Xin Weiyang didn't know what she was thinking, and when she saw that she was really sad, she proposed, "Why don't I come to see Jian Jian tonight?"

In fact, sometimes it only takes one or two sentences for a woman's heart to be filled in an instant.

She wiped her eyes, and her tone was soft and firm: "No, I'll come! Don't you have to go on a business trip early tomorrow morning? Sleep well, I can do it!"

This is her battlefield, the battlefield she must experience as a mother!

She had no experience with the abnormalities of her children before, so she made a mistake today, and from this moment on, she had to keep the feeling of fever firmly in her heart and no longer take it lightly.

She barely closed her eyes throughout the night.

The slightest movement or sound from Jian Jian could wake her up. She bought an easy-to-operate ear thermometer at the pharmacy downstairs, and measured it for her daughter every once in a while, for fear that she would burn 38°5, or even convulsions or faint, and she didn't know it.

The next day, Yan's mother hurried back to check on her granddaughter, and finally found that Yan Rushun had "resigned" again.

Yan Rushun obediently listened to the training, until she couldn't stand it anymore, so she changed the topic: "I have taken medicine three times from yesterday to today, why does Jian Jian still have a high fever?"

Mother Yan glared at her, and said quite angrily: "Viral flu is a fever for two or three days, you know it now, why didn't you take good care of Jian Jian in the first place?"

Throughout the day, no matter what topic is discussed, Yan's mother can talk about taking care of the children or finding a job.

Yan Rushun couldn't stand it anymore, and there was nowhere to hide, so she had to retreat to the bathroom and flip through her phone in distraught.

Yan's mother simply chased after the bathroom and knocked on the door loudly: "Did you fall into the toilet? If you stay any longer, I don't care if you have hemorrhoids!"

Yan Rushun was so crazy that she wanted to look up to the sky and howl - of course this was impossible, so she only grabbed her hair and messed it up.

For three days in a row, Yan Rushun was tormented, almost undressed.

Sleep was extremely insufficient, but the inner torment overwhelmed everything.

Finally, on the fourth day, Jane's fever subsided.

Xin Weiyang also rushed back.

Xin'an's children's condition improved, and the whole family was sunny after the rain.

Xin Weiyang originally planned to go on a business trip for four days, but because he was worried about his daughter, he came back early, and when he saw Jian Jian becoming lively and cheerful again, he couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief and said to his wife: "I have to go on a business trip again tomorrow." ”

Yan Rushun was about to help him clear the gift box, but when he heard this, he couldn't help but pause: "Why is it arranged so tightly?"

"Just two of them will be connected. I was going to fly directly from Shanghai to Guangzhou, but I thought that Jian Jian was still sick, and Shun Shun was also working hard, so I still went home to take a look. ”

I'm really getting better at talking.

It's a pity that Yan Rushun stayed up for three days and three nights, and her spirit was really not good, so she just raised the corner of her mouth seemingly nothing: "That's okay, go to bed early, there will be a lot of things tomorrow." ”

Xin Weiyang asked, "What's the matter? Isn't Jian Jian already much better?"

Yan Rushun sighed: "Mine has been broken for two days, and these can't be made up?"

In fact, what worries her the most is the problem of opening a new article.

Let's break this one, it's almost over anyway.

But Xinwen is a bit difficult to deliver, which makes people feel impetuous.

It's not that she doesn't have an outline and no clue, in fact, she has already thought about what to write in the new article.

But she was not satisfied with how to write at the beginning, and she had already changed her draft three times, and she felt that she could revise and revise it again.

To be honest, this feeling is no easier than staying up late to take care of my daughter.

It's like the story of Roosevelt, who was elected president of the United States for four consecutive terms, and ate four loaves of bread in a row: when you change it for the first time, you are full of pride, when you change it for the second time, you can still have enough energy, when you change it for the third time, you will be able to beat your spirit, and when you change it for the fourth time, you will not be able to read it yourself—but when you calm down, you still have to change.

Whether it is life or work, she is a little tired, but now she doesn't want to bother Xin Weiyang with these things - Jian Jian's illness is because she didn't pay attention to it, it is self-inflicted;

Therefore, she gritted her teeth and held on, and the only thing she said to Xin Weiyang was: "You haven't seen your daughter for several days on a business trip, why don't you accompany her to class tonight." ”

Xin Weiyang knew that Jian Jian was in a crawling class, and thought about how he had not seen the regular early education class, so he agreed.

As a result, after dinner, Xin's mother also said that she was going, and the three of them took the baby together.

Jian Jian stuck to the ground as always, and the turtle crawled, and the teacher was helpless to do everything he could.

It just so happened that there was only one child in Jian Jian today, so Yan Rushun took the opportunity to communicate with the teacher: "Teacher, our Jian Jian is almost in the whole course, why can't we still crawl on our knees? Some children of the same age can already stand up." ”

The teacher was a little embarrassed, stretched his voice "uh", and said, "Actually, this matter is like this: Jian Jian doesn't know how to climb, she just can't crawl on her knees, and it's still good to crawl on her abdomen." According to my observations, she has a middle and upper level of development and too much weight, which may be due to the fact that it has caused too much burden on her arms, so she can't support it. It should be fine to exercise more in the future. ”

This is completely ambiguous, Yan Rushun has said to other parents before I don't know how many times, and now I am really unhappy to listen to it as a parent.

She asked neatly: "Teacher, just tell me directly, how many more classes does Jian Jian need to take before she can learn to crawl on her knees?"

The teacher smiled, "It's hard to say. Every child's development is different. There are a small number of children who will not develop in the usual order due to nutrition, genetics and other factors, and directly skip the crawling stage and start walking, which has a great impact on motor coordination. So, Jane Jane, that's pretty good, I suggest, Jane Jane's mother, you don't give Jane any more sneaking classes, because if she waits a little longer, she'll probably have to walk, right? ”

Hey, people don't accept the money anymore, and it seems that even the teacher has given up on Jian Jian.

Yan Rushun couldn't help but be discouraged.

Xin's mother turned her head and complained: "I think An An just doesn't have the strength, you don't give salt to others, how can these arms and legs be strong." ”

Yan Rushun was depressed, but the recent succession of events had made Xin's mother angry.

After a long time, her posture was much more restrained, and she explained sullenly: "Mom, it's not that I don't give Jian Jian salt to eat, it's that the doctor said that you can't eat it before the age of one, and you can only add a little after the age of one." ”

This matter is a matter of contention and contention, Xin's mother waved her hand impatiently: "It's the big truth of these doctors again." ”

Xin Weiyang hurriedly said: "Mom, the doctor is a professional, you can listen to it." ”

Xin's mother glared at her son and snorted: "Forget it, I won't tell you this." It's okay not to eat salt, or give Jian Jian some calcium. You see that she has been sweating when she sleeps recently, the hair on the back of her head has fallen out, and she is not sleeping very well, I checked it on the Internet, it is a child who is deficient in calcium, and she has to make up for it, and she will have the strength to make up for it. ”

Yan Rushun suddenly felt a headache.

My mother-in-law had mentioned this matter a long time ago, and Jian Jian did have a slight occipital baldness. Because she wasn't sure, she went to consult her mother.

My mother said that some children are indeed bald because of a lack of calcium, but many children just sweat because of sleeping, and keep rubbing, and the hair on the back of the head is worn off.

The mother also specially reminded that children must not supplement calcium indiscriminately, calcium supplementation is excessive, which may cause the baby's fontanelle to close prematurely, affect brain development, form microcephaly, and may also cause premature calcification and closure of bones, so that height is limited. Therefore, just get more sunlight and supplement vitamin D according to the doctor's instructions.

However, she returned these words to her mother-in-law, but Xin's mother was quite unimpressed, and went online to find evidence to refute it.

In the past, her mother-in-law didn't listen to reason, and she had a headache, but now Xin's mother has also learned to be reasonable, and she has a headache even more.

"Mom, we have discussed this matter, and even the child care doctor has emphasized: calcium cannot be supplemented indiscriminately......"

Mother Xin saw that her daughter-in-law didn't eat oil and salt, and couldn't help but snort: "You just stick to your temper! ”

These words blocked Yan Rushun, not to mention how depressed she was.

She withstood her mother-in-law's fingers and feet, but her mother-in-law meant that it was her responsibility to have any problems with Jian Jian in the future.

To be honest, who should be a mother who should not be upset when he hears this.

After all, it's his daughter, how can he not worry, how can he not be in a hurry.

Moreover, my mother also said that some children are indeed bald because of calcium deficiency, and she is also afraid that she will make a wrong decision and miss Jian Jian for the rest of her life. Mother-in-law's words are completely inserted into the knife.

After returning home, she couldn't lift her energy, and her thoughts struggled in contradictions, considering whether she should take a day to go to the hospital for a blood calcium test.

However, after checking on the Internet, I found that some people said that the trace element value of the baby's blood test was unreliable, because even if the blood calcium value was normal, it did not necessarily mean that the child was not deficient in calcium.

Damn, what's going on?!

Sometimes, the doctor is a little unreliable as my mother-in-law said.

I don't go to the hospital at all, just make up for vitamin D, so as not to prick a needle in vain and listen to my mother's affairs.

Just thinking about this, Jian Jian hummed and chirped around again, and when she reached out and touched it, her head and neck were sweaty.

She suddenly hesitated again: If she didn't go to the hospital to get that injection and delay Jian Jian's condition, what would she do?

It's always tangled when you think about it.

In this child-raising, every decision made by parents is related to the child's future, which is really stressful.

After a night of ideological struggle, as soon as she got up, Xin's mother sneered again.

Yan Rushun's mood was simply low to the bottom, and it was easy to hold on until Jian Jian took a nap in the morning, turned on the computer and prepared for the fifth revision, that feeling was ...... Tsk, it's so loveless, I can't close my eyes, I don't care about anything.

Unexpectedly, at this most difficult time, she was inspired by an unexpected person.

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