Xin Weiyang was a little unhappy.

Yan Rushun spoke very aggressively, always giving him the feeling of missing roots, but in the matter of her parents, she was allowed again.

When he was a child, his parents were angry, and his mother always wiped her tears behind her back, telling him how bad his father was, but his father never argued, he was towards his mother; at the beginning, his father insisted on divorcing his mother, and his strong mother hid in the room and cried so much that he was sympathetic to his mother at that time.

But when he was in his first year, as an adult man, when his life was restricted by his mother everywhere, he gradually understood his father's choice.

Just like Yan Rushun said, my father must have endured my mother for many years.

After much hesitation, he finally went to see his father.

Over the years of the divorce, my father has basically worn old clothes, because no one has helped him buy new ones except for his son, the house is also a bit messy, because no one has helped him clean up the dishes, and the meal is fine, he has good craftsmanship, but he is lazy alone, and many times he just cooks bowls and noodles.

In Xin Weiyang's eyes, his life is not as comfortable as before, but his spirit is better than in the past. I used to be frowning and resentful, but now I seem to be in a peaceful state of mind, and I am a little kind.

On the computer screen were photographs he had taken while teaching computer programming lessons to students at a nearby elementary school. It can be seen that he is very committed and passionate about this work.

"Sit down!" Father Xin explained as he poured a glass of water for his son, noticing where his gaze fell, "Teaching these children always reminds me of the time when I taught you when I was a child. You're so old in a blink of an eye, and I'm getting old. ”

If it weren't for his father, he wouldn't have been exposed to computers very early, and his life might be completely different now.

He also sighed a little: "Dad, you have always been very far-sighted. ”

When he was a child, computers were not widely used in China at all, and it was very unusual to have a few computers in the school, and he had at most one class a week, except for teaching a little BASIC, basically playing games. But his father ignored his fucking objections and quarrels, spent several months of his salary to buy a 586 with the best configuration at the time, and then taught his son to code by himself while teaching his son by hand.

"I am relieved that it has not delayed your development. Father Xin sighed, "But, what's the matter with your girlfriend?"

Finally, I asked the question.

He only paused for a moment, and then according to Yan Rushun's instructions, he explained the situation 1510.

Father Xin was out for a while: "Son, aren't you ready to get married?"

He was stunned for a moment, and Yan Rushun also asked this question.

"No, it's just not considered yet. I'm too busy at work, and I really don't have time. ”

Father Xin nodded: "Actually, you don't look forward to it, do you?"

Xin Weiyang was silent.

He didn't know what to say.

Father Xin sighed: "The matter between me and your mother, in the end, still affects your confidence in married life." ”

Xin Weiyang said: "Dad, you are too worried, this has nothing to do with you." ”

Father Xin touched his pocket and lit a cigarette: "I really haven't had a good life with your mother, I'm sorry for you." ”

Xin Weiyang was about to speak.

Father Xin interrupted him: "Listen to me first: marriage is indeed risky. As soon as I got married, two people with completely different life backgrounds and habits were tied together, and every day when I woke up, it was the matter of firewood, salt, oil, rice, sauce, vinegar and tea, and that kind of triviality was really depressing. ”

Hearing this, Xin Weiyang suddenly remembered what his father told him when he divorced: "I've just been bored all my life, and I just want to come out and breathe." "Suddenly there was a little desolation in my heart.

"But-" Father Xin spat out a puff of smoke and said slowly but forcefully, "even if I can't get along with your mother and end up divorced, it doesn't mean that this world is unhappy." Even today, I still believe that there is a happy and warm family, but I have not met it. ”

Xin Weiyang knew that marriages in his father's time were usually decided hastily. According to colleagues in the unit, after getting to know each other for a meal, they couldn't find any major faults with each other, and they couldn't understand each other, so they hurriedly got married under the urging of everyone, gave birth to children quickly, and then fell into the quagmire of life, unable to extricate themselves.

Xin Weiyang's heart darkened, and he asked, "Dad, why didn't you find another one?"

Father Xin laughed, and his hair shook in front of his eyes: "People have a big temper when they are old, and they didn't get along well when they were young, and it's even more difficult to run in now." Don't you see your mother hasn't found it either?"

Xin Weiyang said: "Mom didn't look for it. ”

"I can't find it. Father Xin coughed twice, looked at him and continued: "Some things have missed the opportunity, and it will be difficult to do them again. ”

He knew that his father was reminding him, but he was still confused: "Dad, why do you think people have to get married?"

This is a profound question.

Father Xin squinted his eyes and thought for a while before replying, "I don't have to get married." If you have money, you don't have any worries, and you don't want to settle other people's tempers, so it's normal not to get married.

"But maybe one day, you will meet a girl who will make you think of those good things at every moment and make you look forward to the future with her. No matter how hard it is, you don't feel like a burden, as long as you are with her, your life will be full of meaning, and you even want to create a wonderful life with her, and then carefully protect and nurture it to grow up slowly - at that time, you will feel that marriage is a wonderful thing. ”

Xin Weiyang walked down the street.

There was a thin glimmer of light in the clouds, and the autumn wind swept the fallen leaves and swirled at his feet, but there was an indescribable warm current surging in his heart.

As a failed marriage, his father's eyes were still full of firmness for his true feelings, which made him suddenly inexplicably moved.

Modern society believes more and more in money and work, but less and less in feelings.

Maybe one day, he will meet a girl, a girl who makes him think of the good things in the world all the time, and at that time, will he believe it once?

He didn't know the answer, but he was vaguely curious.

Yan Rushun used the reason of "overtime" to delay for a month, and finally couldn't drag it out until the National Day holiday, so she had to agree to follow Xin Weiyang to see her parents again.

Xin's mother deliberately dressed up, and she was still nervously rubbing her hands on the road.

When everyone met, Yan Rushun had no burden, talking and laughing, but Xin's mother was like a new daughter-in-law who saw her father-in-law for the first time, and she sat a little stiffly.

Except for the initial hello, she didn't speak to Father Xin again.

Fortunately, there is Yan Rushun to tell the story with a smile, and the atmosphere is not bad.

Father Xin knew that it was a play, so he was naturally not particularly eager, so he casually asked a few regular interview questions to meet parents, and the meaning was over at once.

Xin's mother felt that he didn't ask about the point, so she made a big look, but Xin's father just didn't see it.

Helpless, she had no choice but to go out in person: "Yangyang, Shunshun, your relationship is so stable, can you arrange for our parents to get to know each other?"

Yan Rushun was instantly dumbfounded.

Xin Weiyang said: "Mom, we haven't been dating for long, it's too fast." ”

Father Xin helped to open the trust: "Nowadays, young people want to enjoy the process of falling in love, don't worry, this kind of thing can't be rushed, you want to go straight to the bridge." ”

Xin's mother glared angrily, and just wanted to start training, Yu Guang glanced at Yan Rushun, and pressed it down stiffly: "I won't get in the way if I ask." ”

Yan Rushun smiled: "Auntie, Wei Yang and I both feel that we still need to get to know each other again, and when the time comes, we will naturally arrange it." ”

When the dinner ended, Xin Weiyang sent Yan Rushun out.

Xin's mother had a spring breeze on her face, and repeatedly asked her to come to the house to play.

When Yan Rushun's shadow disappeared, Xin's mother's face collapsed instantly, and she immediately exploded: "What the hell is going on with you? It's not that I didn't explain my son's situation to you, at such an important time, you dismantle my stage, don't you want to hug your grandson?"

Father Xin sighed: "It's not good for your health to be so angry when you're old." ”

"Don't talk to me!" Xin's mother felt an evil fire in her heart, "Xin Hao, if you want to beat the singleton yourself, if you dare to let your son beat the single, I won't be done with you!"

"Is this something you can do in a hurry?"

Xin's mother slapped the table: "If you don't come in a hurry, do you just leave it alone?What is your attitude? With your attitude, I don't know and think I'm a stepfather!"

I haven't seen each other for so many years, but when I meet, I return to the familiar routine.

Father Xin didn't want to quarrel with her, so he got up and left with his hands behind his back.

Xin's mother suddenly felt aggrieved and hid her face and cried.

Xin Weiyang listened to Yan Rushun's jokes one moment ago, saying that he designed a few more blind date meetings, maybe he would be able to match his parents to reunite, and the next moment he saw his mother scratching her tears and snot, and couldn't help but feel a headache: Wasn't it okay just now?

"Mom, Shun Shun has already come to see Dad, what else do you have to be sad about?"

Xin's mother cried and scolded frantically: "Your father's old guy only cares about his own happiness, and doesn't care about your life or death! He doesn't care about your girlfriend's affairs at all, can't you see it? That is why I have so much care, and no one has appreciated it yet!"

Xin Weiyang patiently coaxed for a long time, and finally let the rainstorm turn to light rain, and the two went home gloomy.

Xin's mother was angry for a while, and when she returned home, she couldn't sleep after tossing and turning.

At this age, there is only one thing she has to worry about, and that is to find a way to achieve her goal no matter what.

At least, she can't do nothing.

The son can't be counted on, so he can only start with Yan Rushun.

Xin's mother has always been very active, and she expanded her connections in the small talk of the seven aunts and eight aunts, and began to investigate Yan Rushun.

Although it is a big city with a population of tens of millions, as long as she lives in this circle, she can always find some connections to understand the people she wants to know.

With Xin's mother's efforts, she finally heard about Yan's mother's square dance.

After stepping on the dot twice to recognize people, she talked to Yan's mother: "Eldest sister, where did you buy this dance costume? ”