After serving Jian Jian and falling asleep at night, Yan Rushun's heart was still floating in the air and couldn't fall, so she and Xin Weiyang snuggled up to each other and talked privately for a while.

The two didn't want to do anything, they just hugged each other, and they felt very satisfied.

Xin Weiyang said: "You don't have to worry anymore, it will get better and better in the future." ”

Yan Rushun puffed out his eyes, and said with a serious face: "Steady! Don't get carried away, so that you are happy and sad." Remember that sentence: Where blessings and misfortunes lurk, and where misfortunes and blessings depend. ”

Xin Weiyang laughed: "Anyway, with you taking care of family affairs and raising my daughter, I don't have to worry about it at all." ”

"You're embarrassed to say it!" Yan Rushun puffed out his cheeks and glanced at him with disgust, "Is it my business to raise my daughter?" Did you hear what Jian Jian said today? She can't even tell you what you do, so it can be seen that you usually spend too little time with your daughter. ”

Xin Weiyang explained: "I have been with her, you see now I give her science classes at least twice a week." ”

"It's only twice a week, it's definitely not enough! She's your daughter, not your little lover, so it's okay to order it twice a week. You have to care a little more about her. ”

Xin Weiyang couldn't cry or laugh: "I can't bear this little lover, there's really no way." ”

Although he knew that what he said was the truth, Yan Rushun still poked him in the chest reluctantly: "I don't think there is a way, the main thing is whether there is that heart." ”

Xin Weiyang turned over and suppressed her, and her voice was low and ambiguous: "Then there is no way, isn't my mind all spent on you?"

"Clever words! Obviously, your mind is spent on experiments...... Hmm, I'm not done yet......"

Yan Rushun felt: In the future, you must not talk about serious things with men in bed, obviously just flirting and scolding, and if you are not careful, you will become inappropriate for children.

I think back then, someone was introverted and deep, but she was teased to death, but now her cheeks are thicker than the city wall, and her love words are also said one by one.

It's hard to imagine how far this demon will evolve if he is given another few decades. She couldn't let him compare.

The little couple was fighting hotly to seize the initiative, and over there, the little ancestor cried "wow, wow, wow", "Dad, Mom, I want you to accompany me......"

Xin Weiyang wrinkled a bitter gourd face.

Yan Rushun was also covered with sweat: Look, life is never as good as it should be, and no one knows when it will give people a fatal blow.

For now, let's boil!

Doesn't it mean that a lot of good days are still to come? This must mean: If you stay up, you will get through the good days.

In short, I don't know what happened to Jian Jian this night, and she had to ask her parents to sleep with her at the same time.

There was no way, so the two had to carry her back to the master bedroom, and the family of three slept together.

Jian Jian leaned on her father on her left and her mother on her right, she couldn't be more satisfied, and she fell asleep with a smile on her face.

Xin Weiyang's little two mouthfuls looked helpless, and made a few strange looks at the sleeping little face, and Xin Weiyang also pretended to raise his iron fist at his daughter.

Yan Rushun pressed his throat and laughed at him: "There is a kind of comparison when you wait for Jian Jian to wake up." ”

Xin Weiyang scratched his head and sighed helplessly: "I understand why people in ancient times started marrying their daughters at the age of thirteen or fourteen. ”

Yan Rushun glanced at him with a smile: "You are colored yourself, so you feel colored when you look at others." ”

Xin Weiyang said aggrievedly: "Aren't I just a little lustful to my wife." ”

The little couple played for a while and had to wash and sleep.

I slept until midnight, and suddenly there was a violent shaking under my body.

Yan Rushun was still confused, but his body spontaneously sat up, and he asked in a panic: "Is there an earthquake?"

Before he could act, he saw Xin Weiyang next to him jumping up from the bed with his dexterity, picking up Jian Jian, and running out of the bedroom door like a gust of wind.

She was stunned for three seconds before she chased her out, and when she reached the door, she saw that the door was wide open, and the people had already run downstairs.

Yan Rushun: "......"

Very good, it seems that now she doesn't have to worry about her husband not spending enough time on his daughter. But, can she scold "" now?

When Xin Weiyang came back with her daughter in her arms, she saw her wife blocking the door with her arms, her face was dark, and her eyes were cold.

Jian Jian slept so well that she didn't wake up when the sky fell, so she teased her eyelids a few times with her eyelids half-open and half-closed, and her little lips unconsciously touched a few times, and then fell asleep again.

Xin Weiyang, who originally hoped that his daughter would exert his strength and suppress his wife's anger, couldn't help but sneer: "Shun Shun, I thought you had been running behind me." ”

Yan Rushun pulled the corners of his mouth with a smile: "Why didn't I see you look behind?"

He was a little incoherent by his wife's aura: "I, I'm too nervous." Well, I think we're all adults, but Jane Jane is still young and can't run on her own, so ...... If it weren't for Jian Jian, I would have run away with you......"

That's right.

Even if it were to happen all over again, she would let Xin Weiyang do it.

However, she is still unhappy in her heart, super unhappy!

Moreover, she didn't want to admit it: even if the other party was her daughter, she was still very jealous! After all, her husband left her at a critical time and ran away with other women.

She pointed her hand and shouted, "Put Jian Jian on the bed!"

Xin Weiyang hurriedly complied, not daring to delay for a second. After finishing it, he hurried back to his wife to listen to the training.

Yan Rushun made a gesture: "Turn around!"

He was a little unsteady in his heart, and asked with a smile: "Shun Shun, what are you going to do?"

Yan Rushun put on a late girl's face: "If you turn around, will you turn around?"

Xin Weiyang had no choice but to turn his back and go, playing a small drum in his heart, not knowing if he would be dragged out and buried by his wife with a black stick.

Sure enough, he was slapped on the back immediately after, which scared him and his whole body trembled.

"Don't squat down yet, I'll kill you!" Yan Rushun shouted fiercely.

Xin Weiyang hurriedly comforted in a panic: "Eh, wife, if I die, you will become a widow." ”

Yan Rushun said angrily: "There is a lot of nonsense! Didn't you say that you would run away on my back?

So, Xin Weiyang had to run upstairs and downstairs with his jealous wife on his back, and then he was forgiven.

Because Yan Rushun felt satisfied: No matter what, she was even with her daughter.

Xin Weiyang never dared to tell his mother about this, he was afraid that his mother would angrily dislike his wife for being "small-minded and ignorant", and there would be a family war.

But later, by chance, he still mentioned it to his father, and said very happily: "Fortunately, I married Shunshun, and I was coaxed all at once." ”

Father Xin sighed deeply: "Yes, if it were your mother, you wouldn't want to live in peace for the rest of your life." Your wife is a woman who can pass her days more and more. ”

Yan Rushun also felt that he was getting better and better at living.

Now Jane spends most of her time studying at home.

There is a fixed time to watch English cartoons, read and discuss, walk and exercise, listen to music, use the Internet to learn graded English textbooks, and there are regular music interest classes, dance training classes and painting interest classes every week, and then play with kindergarten students on weekends.

The rest of my free time can be spent doing housework together, trying to make cakes, going to the library, watching the peach blossoms in the spring and picking autumn fruits, or participating in fun activities posted online.

As long as Jian Jian was interested, the mother and daughter immediately packed up their things and went to see them.

I don't have to go to school, so every day is easy and happy.

If Jane wants to play with her classmates, or if she needs to go out for something, then Jane Jane goes to the kindergarten for a day.

In the matter of code words, she learned to save manuscripts, and she didn't have to rush to update and protect every day.

Such a day is chic and free, and every day is shining with the light of hope.

When I was with my kindergarten classmates on the weekend, some parents cared about them: "Why haven't I seen Jian Jian in class recently?"

Yan Rushun explained to them: "Sometimes we arrange some activities by ourselves, and the kindergarten asks for leave. ”

"Oh...... That's right. The parents of the classmates did not dig deeper.

When the kindergarten held a reading competition, the other children read a few sentences with their parents, and Jian Jian held an unillustrated version of "Five Thousand Years Up and Down" and read it completely.

Everyone looked sideways, and it was a blockbuster!

Yan Rushun's original intention was not to show off the baby or build momentum, but just to participate in as many group activities as possible according to Jian Jian's wishes.

Song Qingqing came to ask for advice for this.

Speaking of which, her son is about the same age as Jian Jian, and he is also in the same class, and he usually doesn't feel any gap when they play together, but at this moment she has a deep sense of crisis.

After all, they are all university teachers, and they have more or less certain expectations for their children.

Yan Rushun didn't hide it, and made it clear that he had insisted on it for more than three years.

Song Qingqing couldn't help but smile bitterly: "That is to say, these are all made bit by bit with time?"

"That's right, there's no trick in laying the foundation, you can only use this stupid method. ”

Hearing this, Song Qingqing showed a tired face and sighed sadly: "Actually, it's not that I didn't do parent-child reading for my son, but I have to work overtime and go on a business trip every now and then, and I really can't keep going." Now that I think about it, I'm so sorry for my son. ”

As he spoke, he couldn't hold back his tears.

This is the sadness of working mothers, although there are also articles advocating how working mothers how to balance the relationship between work and baby, both hands can be hard, but how many can actually be done?

In modern society, it is indeed a world trend to fight for dad and mother.

As the saying goes, striking iron also needs its own hardness, regardless of network resources, no matter what kind of ability children want to develop, persistence in learning is a necessary condition. Without the blessing and supervision of their parents, few children can continue to learn for ten years.

And at this point, it is difficult for parents to escort their children if they do not have enough financial support and time support.

Because of this, the words of the liberal arts champion of a certain college entrance examination in Beijing that "it is difficult to produce a noble son from a poor family" will be so deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and countless screens have been swiped in the circle of friends.

But few people thought that a middle-class like Song Qingqing was also indescribably embarrassed and regretful: his parents were bachelor's, master's and doctor's, but in order to go further, his time and energy were squeezed out, so that it was difficult to have other investments in his children's education except money, which may become a lifelong regret in the future.

There will be gains and losses, and there will be gains and gains.

The truth is understood, but it is not so easy to decide what to give up and what to get.

Everyone is like an amoeba, rushing left and right under the pressure of the environment and their own expectations, struggling to grow into the ideal shape, but in the end they all become strange.

is like Yan Rushun, although she walked out of a way, she also stumbled along the way, suffered grievances and even humiliation.

Now Song Qingqing envies her.

And Song Qingqing is dominating at work, and her monthly income makes her in-laws dare not say a bad one, so why don't she envy her.

Now let her go back to the original choice again, maybe she may not be able to be a full-time mother neatly and firmly.

Therefore, when Song Qingqing was considering whether she really wanted to resign, Yan Rushun persuaded her in turn: "You should think about this matter with your husband." It's not easy to be a stay-at-home mother, and the ideal state is: stay and go out. Therefore, it is best to make sure that you can do it before you decide before it is too late. ”

Staying is a kind of ability, and going out is also a kind of ability.

Life demands far more from women than from men.

Yan Rushun hid Mei Bai's story and told her the background of her name, Song Qingqing was silent for a long time, and only sighed.

It was difficult to make a decision for a while, so Song Qingqing diverted the topic: "You are also quite prescient, you brought the baby well in the first two years, and it will be easier and easier in the future." ”

Yan Rushun shrugged his shoulders and raised his eyebrows: "No, everything has just begun." ”

"Really?" Song Qingqing was a little puzzled, "Wouldn't it be good if you just continue to do it as you are now?"

Yan Rushun sighed: "This is not the ideal state of homeschooling. ”

Ten years of trees, 100 years of people.

She looked at the straight and stout hundred-year-old tree outside the window and described her goals for the next few years: "Homeschooling does not rely on parents, but on social resources and network resources, so the first is to let children have the ability to learn in English in online schools within three or four years, the second is to cultivate children's time management skills, and the third is to cultivate children's self-management skills." Only when these three points are achieved can children truly achieve self-schooling at home. And none of them is easy!"

Able to have time management and self-management skills, even if you are not homeschooling, you don't have to worry about what to do in the future.

Song Qingqing couldn't help but sigh: "You are really ambitious!"

Yan Rushun smiled: "This can be regarded as my mother's ambition, and you have it too." ”

The light in Song Qingqing's eyes fluctuated for a long time, and finally sank: "I have decided, I want to change jobs and go to an idle position." ”

This is to give up the possibility of further promotion.

Yan Rushun was surprised: "Huh?

"Yes! My son is only four years old. Song Qingqing said slowly but firmly, "Just like you said, everything has just begun!" (end)