more thing, be obedient or not".

Despite this, the whole family felt like they had been hit by a five-million jackpot, which cannot be overstated.

Yan Rushun was even so excited that she burst into tears: "Wei Yang, look, my efforts with my mother have not been in vain! You see that Jian Jian spoke earlier than you." ”

Xin Weiyang smiled and asked, "I don't even know when I will speak, how do you know?"

Yan Rushun was extremely proud: "If you had spoken a long time ago, our mother would have blown it eight hundred times." ”

This logic ...... There really is nothing wrong with it.

Yan's mother happily leaned in front of her grandson: "Our Jian Jian may also be a genius, better than your father." ”

Father Yan is also happy: "Hey, our Yan family also has genius genes this time." ”

Yan Rushun hurriedly poured cold water: "Don't be happy too early, such a word can't mean anything." ”

She was afraid that everyone would treat Jian Jian as a prodigy too early, so she was killed instead. Now there are simply not too many children with psychosocial problems, and she would rather not have a child prodigy, as long as a child who is physically and mentally healthy.

That being said, Yan Rushun was actually more encouraged than anyone else.

As a parent, how can you not be moved to see your child's growth and progress bit by bit.

Because of this unexpected surprise, Yan Rushun was suddenly inspired by her daughter's development ideas, and she was sad at first, but now she has thought of some ideas in a short time.

It occurred to her that stories like Aesop's Fables, while classic, were still a little too abstract for children living in modern society.

What can touch the nerves of babies the most should be the things that are closest to their lives, so all knowledge and understanding should start from the side.

So, after coaxing Jian Jian to sleep, she was in a high mood and searched the Internet overnight to find a suitable picture book.

Nowadays, picture books are also very rich, not only beautifully illustrated, but also interesting in content.

Yan Rushun looked at a series of recommended lists, her heart was itchy, and she was full of the urge to chop her hands.

Fortunately, she already had an idea before, so she endured it, skipping the unfathomable but popular "Quantum Physics for Babies" and the like, and buying those who sleep, bathe, eat, dress, pull stink, wet the bed, etc.

Then she suddenly remembered that when the university professor analyzed ancient myths and stories, he said that the common repetitive structure in myths and stories is very wise and is based on a simple and profound understanding of human nature, because 80% of everyone's daily life behavior is a kind of repetition, and there is no exception throughout the ages, so the story of the repetitive structure will never go out of style for human beings of any age and age.

So, she added a bunch of picture books with repetitive structures and stories to the book list.

It's similar to a pony crossing a river, the same plot, the same dialogue, first ask Uncle Niu, then ask the squirrel, and finally ask the mother.

Regardless of whether it makes sense or not, this kind of story always has the effect of strengthening memory.

In the afternoon of the next day, the courier brought a large bag of picture books and handed them over.

Yan Rushun couldn't lift it herself, so she still bothered her father to run away before she brought the book back.

Xin's mother looked at the large pile of books, flipped through a few pages casually, and immediately frowned: "What kind of book is this, it is printed exquisitely, but a few words are a page, and a dozen pages are a book, and they talk about some things that are not nutritious for eating, drinking, and Lazar, and they are sold for more than ten yuan, which is simply a money grab! Yang Yang has never read these villain books back then, and now he is not learning them well." Mother-in-law, you said yes, right?"

This was said as if he was scolding Yan Rushun's brain...... Yan's mother didn't answer, and she didn't answer, so she had to pretend not to hear, and turned her head to explain the recipe to Yan's father.

Xin's mother simply said to her daughter-in-law: "Shun Shun, these books are really unnecessary, don't spend these unjust money, you have to buy some classics and masterpieces, the books that can be passed down from generation to generation must be bad, you return these books." ”

Classics are good, but they must be digested simply.

Even geniuses don't eat a big fat person in one bite.

Otherwise, she understands so well and is so willing to invest in her son, how can she talk about famous classics, Xin Weiyang doesn't know anything?

It must have been that she was anxious to smash the classics down, but as a result, Xin Weiyang was supported, and from then on, she stayed away from the classics and classics.

Yan Rushun was slandered in her heart, but she really didn't want to spend that energy to talk to her mother-in-law, so she simply smiled directly: "Mom, don't worry, it was sent by my friend." ”

As soon as she heard that it was picked up for nothing, Xin's mother suddenly felt relieved, and her tone of words changed: "Since it was given by a friend, let's just flip it over for Jian Jian to play, anyway, there is no harm." ”

Look, housework doesn't necessarily have to be clear and clear, like this kind of issue that does not involve principles, it is confused, but everyone is safe.

Yan Rushun was so excited that she immediately wanted to tell Jian Jian about picture books, but she was disgusted by her mother:

"Hey, what's the smell of your book? don't have any phenol, take it and open it for a day. Let's push her down for a spin first. ”

Yan Rushun had no choice but to follow her mother-in-law and mother to push the cart downstairs, but she was so tormented in her heart.

You must know that the book says that 0-3 years old is when a large number of synaptic connections are generated, the richer the sensory stimulation, the more synaptic connections are generated, the higher the person's IQ, and after the age of 6, the number of synaptic connections in a person has basically not changed.

If she had paid more attention to the words in the book before, then Jian Jian's earth-shattering words yesterday made her even more concerned.

Therefore, at this moment, she urgently felt that any more delay would be a loss to her daughter.

It would be a waste to let her look at the garden so aimlessly every day when she walked and listened to the gossip of the adults!

She searched her stomach to find something to stimulate her daughter's senses.

Thinking about it like this, it really came to her mind.

With so many plants in the garden, isn't it a good opportunity to learn about nature?

What a great idea!

However, when she went downstairs, she saw that the garden was full of flowers, trees, and grass, and she recognized a few weeping willow trees and plum trees.

Sure enough, when the book is used, there is less hatred.

The old Calvert can become a benchmark figure in the education industry, and it is really not a cover, at least people can afford to be well-read.

Biogeography or something, it is estimated that Xin Weiyang can't count on it. And no matter how Yan Rushun thought about it, he couldn't find a strong related person from his family and friends.

The only thing that may have a spectrum is Comrade Mom, as an outstanding graduate of the University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, I think I still have the experience of trekking in the deep mountains and old forests to collect medicines.

However, when asked, my mother was not optimistic: "The ones I know are all medicinal plants, and these are basically horticultural plants in the garden, I'm afraid there are few things I recognize." ”

Yan Rushun pouted her mother to try her skills.

The mother and daughter wandered around the garden like a treasure hunt.

Xin's mother also had an indispensable attitude and followed them to see the strangeness.

Unexpectedly, it turned out that it was still my mother-in-law who answered the answer: "That's a plum tree." ”

Yan Rushun was surprised: "Mom, do you still know this?"

Mother Xin proudly gave her a pair of white eyes: "This is common sense, who doesn't know." Oh, there are a few begonias and magnolia trees over there, do you recognize them?"

Yan Rushun humbly said that she had been taught a lot, and Xin's mother felt that her value had been reflected, and she was suddenly in a high mood, twisting her head to look around.

Yan Rushun hurriedly verified Baidu secretly, then took a photo and wrote it down, and at the same time pointed to the tree to give Jian Jian a brief introduction.

Xin's mother still thinks that it is a waste of work.

However, Yan Rushun had too many things to do, and she didn't bother to bother with her, so she let her make trouble.

Subsequently, Yan's mother recognized the osmanthus tree, Mai Dong and the ten merits.

No matter how much it is, she doesn't know.

However, these are less than one-tenth of the plants in the entire garden.

Yan Rushun realized that in the garden, which he usually doesn't pay much attention to, the developer has painstakingly planted a lot of plants.

What should I do?

You can't buy a plant encyclopedia or something, don't say that she can't take care of it, even if she is a layman, she knows that kind of professional books don't know how expensive they are.

She only bought a picture book for a few hundred yuan, which has been broken by her mother-in-law, and it is definitely unrealistic to buy another book of plants.

Sure enough, as soon as she tried it, she was beaten back mercilessly.

But it doesn't matter, this is the time to show that "mom is superhuman".

Yan Rushun used his brain to analyze, there must be no other plants in the community garden, they must be commonly used horticultural plants, as long as you know this, you will greatly narrow the search scope, and you don't need to buy a full set of plants.

And if you search on the Internet, there is a list of common horticultural plants, and specific information can also be found.

Even so, there are too many plants in this range, and it is still too much work to find these thirty or forty plants in the garden from hundreds of different types of plants and trees.

She muttered to herself, but Xin's mother poured cold water on her when she heard it: "Don't think about it, it's better to find a better ...... when you have this time" The words "work" unfortunately died before they could be exported.

"I thought of it!" Yan Rushun interrupted her mother-in-law in time, so that she would not give her a chance to taunt herself, "I know a way to quickly and accurately understand the names of these plants, and it doesn't cost a penny." ”

Xin's mother suddenly forgot what she was going to say, and followed her and asked, "What way?"

Yan Rushun smiled mysteriously: "The time to witness the miracle has come, please come with me!"

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