Xin Wei gave a look and said to his wife silently: "My voice is hoarse, take your time, take your time." ”

Without waiting for his wife to react, he took out a paper from his backpack to wipe his daughter's face.

In front of the child, Yan Rushun couldn't refute him, so he could only "hum" and added: "Whether it's my father or me, I won't hug the crying child, and if you want to hug it, you have to wait until the crying is over." ”

Jian Jian immediately stopped speaking, although she was still sobbing and sobbing, she really said that she didn't cry anymore.

"I didn't cry anymore. She opened her arms to her father again.

Yan Rushun didn't let her go, squatted down, and said seriously but in a gentle tone: "There are a few things, we have to talk about it first, and then don't mess up: first, it's okay for Dad to hug, but if you cry, don't hug it." If you have anything to say, for example, you can ask us directly, 'Dad, can you hug me?'

Jian Jian nodded "um".

"Second, we hugged you not because you cried, but because you stopped crying and could talk well. And the reason why we do this is not because we don't love you, but because you have to learn to communicate with others in a good way instead of being vexatious - if you cry with your grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents, maybe they will be soft-hearted for a while. But when you grow up and come into contact with more people, will others follow you because you cry?"

"No, it won't. Jian Jian shook her head obediently, and she didn't know if she really understood.

"Very good! Third, you are tired even when you walk, and Daddy is even more tired when he walks with you. In case Dad is tired and no one is making money, our family will have no money to buy groceries, clothes, and toys, understand?"

Jian Jian replied ignorantly: "Understood." ”

Yan Rushun took advantage of the situation and said: "So, we can only hold on for a while, and you can walk another way yourself." When you're tired of walking, hug it again, is it okay?"

Jian Jian scratched her neck a little reluctantly, probably thinking about how to find a reason to reject her mother's suggestion in her little head.

Yan Rushun immediately added: "If you can't, then don't hug it and go by yourself." ”

Jian Jian suddenly became anxious: "Yes, yes." ”

It's finally done.

Xin Weiyang had the urge to burst into tears: it took half an hour before and after, and he hadn't left the community yet. It's just a big deal, but it's like using the power of the wilderness to participate in a tug-of-war.

Yes, it's a tug-of-war – a contest between civilization and ignorance.

The two sides flex their muscles and engage in a battle of willpower.

Or, ignorance crushes civilization and raises a bear child.

Or, civilization tame ignorance and make a basic person.

The victory of ignorance, in the blink of an eye, is simply not too easy.

The victory of civilization, on the other hand, requires repeated tug-of-war. It is necessary not only to protect the fragility of the soul in a gentle way, but also to unswervingly bring ignorance to the civilized world.

Just the thought that this process can be protracted and endless, makes me feel so tired!

Now, Xin Weiyang somewhat understands why the four old men can't help but follow Jian Jian - in other words, he would rather be less tormented and less troublesome in the face of this little child.

Of course, emotion is emotion, but this does not mean that he does not understand his wife's good intentions and political correctness.

As an educator, he naturally knows the basic truth of "education cannot lose its principles" better than anyone else, and because of this, after this battle, his admiration for Yan Rushun has reached a new level - how many people know this truth, but they just can't do it.

He was really glad that he had married a good wife, otherwise who would help him tame Jian Jian, a little devil?

Fortunately, children's emotions come and go quickly.

After the initial stage of resistance, she was soon able to accept the agreement with her mother: "Go to the big tree closest to us and come down and walk by yourself." ”

"Good. Walked to the trash can in front of me, and Dad hugged him again. ”

"Good. ”

Walking for a while, hugging for a while, Xin Weiyang had to bend down for a while, get up for a while, and repeat it again and again, it was a big test of waist strength.

"It's better to hold it all the time. He sighed in his heart, didn't dare to say it, just put his daughter on the ground again.

Jian Jian didn't make any trouble, ran to her mother's side, took Yan Rushun's hand, and began to ask happily, "Mom, why don't we go?"

"It's because there's a red light. Look at the other side, is there a set of lights there?"

"Hmm. ”

"That's the traffic light that directs our actions. The red light stops, the green light goes, the yellow light turns on and waits......"

Jian Jian's eyes were full of admiration, Yan Rushun's whole person was also like a spring breeze, and the mother and daughter acted as if nothing had happened.

Xin Weiyang watched curiously, and saw that Yan Rushun opened the conversation box and started a safety education lecture, from traffic lights to anti-abduction and anti-fraud, and from anti-abduction and anti-fraud to anti-traffickers from robbing.

The child is also forgetful, and when he listened, he forgot to let his father hug him, and followed his mother all the way, and he didn't see any tiredness or anything.

Xin Weiyang was secretly rejoicing, but when his wife saw that Jian Jian was interested, she had a whim and called Xin Weiyang to do the on-site drill.

Professor Xin had no choice but to play the role of a trafficker who snatched the child on the street, approached his daughter from behind, and ran away after snatching her.

For the first time, Jian Jian was completely stupid, and he grabbed it without saying a word.

The chief director, Yan Rushun, immediately shouted "Click", re-explained the script, and asked him to do it again.

This time, Jian Jian shouted, but what she shouted was: "Ahhhhh

Not to mention, people also struggled with both singing and writing, and they made it look decent.

Director Yan shouted "click" again, and then admonished: "You can't just shout 'ah-', the people next to you don't know you or the traffickers, how do they know that you're not playing with your dad, right? So, you must shout 'help, he's not my dad', understand?"

"Understood. Jane was eager to try.

As a result, the "human trafficker" Xin Weiyang began the third charge exercise.

This time, Jian Jian played quite devotedly, not only shouting "help", struggling non-stop, but also scratching and biting at her father - although her few cat paws were nothing, they still made Xin Weiyang sweat.

When everything was almost done, he suddenly remembered one thing: What about going out to buy groceries and exercising his daughter?

Forget it, for the sake of his wife and children, he endured it.

Professor Xin, who was exhausted and out of breath, waited for his wife to praise him.

Yan Rushun really turned his head and asked coldly: "Hard work, right?"

Xin Weiyang thought that it was time to earn a little sympathy points, so he sighed and complained to his wife: "Yes, I can't straighten my waist." ”

Yan Rushun nodded and said seriously: "I think it's time for you to lose weight." ”

Xin Weiyang was speechless to the sky, and could only comfort himself: everything is floating clouds, all floating clouds.

However, in the end, it is still ...... It's so depressing.

Walked all the way, played all the way, and walked for more than half an hour in ten minutes.

When she arrived at the vegetable market, Yan Rushun began to teach her daughter to recognize and pick vegetables.

Jian Jian knows a little and doesn't, but fortunately, she is quite interested in these things and is willing to follow her parents to watch them from stall to stall.

Looking all the way, she pointed out all the way:

"Buy shrimp, buy shrimp, I want to eat. ”

"Steamed pumpkin. ”

"I also want winter melon soup. ”

Xin Weiyang, the people who eat melons, are very speechless: I know that if I eat melons and eat melons, is my daughter a melon?

Yan Rushun was very obedient to her at this time, she bought whatever she said, and added some other meat dishes, so that Xin Weiyang's hands were full.

She gave Jian Jian a chance to ask the price, pay, wait for the money, and teach her to bargain - although the cut was not successful, Jian Jian was in high spirits all the way, and treated the whole thing as a game to clear the level.

The little girl was happy, but the two of them were very troubled: what could be done very simply, let Jian Jian play like this, and explain for a long time, and wait for her to pick the dishes, and wait for her to consider the words - the procedure is 10,000 times more cumbersome, and it makes people exhausted.

However, although it was hard, Xin Weiyang saw that her daughter was no longer crying and depressed before, and felt that the hard work was worth it.

Who knows, after buying the vegetables, Jian Jian howled again: "I'm tired, I want to hug——"

The husband and wife each carried a few bags in their hands, but they just looked at her with green eyebrows.

Yan Rushun shrugged regretfully at her daughter: "You also saw it, we don't have any hands to hold you." Well, let's talk about a solution, shall we?"

However, Jian Jian didn't listen at all, and immediately began to cry.

Yan Rushun concocted the same method, and she cried on the street, not persuading or following her, just waiting to see when she would finish crying.

Some enthusiastic passers-by gave them an idea: "Take a candy and coax the child." ”

Yan Rushun smiled politely: "Thank you, no need." ”

Passers-by saw that the child was crying breathlessly, and was quite sympathetic: "Oh, crying so pitiful." ”

"It's okay, she wants to cry herself, just wait for her to cry for a while, and it's good to cry when it's over. Yan Rushun didn't care about the eyes of passers-by, and went his own way.

Passers-by snorted twice, and the eyes were as contemptuous as they were - it is estimated that Yan Rushun and the two were classified as parents with no conscience, maybe they would turn around and talk to acquaintances, saying that they had met a pair of cold-hearted parents today, and the children cried pitifully, and they didn't know how to comfort them.

Before leaving, passers-by gave Yan Rushun and Xin Weiyang a "gaze salute" for a long time, and they didn't know whether he saw that Xin Weiyang was a stepfather or that Yan Rushun was a stepmother.

Xin Weiyang raised his eyes to the sky the whole time, pretending that he hadn't seen or heard anything.

Jian Jian saw that her parents had been indifferent, and she didn't know if it was six or eight minutes, but she finally weakened.

Yan Rushun asked at this time: "Jian Jian, you can make a choice." First, we'll wait here for you to rest for a minute, and then we'll walk back to cook and eat, and second, we'll throw the meat and vegetables we bought here, and we'll free up our hands to carry you back, and we'll stop eating lunch. Which one do you choose?"

There has been such a long delay in front, and it is already noon, not to mention Jian Jian's little guy, even Xin Weiyang's stomach is hungry.

Jane snorted and said, "We can take a car." ”

Of course, Yan Rushun shook his head: "My father and I didn't have extra money, unless you pay, we can't take the car." ”

Jian Jian was still ignorant about money, and she didn't know that her father had collected all her New Year's money, so she naturally couldn't bear Yan Rushun's powerful methods, so she had to agree to the plan of walking home infinitely aggrieved.

The family stopped and walked until nearly one o'clock in the afternoon.

Jian Jian was so hungry that she wasn't interested in any games at home, so she stood at the door of the kitchen, waiting for her mother to stir-fry and cook.

Xin Weiyang was afraid that she couldn't help but run into the kitchen, so she had to stay by the side boredly.

At two o'clock in the afternoon, the family finally had lunch.

Jian Jian was swept by the wind and clouds, and she ate it so fiercely.

As soon as he was full, the little guy fell asleep and came up again, holding the dishes and chopsticks, squinting his eyes and nodding constantly.

It can be seen that it is also a toss.

If the four elders were present, I don't know what it would be like to feel distressed.

Yan Rushun put her daughter to bed and slept well.

Now, she finally won't make trouble anymore for the time being.

The world is clean again.

Looking at her innocent and quiet sleeping face, Xin Weiyang couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief and sighed with emotion: "This is definitely the most torturous day in my life, there is no one." It's not grinding her at all, it's grinding us!"

Yan Rushun replied: "You are very right, but you always have to pay it back when you come out." If you are lazy for a while, you will have to repay a huge debt later, but if you work hard now, you will be debt-free and light in the future. Which one do you choose?"

Xin Weiyang sighed: "I know what you mean, but I just think it's too difficult." ”

Yan Rushun patted him sympathetically on the shoulder: "By the way, let me say more: It's a pity, it's only been half a day now, take a breath, there is still the second half." ”

Xin Weiyang: "......" Sometimes, in fact, it is more lovely not to tell the truth.