In the city, the time when people reach the age of 30 is in the most hurry!

Haishi is of course one of the representative places, especially with the continuous expansion of the city, a lot of time is forced to waste on the way to and from work, the bus goes farther and farther, and it goes slower and slower, even if you buy a car, it is the same, there are more and more traffic jams!

Many people come to the largest city in China, and after years of hard work, regardless of the level, they can gradually begin to find their position in the sea market. How to work, how to live, what kind of circle of friends should you have, what you can do, and what kind of future you can have, at this time it is basically determined.

What can you do if you are unwilling? Desperate efforts may lead to many changes, but they are only some quantitative changes, and there will never be any qualitative leaps!

When people reach their thirties, they are not ready to get married, and they are anxious that they have not yet found a suitable marriage partner, because no matter who is left of the man, the rest of the life is actually not very good.

Men are either too attentive to play chic, or they are disliked because the conditions are too poor, and except for a few women, who are missed because of some special circumstances, most of them have "shortcomings" in some aspects, or have "ideas" that are not in line with the times!

When people reach thirty, men and women who already have a marriage partner are also busy getting married, although a good marriage is not afraid of coming late, but women don't have the best time to have children?

And I have to be laughed at by my parents, which is too late for the next generation!

And people who love each other can't get married naturally, the house is a very big obstacle, no matter which mother-in-law will ask a typical question!

"How can you have a real home without a house?"

"Not having your own house means wandering around, not having a fixed place to come back every day to shelter from the wind and rain!"

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It cannot be said that the woman's request is unreasonable, but the housing prices in the sea market are rising, and if the man's parents are just ordinary people, even if they have emptied their life savings and want to marry their children, it is actually very difficult to buy a wedding house! Most families can only make a down payment, and the young couple will need to repay the loan and interest in the next ten years or more!

That's how you want to thank yourself for your "wisdom, wisdom and decisiveness", because if you hesitate a little, or expect to save some more money and strive to get it in one step, then you will find that the speed of saving money is not as fast as the increase in housing prices!

Just like some men and women who have just married will find that their life after marriage is far less beautiful than they think! The quality of living standards has plummeted compared to before, and it seems that they have returned to the "pre-liberation" period overnight! Both men and women have changed from masters of life to "slaves" of life!

Those who have married and had children at the age of 30 are relatively lucky, with a house, a car, a family, and children, and have a complete life!

It seems to be a proper winner in life, but the most feared thing in this world is "but", more troubles are waiting for them!

The husband complains that he has not enjoyed leisure for a long time, the wife complains that the life is always very nervous, the children are naughty and mischievous, and the study is unsatisfactory, and when the parents of both sides have nothing to do, they also like to participate in the life of the young couple for a while, and when there is something, they are too old to bear.

Annoying!

It seems that if you don't pay attention, you become a debtor to everyone, and everyone can ask them to do things!

"You go for a run, we can't walk anymore!"

"What's wrong with you, why are you so stupid? It's really like you......"

"You ......"

"You go ...... again"

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If there is no love in the heart, who can last long?

When people reach thirty, they enter middle age, but their parents are already old, and they will be sick and hospitalized from time to time. This kind of time is really the most worrying day for all people, and it is extremely gloomy time.

All healthy and young people don't go there, because once they do, they will find that the world is far from being as beautiful as the average person sees!

Sad, busy, depressed, how many people go there and face reality with an open-minded attitude?

I can still say it proudly.

What is the joy of life, and what is the fear of death!

Even Zhao Hong, who has always been particularly resistant to the hospital, began to have to face it every day, his parents are older, and his health is relatively good, but the small problems have gradually increased, and the situation that he didn't care about before has to be paid attention to now!

When you are old, you will be weak, and the sky has never let anyone go?

Luckily, when his family needed help the most, he found that he seemed to have the money and time to do it. There are no special social relations, but at least they can be compensated with sufficient financial and material resources. Fortunately, I have survived it, and I have gradually begun to get used to it, although I am still confused occasionally, but I can face it open-mindedly!

No one is a god, if it is a human being, it will be sick, who is different?

Thinking about it like this, it is better to work hard, live a serious and happy life, and live a good life in front of you is the most real, so that if you encounter something unexpected, at least you can have more confidence, at least you will not leave regrets.

30 years old is not young, but it has not reached the age when the heart is like water, life is still on the road of rising, the career has gradually begun to develop, and even the harvest season is far from coming.

When Guo Yi celebrated her 30th birthday, she was more stunned than anxious and panicked.

"Why are you 30 years old all of a sudden? It feels like time flies too quickly. ”

Listening to her muttering, Zhao Hong was a little unkindly happy! Since the beginning of the year, she has been laughing at Zhao Hong and Xiao Wanting for being in their thirties, but she is still a young man in her twenties!

That tsundere's little appearance is really hateful!

And today?

"Happy Birthday! I wish you a year and a ......year!

Zhao Hong said with a smile very happily, his eyes still observing Guo Yi's reaction from time to time. But the words were immediately interrupted.

"It's not my birthday, it's a few days! I'm still in my twenties!"

Guo Yi unceremoniously interrupted Zhao Hong's teasing.

"No! It's your birthday! I've checked it and been preparing for it for a long time! How could it be wrong?"

Zhao Hong retorted with some dissatisfaction.

"Today is only the solar calendar, and there are still a few days left on the lunar calendar! Are you in a hurry? It's useless to be anxious! Haha......"

"Oh? you ......"

"Of course I'm right, how could I be wrong......?"

A thirty-year-old man needs to consider more responsibilities, more responsibilities, and many things can't be let go, but he has to shoulder all kinds of pressure and responsibility.

Although Zhao Hong is not afraid of thirty years old at all. Some people feel that they are old after the age of thirty, and he feels that he has only started to live since he was thirty years old.

The previous thinking was one-way, naïve, emotional, and unrealistic. Now my mind is more active, I know what I want, how to live, and the meaning of my efforts.

Others will always be said:

"You're 30 years old, why aren't you married?"

"You're 30, why haven't you bought a house yet?"

"You're 30 years old, why haven't you had children yet?"

"You're 30 years old, why don't you have any savings in your hand?"

......

But he doesn't have these troubles, on the one hand, these problems have been solved a long time ago, on the other hand, life is already the second time, of course he knows what the future will be, rather than worrying about it, it is better to cherish the time!

What's wrong with thirty?

Age doesn't define who you are or what you should do. On the contrary, after going through the initial youth and ignorance, we have a better idea of what kind of person we want to become.

At the age of thirty, Liu Bang was happily working as a blind and part-time hooligan (living with a hotel widow proprietress unmarried and giving birth to a son), and no one seemed to be able to foresee that he could create a rise from the head of the Qianqian to the emperor in the future!

What is Jiang Ziya doing at the age of seventy, learning skills, or being scolded by his wife every day: "Why can't you even forget your home?" Even as a man who was separated by an unvirtuous wife, wandering around the Weishui River and fishing with a straight hook, those who don't know think he is a mental illness, how can ordinary people understand how big the "fish" he catched?

What is age?

It's just that a person faces his hormonal impulses, is the restraint that is prohibitive, the courage to do what he wants to do, and the ability to find a certain balance between ideals and reality in compromise and concession.