Yan's father and Yan's mother are also helpless.

Old man Yan went to the bathroom at home, slipped halfway, and broke his leg on the flat ground.

What a blessing and a curse!

Originally, Yan's father still thought that fracture was not a serious disease, but Yan's mother knew that it was powerful, and she herself had seen someone have a blood clot after a fracture and died instantly. What's more, Old Man Yan is eighty-eight years old, what if the old man still has osteoporosis?

As soon as he heard that there was such a serious risk, Yan's father immediately became anxious, and immediately packed up his salutes to take care of his old father - among the brothers and sisters of the Yan family, he was the eldest, that is, he retired last year. The other siblings still have jobs and can only be replaced on weekends and evenings.

After a hundred days of broken bones, he would have to stay with his old father for at least three months.

Of course, the daughter's side is not unconsidered, but weighing the priorities, they feel that they still have to take care of the old man first. Fortunately, there was also a mother-in-law over there, and she called and explained that Xin's mother was very reasonable to take care of Yan Rushun's mother and daughter.

Secretly poked and poked and said, she was still worried that she would not have the opportunity to get close to her granddaughter and promote the cause of the second child.

Yan Rushun was dumbfounded.

She is now nominally a worker, and she "goes to and from work" on Monday to Friday, while Xin Weiyang is nominally on summer vacation, but in fact, she basically has to go to the laboratory to clock in, or go out to some meetings, or meet someone for dinner.

When the time comes, all the affairs of the family will have to be explained to the parents.

The mother is reasonable in the matter of bringing the baby, as long as she understands the reason, the mother will try her best to do what she says. But my mother-in-law has always come against her, and she doesn't listen to what she says!

As long as she thought of Xin's mother's usual ignorance in raising children, she felt that she couldn't safely hand over Jian Jian to her mother-in-law.

But she has no excuse to stay at all, even under the guise of asking for leave, can she still take leave for 365 days a year if she can take a day?

The grandfather's condition is unknown, and the daughter's future is uncertain.

Yan Rushun was so sad that she couldn't do it.

Xin Weiyang still did the work at both ends, and finally told her: "My mother said that she can try to get closer to your standards, and I think since she is willing to compromise, we should still give her a chance." ”

Will the mother-in-law give up her stubbornness and move closer to her?

Yan Rushun didn't believe it at all, and politely refused: "I'm afraid that our mother won't be able to learn even if she learns." ”

"Who is born with it? It's you, didn't you be in a hurry when you helped Jian Jian change diapers at the beginning?"

Yan Rushun was speechless.

Xin Weiyang took advantage of the situation and said: "The more you don't give my mother a chance, the more she won't know anything." Anyway, she's always Jane's grandmother, can you keep her from having contact with her granddaughter at all?"

That's true.

For the sake of the good of the child, it is not a human thing to block the family affection of grandchildren for no reason.

It's just that she is a little relieved.

She doesn't expect her mother-in-law to give Jian Jian early education, but she is afraid that her mother-in-law can't even do basic scientific parenting, what if something goes wrong with her or hinders Jian Jian's natural development?

Yan Rushun bit her lip and remained silent, fighting in her heart.

Xin Weiyang hurriedly added weights: "I'll let my mother learn from you, and in addition, I will also call my father." ”

Yan Rushun asked, "Will our dad come?"

In the past few months, Xin's father has taken advantage of Xin's mother's absence to come to see his son and granddaughter, obviously not wanting to deal with his ex-wife anymore.

Xin Weiyang patted his wife's shoulder and sighed, "Isn't this an emergency? ”

"Then you'll have to ask Dad to help you watch a little. "What my father-in-law said, at least it's more reliable than my mother-in-law.

"Okay. Xin Weiyang agreed without hesitation.

So, the matter was settled.

Father Xin was really good, and he came that afternoon.

When Xin's mother saw her ex-husband, her face was pale, she was very cold, and she treated him as nothing. Xin's father didn't seem to feel it, and only smiled and talked to his son and daughter-in-law.

There is a rather strange invisible wave surging between the ex-husband and ex-wife.

Yan Rushun spent a night explaining the main points to her mother-in-law, no matter how big or small, and said important things three times.

The mother-in-law was not perfunctory, she had a good attitude, nodded her head in her voice, and occasionally asked a question or two.

When Yan Rushun talked about the fact that salt could not be added to supplementary food, she couldn't help but speak: "Shunshun, there is a question that I think still needs to be discussed." The eight-month-old baby in my community can already crawl on his knees, and An An can only lie on the ground and crawl forward, could this be the reason why the supplementary food is not salted?

In view of the polite tone of her mother-in-law, Yan Rushun patiently explained to her: "Children have their own developmental characteristics, some children can climb at seven months, some children can climb at ten months, and some children don't climb at all and drive away directly, these are normal, and it has nothing to do with whether they eat salt or not." ”

Mother-in-law frowned: "But people always need salt, otherwise they will become white-haired girls." ”

Yan Rushun continued to popularize science: "Babies under the age of one do not need to add extra salt to the complementary food, my milk and complementary food itself contain a certain amount of salt, which is completely enough for the child's body." However, the baby's organ function is not fully developed, and eating salt will increase the burden on the kidneys and affect development. ”

The mother-in-law didn't object, and the nod of "oh oh oh" should be, looking teachable.

Yan Rushun was also a little relieved, so lost.

However, what should be emphasized is still to be emphasized.

Yan Rushun pondered her tone for a while, and said in a soft and solemn voice: "Mom, there is another thing that you may have to pay special attention to. ”

"Hey, you say. Xin's mother pricked up her ears and listened.

"Jian Jian's eating with her hands is not only a game, but also a kind of exercise, it is beneficial to her and harmless, the only thing that may be troublesome is that we adults need to work hard to clean up after the meal, I hope you can understand the child's development law, can we respect and respect their behavior?"

Xin's mother sighed a little embarrassed: "Shun Shun, to be honest, I really can't stand this matter." It doesn't matter if Jane is a boy, but she's a girl! Whose girl is not raised like a princess, dressed beautifully, and neat and tidy at all times, outsiders will praise her cuteness when they look at it. But you're going to let her make herself dirty, don't you feel bad when you look at it yourself?"

"Mom, this is a necessary process for a child's development. Westerners are much more particular about taking children than us, what baby high chairs, safety bassinets, such toys and utensils are all invented by Westerners, but they also let children try to eat by themselves. ”

Yan Rushun said while searching for the picture news on her mobile phone to show Xin's mother: "Look, they are still proud to send out these little cat-like photos, and they don't feel anything bad at all." Rest easy, too. ”

Xin's mother couldn't figure it out: "I don't understand, why do you have to make it dirty when you can clean it up?"

It's really a flashpoint!

Although he had been mentally prepared, facing him head-on, Yan Rushun still felt tired.

She sighed secretly in her heart, and said patiently: "That's the case, Mom, there is a sensitive period in the development of children's abilities.

"For example, language has a sensitive period of language, and if you miss the infant stage, it will become relatively difficult to learn language. Didn't there be some wolf children in the past? Although they were humans, they grew up in wolves, and although they returned to human society, it was always difficult for them to master language tools fluently.

"In the same way, there is a sensitive period when eating. At this stage, children will be particularly interested in eating on their own and will be particularly active. If you can take advantage of the situation to train her awareness and habit of eating by herself during the sensitive period, the child will not have to worry too much about eating in the future, and every time she obediently eats the meal, she can't be caught up in front of you and you behind, and eating a meal is like a war.

"If we can save worry and effort, why should we bother to find something unpleasant for ourselves, you say?"

Xin's mother still disagreed: "Children, how can there be no worries." Yang Yang, I didn't grow up feeding food since I was a child, and when he grew up, he would naturally eat by himself. An An is only so young now, you make her look like a training beast, isn't it?"

Yan Rushun felt wronged: "Mom, you can take a closer look, it's really not me who trained her to do this, it's what she wants to do." I'm just following the trend. Also, although it is said that people can eat by themselves sooner or later, if the dining habit is not cultivated well, it is likely that the child will develop the habit of picky eating, which is not good for her growth and development. ”

"Ouch, you and your mother are almost old pedants, and you talk about some truths that you don't have. Xin's mother endured so far, and finally lost her patience a little and began to complain again and again.

Yan Rushun held her breath and said: "Mom, that's not a reason, my mother is a doctor, you have to believe what the doctor says." ”

Xin's mother scoffed: "You can believe what the doctor says?"

"That's right, if you don't believe what the doctor says, who else can you believe?" Yan Rushun was stimulated by her mother-in-law's contemptuous attitude, and unconsciously raised her voice.

Xin's mother also raised her voice: "If the doctor can believe what he says, then there won't be so many deaths in the hospital!"

Seeing that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were about to quarrel again, if Xin Weiyang hadn't come in time to rescue her, Yan Rushun was afraid that she would have to repent.

Fortunately, after more than a year of exercise, Xin Weiyang's emotional intelligence has developed considerably.

After his efforts, Xin's mother finally took a step back and reached a compromise with her daughter-in-law.

However, Yan Rushun's heart can't be steady.

All night, she was asking in her dreams: Is it really okay to go to "work" tomorrow and hand over Jian Jian to her mother-in-law?

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