Three and a half in the afternoon.

There was still half an hour before the end of school, but the surroundings were already crowded with black people.

You don't have to guess to know that these are all parents who come to pick up their children.

Chen Xi, a young man in his twenties, standing in the middle of a group of uncles and aunts, seemed to stand out from the crowd.

Children are playing games on the kindergarten playground.

Chen Xi looked at the little guy through the wall and found that she was playing happily on the slide, and she didn't notice herself standing outside the wall at all.

It seems that he has happily forgotten to look for Baba, which also makes Chen Xi feel a lot more relieved.

He was really afraid that Nian Nian would not adapt to the kindergarten environment.

But you must not let your child suffer from strange diseases such as autism and depression, because these involve mental health and other heart diseases, and he really can't be treated......

Chen Xi stood outside the wall and looked at Niannian, but at this time, an aunt suddenly reached out and patted him.

"Hey, young man, are you a child of Sister Zhang's family?"

Chen Xi looked back, but saw a smiling eldest sister standing behind him.

Isn't it the fat aunt he met when he came back on the first day he came back and just entered the community.

"Ah, yes, I live in Unit 302, Unit 1, Building 5, Auntie, who are you?"

"Hey, I'll just say, I always feel that you are a little familiar, as if I have seen it a few times in the community. I suddenly saw Niannian in it just now, so I thought, could Niannian be your child...... My surname is Qian, you call Aunt Qian, my grandson is also in it, look, it's the troublemaker. ”

The fat aunt said as she smiled and pointed to the boy who was running like the wind on the playground.

Looking at her posture, I am afraid that she has completely forgotten that she once regarded Chen Xi as a madman who asked for food.

"Hello Aunt Qian, I was working outside and had just come home for a while, so I couldn't even recognize my neighbor next door......"

"It's okay, it's okay, you'll know each other in a while. ”

Aunt Qian waved her hand, laughed and said: "Let me tell you, your family Niannian is the most well-behaved child in our community, the little girl is cute, our family Pengpeng likes to play with her the most." ”

"Really? hehe......"

Chen Xi smiled politely.

Maybe it's because he's not used to dealing with uncles and aunts, so he doesn't know what to say now, so he can only listen to Aunt Qian's nagging with a smile.

"That's necessary, last time I teased that stupid boy in my family, saying that when he grows up, I will marry Niannian to him. Hey, you didn't see that the stupid boy was as red as a monkey's ass, and he was ashamed to death. ”

"Really?"

"Of course, don't say it, four or five-year-old children are much smarter now than we were then, and only when they are older can they tell who is good-looking and who is not. Many children in the community like to play with Niannian, but in the past, only Sister Zhang took the children alone, so she didn't have much time to take Niannian out to play. Now that you're back, you're going to have to take Niannian out to play often......"

Hearing this, Chen Xi still nodded yes with a smile on his face, but he suddenly felt a little alert in his heart.

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Martinson, S. M. It is believed that children begin to develop feelings and behaviors of love for the opposite sex from about 3 years old.

Children are intellectually curious and care about everything, including human organs.

Sometimes it's a person, sometimes it's between partners of the opposite sex, or let each other look at each other**, or touch it with your hand.

Most of its manifestations are games such as "imitating doctors", "lifting skirts", "fake marriages", and "playing house".

According to a 1970 survey of 290 children by the Nagoya City Council on Youth Issues conducted by the RB Nagoya City Council on Youth, 201 of them lifted their skirts, 70% of whom stopped lifting their skirts under the noses of adults, 167 peeped into the toilet, 164 peeked under their skirts, and 108 played with **.

It can be seen that this is a common behavior among children and cannot be effectively avoided.

As soon as he thought of this, Chen Xi faintly felt a little uncomfortable.

Dare to hit my daughter's idea?

No, I have to find an opportunity to popularize sex education for Niannian......

The development of human sexual psychology and the formation of gender roles have certain laws, and if they are allowed to develop naturally, the results are often normal, but if some incorrect educational methods are imposed on children, it is very likely to form deformed results.

Especially for children between the ages of 3 and 5, through sex education, the child's sexuality should be socially and individually affirmed in the sense of sexual sociology and sexual psychology.

If you find that your child is sexually incorrect, you should calmly and patiently correct it, guide it naturally, and do not scold or intimidate it.

For example, when they saw children playing with organ X, some mothers angrily reprimanded and stopped: "Don't move!" "Don't touch this place!" "Don't touch this place!"

Or forcibly pull away with your hands, or even give a beating.

In fact, it is easy for children to form a misconception from an early age: X organs are dirty, invisible, and untouchable, so all X-related activities must be suppressed, otherwise they will be punished.

Going with the flow and guiding correctly is the only effective and correct way to do it.

Perhaps because of the traditional concept, after chatting with Aunt Qian, Chen Xi's mood was very complicated.

Niannian is a girl after all, so he always feels that his daughter will suffer as a father......

Although Chen Xi also understood that it was all children's nonsense, and it was more of their nature and instinct as human beings, he still felt a little unhappy......

Very unpleasant......

Very unpleasant......

At four o'clock in the afternoon, the kindergarten ended.

Chen Xi squeezed to the school gate, and the little guy saw Chen Xi in the crowd at a glance.

She shouted "Baba" and wanted to get out of the iron gate, but was stopped by Mr. Wang in time.

The children in the kindergarten are not just anyone can pick them up, and after Teacher Wang saw Chen Xi, she took Niannian's hand and took the little guy outside the school gate.

"Baba!"

The little guy just stepped through the iron door, and immediately fell on Chen Xi's legs, then hugged Chen Xi's thighs, raised his little head and said sweetly: "Baba, I miss you so much!"

"Good job, mua!"

Chen Xi laughed and hugged the little guy, then held her and said to Teacher Wang, "Say goodbye to the teacher." ”

"Goodbye, teacher!"

The little guy waved his little hand vigorously, and it seemed that he had a good impression of Mr. Wang.

Teacher Wang and Chen Xi said a few polite words, and after praising the little guy for being very sensible, she was busy sending another child again.

Chen Xi walked on the road with Niannian in his arms, and the little guy excitedly told him what he had experienced today.

"Niannian, do you like kindergarten?"

"I like it!"

Hearing this, the little guy immediately nodded heavily.

She has always played alone, and suddenly she has so many friends of the same age, she will naturally be happy.

"Then Dad will bring you back tomorrow, okay?"

"Good!"

"Good. ”

Chen Xi touched her little face, and was guessing in her heart when the little guy would say not to go to kindergarten......

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Thanks to [Honolulu Snow Scene] [Tang Zhenbin] [Wang Chunyan iloveyou] [love a cloud of smoke and rain] [qwe Wuhong] [Nian Nian Health and Happiness] several bosses for their tips~

Missing health and happiness......

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