She shouted "Mom" and shouted with a grim face: "Jian Jian will go to kindergarten in one year! Can you help her at home, can you still go to kindergarten to help her? If she is used to doing whatever she wants at home, and she will be disliked and wronged by her teachers and classmates in the future, will you be responsible?"

This is the first time she has used such a stern tone to scold her mother-in-law.

In the past, no matter how Xin's mother buried her, wronged her, and disliked her, she was angry in her heart, but for Xin Weiyang's face, and out of respect for her elders, she still tried her best to give her mother-in-law enough face.

But this time it's for the sake of the child, and I can't bear it anyway.

was scolded by her daughter-in-law, Xin's mother couldn't hold it on her face, and her hair stood on end: "What are you doing so loudly? Isn't it more than a year, teach slowly, and I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry." You see you scared Jane Jane. ”

It was also the first time for Jian Jian to see her mother go crazy, and her dark eyes revealed a sense of dazedness and fear.

Yan Rushun suddenly had infinite regret, but it was too late to regret at this time, so he could only end this matter as soon as possible.

She tried her best to suppress the anger in her heart, warned herself that she should no longer fall into the quarrel with her mother-in-law, squatted down and picked up Jian Jian, and walked directly out of the door.

Xin's mother asked anxiously, "What are you doing?"

"Take Jane for a walk. After a pause, he added, "Mom, don't come, I'll just take her." ”

Seeing her daughter-in-law's resolute attitude, Xin's mother asked helplessly: "Where are your parents?

Yan Rushun glanced at her mother-in-law: "They are not here, I will take Jian Jian to buy vegetables and take a walk by the way." ”

Xin's mother was shocked: "Where did they go, why did they leave you alone?Eh, what time is it now, is it too late to buy vegetables and cook?"

There were a series of questions in her stomach, but Yan Rushun didn't answer, pulled the door, and went out without looking back - if she didn't go out, she was afraid that she would erupt again.

When she got out of the building, she put Jian Jian on the ground, took her hand and walked all the way.

Although there is the sun, but the weather is still cold, the dim sun seems to have no temperature at all, fortunately during the New Year's holiday, the community is decorated everywhere, lively and lively, but it does not make people feel gloomy.

Yan Rushun was still choked in her heart. In the past, when she was ridiculed and squeezed by her mother-in-law in front of her mother-in-law because of her full-time work, she had never been so angry, but at this moment, her heart was throbbing for a while, and she couldn't slow it down for a long time.

How to put it, it is as if the precious flowers carefully cultivated by the gardener have been pinched, and the feeling is simply indescribable.

If she were an outsider, she might have to fight with someone, but in the face of her mother-in-law, she had to endure it, so much so that her heart was about to explode.

Perhaps because she felt the low pressure on her mother's body, Jian Jian did not ask for a hug today, but followed her mother without saying a word. The two calves walked very fast, kept trotting frequency, and after a while, she was a little out of breath, but Yan Rushun didn't notice it, and still dragged her forward.

Finally, Jian Jian made a mistake, his foot didn't rise, kicked to the steps, and fell forward all of a sudden.

Fortunately, Yan Rushun had been holding her daughter's hand tightly, feeling the sudden increase in weight, and subconsciously mentioning it, so as not to let Jian Jian's face fall directly to the ground, but let her roll and crawl in mid-air and hit her mother's thigh.

Although she was not injured, Jian Jian still cried wowly: "Mom, I'm tired ......" The grievances in the four words are endless.

Yan Rushun was shocked to realize that she only cared about being angry and forgot to take care of her daughter, and she regretted and ashamed for a while, and blamed herself:

In any case, adults should not let their emotions affect their children.

Today, I'm really bad.

There can be no next time, there must not be again!

She immediately sat down, hugged Jian Jian tightly, asked her if it hurt, where it hurt, and said that her mother would blow it for you.

Jian Jian finally slowly calmed down.

Yan Rushun kissed her on the face and neck a few times, she couldn't help but itch, and immediately giggled.

Yan Rushun relieved himself at this time.

After Jian Jian laughed, she asked, "Mom, why are you so angry?"

Yan Rushun had completely calmed down at this time, but she still thought about it before answering: "Mom is angry because grandma cheated on mom with you, which is not right." But mom shouldn't be angry with grandma and you, it's not right, mom has to apologize to you. ”

Jian Jian pursed her lips, her eyes blinking at her, her eyes revealing deep thought.

Yan Rushun continued to hug her, and explained to her softly what is really good for a person:

Is it a good thing that everyone follows you in everything?

Wouldn't it be good for a stepmother to torture Snow White, and conversely, if the stepmother followed her in everything, and ended up making Snow White as arrogant, ignorant, and annoying as her two stepsisters, and she wouldn't do anything, just waiting for others to serve them, wouldn't it be a good thing?

If you eat as much as you want, don't eat if you don't want to, eat whatever you want, and end up your body can't bear it and gets sick, or you grow obese like a pig, is that a good thing?

……

The wind was sandwiched with frost, and his face hurt a little.

Yan Rushun protected her daughter tightly, and she couldn't stand it anymore, but she still slowly finished what she felt she should say.

Because the atmosphere is so good at the moment, Jian Jian nestled in her warm embrace, listened carefully to her analysis of these philosophical principles, and gave her own answers after thinking.

It was a rare experience and a lifelong learning for her.

It may not be possible to reach his heart once or twice, but after planting a seed, it will slowly take root and sprout in the future.

At some point, she may be touched by something to think of her mother's words, and then think and judge for herself, which must have a positive meaning for her life.

The mother and daughter talked for a while, and felt that the indescribable intimacy between each other deepened a lot, and Yan Rushun's hands and feet were cold when they talked straight, and then they got up and walked back.

Halfway through, she took out her mobile phone and found that Xin Weiyang had called her several times.

She dialed it back, and Xin Weiyang hurriedly explained to her: "Shun Shun, don't take my mother's words to heart, I have already criticized her, it's her fault......"

Yan Rushun glanced at Jian Jian, interrupted him, and said in a suppressed voice: "Now it is not a question of criticizing or not, nor is it a question of finding the person responsible. Criticizing my mother did me no good, on the contrary, she was likely to blame me for it, causing the relationship between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to deteriorate.

"The key now is that we can't let our mother get involved anymore! Because she can't stand it anyway, she thinks I'm abusing her granddaughter, so as long as she's there, she'll definitely do it against me. Do you wish there was war every day in your house?"

Of course not.

The matter is so serious, Xin Weiyang promised to go home as soon as possible in the evening to solve the problem.

The mother and daughter returned home.

When Xin's mother saw them, she jumped up: "Didn't you say that you were going to buy vegetables?"

After talking for so long, what else do you buy?

Yan Rushun had already adjusted, and replied with a good attitude: "I talked to Jian Jian about the formation, so I delayed the time." I'm going to order takeout for the time being at noon today. Mom, what would you like to eat?"

Xin's mother was still angry in her heart: "What to eat, don't you want to be hungry? Keep being hungry! I'll be hungry with you." ”

Jian Jian couldn't help but be anxious when she heard this: "I want to eat." ”

Yan Rushun took advantage of the situation and said: "If you want to eat, everyone wants to eat, grandma is joking with you." "This is when things finally come to a halt.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law tacitly kept silent about the meal, and pretended to be kind enough to cook lunch.

Both of them felt sorry for Jian Jian, so in the end, they ordered the dishes that Jian Jian liked for lunch.

Jian Jian threw herself into the meal without looking up, and rolled her stomach after eating.

Yan Rushun was afraid that she would hold on, so she stopped her from eating several times, and Xin's mother glared: "You are hungry in the morning, and you are not allowed to eat at noon, are you your own mother?"

After taking a deep breath several times, Yan Rushun calmed the churning breath again, and at the same time kept telling herself: I can't quarrel with my mother-in-law anymore, and if I continue to quarrel, there will be no result. From the beginning, Xin Weiyang should have been asked to negotiate with her mother-in-law, and as for her, she should practice her efforts to cultivate her qi.

In fact, Xin's mother also held her breath, and it was easy to wait for Jian Jian to take a nap, and she called her daughter-in-law from the bed to reason as soon as possible.

Of course, Xin's mother has Xin's mother's reasons, and Yan Rushun also has her own principles, no matter what her mother-in-law says, she has one question: "Now I can indulge Xiao Jane, but what will happen when she goes to kindergarten next year?"

Xin's mother said: "Let's spend more money and go to a good private kindergarten." ”

It's naïve.

Yan Rushun shook his head: "Mom, it's not like a 60,000 yuan a year kindergarten has not broken out of child abuse." I myself went to kindergarten as a teacher, and the kindergarten I went to was not cheap. But to be honest, no matter what kind of kindergarten you are in, teachers are human beings, teachers must have their own likes and dislikes, and teachers must also want to have less trouble.

"Your child often poops and pees on the pants and bed, or doesn't listen to the teacher, eats when he wants, doesn't eat if he doesn't want to eat, all kinds of bear children do all kinds of things, can the teacher have a smile on you? The teacher doesn't want to see you, that may cause a lot of psychological shadows to the child.

"If we want our children to be smooth and happy in kindergarten, we parents can't hold the idea of 'just dumping the child to the teacher', we must try to cultivate the child's self-care ability before entering the kindergarten. In this world, it is better to ask for others than for yourself, so why ask for others if you can ask for these simple things?"

reason, Xin's mother actually understands it.

But it is true that grandma loves her grandson very much, thinking of her granddaughter's hunger until noon, she really can't bear it: "I know you have your reasoning, but education must be about methods." An An is only so small, once she is naughty, you will starve her. What if you starve and it doesn't work? Are you going to starve people to death all the time?"

"How can it be useless? Eating and drinking Lazar is a human biological instinct, and if she loses even this instinct, and does not even have this little drive, then she will be doomed! Mom, don't worry, if you can't be hungry once, we will be hungry twice, and I bet she won't be hungry for the third meal. Yan Rushun is very confident.

She is not using Jane Jian as an experiment, and many educational books have already had similar success stories.

Xin's mother was angry: Yo ho, that means, if An An doesn't learn a lesson, she is really ready to go hungry to the end?

She couldn't help frowning and asked: "Our family An'an is already so cute, not only is she smart and can read, but she is also lively and cheerful, everyone loves her, what else do you want?

"Mom, I didn't force her, it was her own choice. She has to learn to take responsibility for her actions, which is more important than being able to read, and you can't let her do whatever she wants just because she knows a few words, can you?"

The daughter-in-law here is really reading and reading, and she can't make sense with an elm head, so she walks away angrily, just waiting to complain to her son at night.

In any case, the daughter-in-law must not be allowed to toss around indiscriminately.