Teacher Qian said: "Judging from the examination results, the difference in the size of the left and right ventricles is not very large, and I don't think it is to the point where the child must be beaten. ”

Yan Rushun and the two were slightly dark.

Teacher Qian said: "However, I really can't guarantee the result to you, I can only say that in the past cases, there have been normal births, and there have been regrettable endings." In the end, to put it in a somewhat idealistic way, it depends largely on the strength of your child's will to survive. ”

Yan Rushun asked: "Then how can we judge whether the child's will to survive is strong or weak?"

"In my opinion, life is sometimes fragile and sometimes unexpectedly tenacious. Personally, I understand that as long as life continues, it can be considered that it is still surviving. ”

Yan Rushun's eyes were filled with tears, she turned her head to look at her husband, choked up and said: "Weiyang, no matter what, let's not give up, okay? When I did B ultrasound, I saw that its little heart kept beating, beating, beating, and beating, it was still stubbornly surviving, and it was still trying to grow, we should at least give it a chance, right?"

Xin Weiyang couldn't care about the eyes of Teacher Wang and Teacher Qian, hugged his wife in his arms, sighed deeply and said, "Don't worry, let's work together." ”

"Come on!" Mr. Qian encouraged, "There are many miracle moments in life, and I hope you can see them." ”

The news continued to spread, and soon Meibai also knew.

She was very anxious for Fa Xiao, and called Qi Qing to sigh: "Why do you say that our sisters are so unhappy in the matter of conceiving a child? I don't know how to comfort her." Seventh Master, you can give me an idea!"

While feeding the child, Qi Qing replied with a sneer: "Don't make a mess, what she needs now is not comfort at all." ”

Mei Bai was dumbfounded: "Then what does she need?"

"She needs to find something to do, so she doesn't have to think about it. So, I'll go with you and see her. ”

Neither of them needs to go to work, they just go.

Yan Rushun was quite happy to see the two friends.

Mei Bai was about to ask about the child, but Qi Qing directly grabbed the words: "Your little family is running well, what about the children's room?"

Yan Rushun said: "It's still early, prepare to take your time." ”

Qi Qing shrugged: "Is the sister-in-law please?"

"Confinement sister-in-law?"

"Yes, I told you, the role of the confinement lady is really big. If you are inexperienced with a child, as soon as the child cries in the first month, you think you need to breastfeed, but in fact, the reason why the child cries can be varied. With the confinement lady here, she can help you sort out the child's temperament and give it good habits as soon as possible, which is very important. ”

Speaking of experience, Yan Rushun attaches great importance to it.

She just wondered: "I need to invite a confinement lady so early?"

"Where is it early? Haoyuesao is very sought-after, it was booked a few months in advance, and when the child is about to be born, you can't even find a shadow. ”

Yan Rushun immediately became interested and thanked again and again: "Fortunately, you reminded me, Seventh Master, otherwise what would I do? Here, where can I find the confinement lady now? Have you introduced me?"

Qi Qing shook her head: "When I returned to China, the captain was already full moon, and I directly invited my sister-in-law." Confinement sister-in-law and child-rearing sister-in-law are a little different, you have to find it yourself. I only know that this industry is not very standardized, it is best to be introduced by acquaintances, know the roots, this is more reliable. ”

Yan Rushun clenched his fists: "I know, I don't thank you." ”

"What's there to thank you for, I still have something to ask you. Qi Qing also said unceremoniously, "The captain can climb now, and he only sleeps half the day, saying that he can play with him, I always feel that if the toys are not played, it will be boring for a while." Haven't you been studying early childhood education for so long, do you have any activities or programs to recommend?"

Yan Rushun asked, "Have you told him about picture books?"

Before Qi Qing could speak, Mei Bai was surprised: "The captain is so young." ”

"If you can understand words, you can tell a story. Yan Rushun explained, "Children do not learn language by speaking, they are immersed in the language environment from birth, and they learn." At this time, he is like a sponge, what you give him, he absorbs, even if it will not be shown for the time being, but you will definitely not do useless work. ”

Qi Qing was also a little skeptical: "Then what if I tell a story, he is not interested, and he runs away?"

"First, you choose a simpler story, and second, you can try different things. Boys, they may not like princesses or anything like that, but content that is close to life, or more masculine content, he should be more or less interested. Even if it's just for a minute, that's a good start - you know, at his age, the concentration is already very short, as long as you don't rush, persevere, and take your time. Oh, by the way, I happened to see a video the other day, you can see it by looking at it. ”

Yan Rushun took out his mobile phone and found the video.

This is a selfie of a foreign family. The mother whispered a picture book story to her son, who couldn't speak, and after the story, the mother was about to close the book, and the son didn't let go of it. The mother said in English, "Then let's talk about it again," and the son immediately smiled innocently and happily, giggling, and the scene made people's hearts melt.

Qi Qing immediately clapped: "Okay, I'll go back and try." ”

Mei Bai flicked her tongue: "Tsk, you deserve to be an expert, you can say it one by one, we will all come to consult you in the future." ”

"No problem. However, the seventh master has more experience than me, and we should ask each other for advice. ”

Mei Bai grinned: "Then I will take advantage of the two of you, combine the lessons and lessons, and don't take any detours." ”

Yan Rushun pretended to be serious: "Okay, anyway, your children will have to support our three mothers when they grow up." ”

"Isn't it!"

Qi Qing fell into the well: "It's four mothers, and there is also a mother-in-law or mother-in-law." ”

The three of them spoke, laughing together.

Yan Rushun was so troubled by the two, and her mood was indeed much better.

In addition, there is something to do, and the attention is distracted, and there is a lot less panic and depression in the heart.

She discussed it with Xin Weiyang, and he didn't think there was anything wrong.

She immediately sent a message in the circle of friends, begging for an introduction to the confinement lady, and searched on the Internet for topics such as "how to find a reliable and good confinement lady", "what questions should be asked in the interview", and started to do her homework.

Because of the child's heart B ultrasound problem, now the two mothers don't let her run around, and every weekend, the two sides make an appointment to come to their nest together.

Yan Rushun took advantage of the weekend to ask the two mothers for help, and asked them to consult with the sisters around them to see if there were any good confinement sisters-in-law introductions.

Who knows, as soon as Xin's mother heard this, she raised her opposition card: "Why do you need to invite any confinement sister-in-law? Isn't it just to bring a child, I am a hand in hand with my mother-in-law, what can't be done? Why bother to find an outsider to come over at home, how uncomfortable it is." ”

Yan Rushun patiently said the reasons listed by Qi Qing again, and made a special explanation: "My friend is very capable and thoughtful in doing things, although she has parents, she still resolutely invited the confinement sister-in-law." First, so that parents do not get tired, and second, so as not to take detours that are not good for children. ”

Xin's mother didn't buy it, pouted and said, "You little young people have a lot of tricks." Who did we invite a confinement lady at that time? Taking care of the children while going to work is not the same as bringing Yang Yang up. Do you think I'm taking Yang Yang badly?"

Yan Rushun couldn't speak, and looked at Xin Weiyang pitifully.

Xin Weiyang stepped forward: "Mom, you were young at that time and could withstand the toss, now that you are old after all, it is time to enjoy it, why bother with this." ”

Xin's mother disagreed: "What is there to be tired of? The children in that confinement ate and slept and ate, except for feeding and washing diapers, there was nothing to be busy with, and they were not tired at all." ”

"Huh?" Yan Rushun's eyes widened, "Mom, do you still use diapers?"

"Why not? I have a few cotton quilt covers at home, and I am waiting to uncut them and make diapers for my grandson. ”

Yan Rushun only felt that the corners of his forehead were jumping: "Mom, now the new educational concept does not advocate the use of diapers, the children in the confinement have a little urine, and it is troublesome to clean up, and the children feel uncomfortable in the butt and will not sleep well, which is not conducive to the growth and development of the body and brain." It's better to use diapers, which is convenient and beneficial to children's health. ”

Xin's mother was not happy to listen: "Yang Yang didn't use diapers when he was a child, did that affect his height? Does it affect his IQ?"

Who knew that Yan's mother didn't stand on the same front with her, shook her head and waved her hand and said: "I think it's better to forget it, I took Shun Shun more than 20 years ago, not to mention that I can't remember many things." Some time ago, I went to see an old colleague of mine, she just had a grandson, I said go and hug it, ouch hey, soft lying on her stomach, sliding around in her arms, making me frightened.

"I think it's better to ask the confinement sister-in-law to rest assured, it's best not to use diapers, you see who still uses diapers in the city now? The flags are hung all over the place, making people laugh, and making the house smell of urine. Mother-in-law, since the children have the heart to let us enjoy happiness, why don't we enjoy it? Work less and live longer, and you and I will watch our grandchildren start a family in the future. ”

Father Yan immediately responded to the side.

Xin's mother was so angry in her heart: Who still uses diapers in the city? Isn't that sarcastic that she is from the countryside? But Yan's mother still has a tone for the good of you and me, so that she can't refute a word.

4:1。

Xin's mother was at an absolute disadvantage, and she could only find a reason that was not a reason: "Originally, Shun Shun bought a small house in this house, and then stuffed the confinement sister-in-law, can the family still turn over?"

Yan's mother said: "Isn't there a very spacious bungalow over there in Yangyang? It was renovated at the beginning of the year, and it was another summer, and when I moved in after giving birth to a child, it was empty for more than half a year, and the decoration pollution should have been almost dispersed, and it will be good." ”

In this way, it is really true, the time of this pregnancy is as if it has been calculated, and it will be fine.

Xin's mother was originally very unhappy, but when she thought of that house, her heart turned around: that house had four rooms and an old man's room, and she happened to move in with her son and grandson when the time came, wouldn't she be happy?

"Alright, alright, that's as you please. However, after all, the confinement lady is an outsider, and there have been some incidents of confinement sister-in-law abusing the baby over the years, so I will move over to help you watch it. ”

The little couple glanced at each other, and there was a little bitterness in their hearts, but Xin's mother just agreed to two conditions, and this condition was reasonable, they really couldn't object, so they had to say nothing, and when the time came, there was a recruitment.

In this way, all parties have their own gains and losses, and they can barely be regarded as happy.

The family meeting finally came to a successful conclusion.

Soon, news came from Yan's mother that the introducer was an old colleague she had visited some time ago.

The old colleagues were full of praise for their confinement sister-in-law, saying that it was a variety of professions, and Yan's mother took down the contact information without hesitation.

Yan Rushun didn't dare to delay for a minute, and hurriedly called.

Fortunately, Yan Rushun is due to give birth, and this confinement sister-in-law, Sister Wu, happens to be available.

Yan Rushun was very polite, and she had a very happy conversation with her sister-in-law, and immediately agreed to pay a reservation of 1,000 yuan the next day.

After the matter of the confinement sister-in-law was settled, Yan Rushun immediately breathed a sigh of relief, feeling that a stone in her heart had fallen to the ground.

Xin's mother heard it with her eyelids jumping: "What kind of confinement sister-in-law costs 12,000 a month, what are you kidding!"

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