You can't do that. He took out the feeling of criticizing doctoral students in the school, and taught her very seriously, "You can't stop at the shallow taste of everything, you should find a direction and study deeply." I had a lot of research options to choose from, and if I tried everything, I might not end up with any valuable results. So, do you need to figure out what you're going to do?"

"I know very well, I've been focusing on the child's upbringing. At this moment, Yan Rushun was like a cat that had been stepped on by its tail, and the hair on her body stood up, startling Xin Weiyang.

Xin Weiyang didn't expect his wife's reaction to this topic to be so big, and he was stunned for a moment before continuing: "However, in terms of education, if you go to kindergarten for a while, go to an early education center for a while, and go to a private school for a while, this can't be regarded as focus!"

This time, his tone was subconsciously much more tactful.

She showed a pitiful and desperate look, looked at him fixedly for a few seconds, and then her eyes turned red, and suddenly she had a "wow-" attack: "I know, you are starting to dislike me, I am not beautiful, I can't make money, and I can't make any convincing results in children's affairs, my wife can't do it at all, and I don't deserve you Dean Xin, woo woo woo......"

Xin Weiyang had never seen such an unreasonable situation, so he panicked at the moment, hugged his wife in his arms, and comforted him in a panic: "Don't cry, don't cry, wife, look...... This, our mother said, too many emotional ups and downs are not good for children's development, you understand this truth, right?"

He felt that Yi Yan Rushun attached great importance to the child's energy, and when he heard this, he should immediately turn from rain to sunshine.

Who knows, she just paused, and then cried even more: "You only care about the child, you don't care about me at all, you don't love others at all." As he spoke, he grabbed and beat him in his arms, like an abandoned little animal.

This is a wrongful death.

Xin Weiyang couldn't wait to cut out his heart to show her, but he really didn't know how to express this feeling, so he had to say: "Wife, wife, I said the wrong thing, I didn't mean that." You see, I'm just afraid that you will try blindly and try around, and in the end, our mother will find out the truth, causing a family war, and making you sad and sad-

"Hey, forget it, so be it, whatever you want to do next, or not, just be happy. I'll help you hide it, and when the child is born, after the maternity leave, we will tell our mother, saying that the child really can't do without you, and then naturally announce your resignation?"

These words finally made Yan Rushun quiet down a little, and began to meekly lie on his chest.

But she still sobbed and choked, and her volume was much lower than before, and she was a little aggrieved and helpless: "If it's an American or a Japanese, maybe it's okay." But in China, that doesn't work. ”

Xin Weiyang comforted: "How can it not work? This is our own life, as long as we both agree with it, you don't care too much about the opinions of irrelevant people." ”

Yan Rushun propped up her head and said in tears: "How can I not care? She is my mother, not an unrelated person." She gave birth to me and raised me, and we had fun together for a long time, and I always wanted me to make her happy and proud, not to make her sad and sad. But I find that I can't do it now, Weiyang, what should I do?"

He patted her on the back distressedly: "It's okay, it's okay, I'll always support you." I also know that you feel sorry for our mother, but we are already adults, and it is right to have our own ideas. You see, my mom always wanted to dictate my life, but I only compromised on small things, and I never heard of her on big things, right?"

"Who said that?" she immediately retorted, "you're not the same. At the beginning, your mother was dissatisfied with me, and you immediately said that you wanted to break up with me. You listen to her for such a big thing, what else don't listen to her?"

Originally...... Isn't it just a joke that he hasn't fallen in love yet, and that's his fault?

Xin Weiyang, who was speechless, was helpless: "Shun Shun, you haven't been so unreasonable before. ”

Yan Rushun rushed out with confidence: "That's because I didn't love you so much before!"

As soon as she finished speaking, she suddenly realized what she had said and quickly covered her mouth.

But it was too late, the words had already penetrated into Xin Weiyang's ears, and he suddenly felt like he had taken a bite of the Ten Perfection Tonic Pill, his whole face stretched out, and the smile on the corner of his mouth couldn't stop filling: "Oh, so that's the case......"

She suddenly felt all kinds of chagrin, and punched him a few times awkwardly: "If you dare to laugh again, if you laugh again, I will murder my husband!"

Xin Weiyang was even more happy, hugged his wife and kissed him several times: "What should I do if I am reluctant?"

Just when the atmosphere was about to be good and the follow-up was waiting, Yan Rushun pushed him, turned around and carried him, drooped his head, and said in a low voice: "Don't make trouble, I'm in a bad mood." ”

"Still afraid that our mother will talk about you?"

She looked up at him, shook her head, and lowered her head again: "Actually, I have been constantly reflecting during this time. I seem to have done a lot of things, and when I think about it, I don't seem to have done anything. Although I was determined at first, I don't know if I'm really doing something worthwhile.

"You said that if I don't take care of the children in the future, then what's the difference between me and a domestic worker? You see I'm constantly arranging a lot of things for myself, and I seem to be very busy, because I'm afraid that if I don't, I'll be like a rice worm or a waste person. ”

It turned out that during this time, she had so much pressure in her heart!

Obviously he is very cheerful every day, but it turns out to be just a helpless cover-up.

Xin Weiyang sighed deeply and hugged the little woman in his arms a little tighter: "I can't say that, if it weren't for you, I would really be very nerve-wracking about weddings, decorations, and family finances." And, since you have worked hard, I am sure that there will be results. I don't want my child to be talented, but I want him to be at least physically and mentally healthy, which is not easy, but I believe you can do it. ”

"Really, what if I really didn't?"

Xin Weiyang thought for a while and replied: "Let's put it this way, although you have doubts and confusion, you have always been full of love for your children, and you have been working hard to do what you want to do." I think that for children, it should be no problem for a hard-working and caring mother to get a report card of pass. ”

She couldn't help laughing: "Hard work and love, such a harsh condition to pass?"

"You see you think you're more than passing, right? So, have faith in yourself!"

Yan Rushun glanced at him, but couldn't help laughing, laughed for a long time before he could stop his voice, gently leaned on his shoulder socket, hugged him hard and said, "Thank you, Weiyang." You're right, a good mother should at least be a hard-working mother, if I don't work hard, how can I teach her the attitude to life? I'll cheer up!"

The sun is warm and smoky after the rain and the sunny day.

The two of them hugged each other, and although they didn't do anything, the feeling was very lingering and warm.

Xin Weiyang asked softly, "Then what else do you want to do?"

She also replied softly: "I thought about it, everyone should do what they are good at, so that it is easy to do their best." What I do best is writing, so I decided to start writing again. This time, no matter what the outcome is, I just have to write it down and write down what I think. If one doesn't work, write a second one, and stick to it to the end. ”

Xin Weiyang patted her forcefully: "Okay." Either way, I'm behind you. ”

Anyway, Yan Rushun decided not to write the president's article.

She is so rational that she resists that kind of domineering president from the bottom of her heart. In her opinion, this kind of character design is not realistic, in real life, marrying this kind of man will not be happy, how to write the hero and heroine as a natural pair when writing the article? It's almost the same as writing a grudge against a couple.

So, even if it sells the best, it's better not to do it if it's not suitable for you.

Just like the previous stocks, live broadcasts and other things, it may not be able to break a way out of the bloodstream, and it will make you feel depressed.

Why bother?

She followed the method of Mei Baijiao, went to different stations to check the hot articles on the best-selling list, and studied them carefully.

Although I can't read a few sentences in many articles, I have to say that there are indeed a lot of interesting ones in the online articles, and the brain hole is so big that people have to wonder if the author's brain is connected to the black hole of the universe.

She was either nervous or laughing.

After laughing, she began to think: Since it is a brain hole that attracts her on the Internet, can she also write a brain hole?

While contemplating her own brain hole, she once again ushered in the big black hole of prenatal examination.

These days, as her belly swells a little bit, she is becoming more and more frightened about the prenatal examination.

Only when I have been a mother-to-be know that every prenatal examination is a heart-wrenching challenge that is no less than the college entrance examination.

After the third trimester of pregnancy is filed, a Down syndrome screening is done at four months to rule out whether the child has Down syndrome, and the test results show high or low risk.

High risk indicates a high probability of developing the disease, and low risk does not mean that your child is not born with a stupid child, and it is up to the expectant parents to decide whether to have a further and more expensive amniocentesis or genetic test.

It's okay that I didn't do an examination, but I got the results after doing an examination, but a "low-risk" comment made a heart fall to the ground, and it was hanging like that, which was really torturous to the dead.

Fortunately, her mother gave her a reassuring pill, saying that she was not an elderly mother, the incidence of Down syndrome was relatively low, and the test results were low-risk, so she could stabilize and not check.

Then they were reassured.

This time it was five months pregnant, and the big deformity came again.

One of the main examination items is to use B-ultrasound to check whether the fetus's facial features, limbs and internal organs are abnormal—to put it bluntly, it is to see if your child has missing arms, legs or other deformities.

My mom, if you really want to find out that an arm is missing, should you do it or leave it?

If you stay, the child may face a lot of psychological pressure when she grows up in the future, does she have the right to choose to face all this for the child?

It's really stressful to choose whichever one!

Yan Rushun lay on the B-ultrasound examination table with a feeling of being sluggish and cold.

The slimy couplant is applied to the stomach, and it is cold and cold.

She stared at the ultrasound image on the screen, taking as deep a breath as possible to relax, as if this would help the baby pass the test.

The doctor kept flipping the angle of the image, and from time to time stimulated the fetus to move, while patiently telling her: "Look, these are two hands, these are two feet, these are eyes, nose, mouth, ears, ......"

It seemed to be quite normal, she breathed a sigh of relief little by little, and began to think about what deformity problem should be ruled out next time, and the doctor asked her to change rooms for cardiac ultrasound.

In fact, Yan Rushun didn't want to check it a little, but the heart is really important, so he can't help but check it.

As a result, a new round of psychological challenges began.

If you have a heart problem, you can't just have a major surgery after birth, right?

She secretly prayed in her heart: There must be no problem with her heart!

I'm really afraid of something.

But the doctor frowned: "There may be some problems with the fetal heart......"

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