At half past five, as soon as the mobile phone vibrate, Yan Rushun wiped his face and quickly turned over and got up.

Who knows, just after putting on her upper body, Jian Jian woke up somehow and immediately began to cry: "Mom, I want you to accompany me." ”

Yan Rushun sighed: "Accompanied, I'm not accompanied." ”

"Lie down and sleep with me. ”

“……”

This little girl, it's only been one day yesterday, how did her vigilance be cultivated - she, who has been a mother, has been with her since she was a child, why is her sense of security so bad?

Yan Rushun was full of depression, but she could only compromise helplessly with her daughter.

Originally, I wanted to put the little guy to sleep, and then get up and write for an hour, but Jian Jian woke up very much, didn't give her a chance at all, and finally slept until dawn.

Yan Rushun was in a bad mood.

If you miss the morning train, the evening time is quite tight, and it seems that it is another day of war.

got up and dressed, Yan Rushun followed yesterday's steps and guided Jian Jian to do it herself. But the little guy didn't seem to be in a good mood today, sitting outside the window at the windy gloomy sky, and he was stunned.

"Jian Jian, Jian Jian-" Yan Rushun accentuated her tone again, and nudged her daughter's shoulder, but she seemed to be out of her body, so she sat with her shoulders collapsed, motionless.

"Jian Jian, it's not okay for you to sit still like this, there is heating at home that can't freeze you, but after you go out, you don't have such good conditions, you will catch a cold, catch a cold, cough, breathe and have a runny nose, sneeze and sneeze, and take bitter medicine, injections, and infusions, do you want to do this?" Yan Rushun reasoned bitterly, explaining and performing, very hard.

"I don't want to. ”

"Then we have to act. If not, Mom can help you, but if you don't move at all, Mom can't help you. Got it?"

"Understood. Jian Jian replied happily, but she still cared about being her wooden man.

Obviously, I was very enthusiastic and active when I learned to dress myself, why did I start to be lazy and distracted after a little understanding?

At that time, she thought that everything would be logical, and she was happy for a long time, but now it seems that there is still a long way to go.

Yan Rushun held back the irritability in her heart, controlled her tone, and told her why her mother could only help her, but she couldn't dress for her:

Jian Jian is already a big sister who is almost three years old, and she is becoming more and more sensible, and she has to learn to do her own things;

It is impossible for people to rely on their parents all the time, because they will grow old and die;

Also, everyone is not born to do all kinds of things, and they must continue to train themselves in order to become more and more powerful;

If you don't study or exercise all the time, even if you go to college in the future, you won't take care of yourself and become a waste.

In short, she said a lot of good things and bad things, and Jian Jian listened attentively, but there was still no movement in her hands.

Half an hour passed after such a toss.

Xin Weiyang urged: "Are you all okay? When will you have breakfast?"

Yan Rushun took advantage of the situation to agitate: "Oh, it's breakfast time, I'm going to drink milk and eat steamed buns, if Jian Jian doesn't need to eat breakfast, then sit like this." Mom went to eat first. ”

Jian Jian immediately made a fuss again, neither wanting her mother to go, nor wanting to dress herself.

She's in love with her mom today.

Xin Weiyang was anxious, thinking that Yan Rushun insisted because he had already released his words and couldn't wipe off his face, so he quietly discussed: "Why don't you go eat first, and I'll help her today?"

Yan Rushun gave him a pair of two-barrel eyes, and put down two words heavily: "No!"

Jian Jian was competing with her, and she couldn't let go of anything at this time.

Xin Weiyang looked at her daughter and pleaded with her wife: "After all, she is only more than two years old, take your time." ”

"Yes, she's over two years old!"

Yan Rushun returned Xin Weiyang's words to him: "In the animal world, newborn animals know that they must work hard to survive, otherwise they will be immediately the fittest by nature." I don't ask Jian Jian to understand the cruelty of competition in the human world right now, but she should at least have a positive and hard-working attitude towards life! I let her do what she will do, what reason does she have to stretch out her hand?"

To be reasonable in this regard, Xin Weiyang has never won.

Since his wife is so insistent, he has no reason to hold her back.

There is only one point, let him settle the little girl, that will definitely not work.

Yan Rushun never counted on him from the beginning.

To be precise, in this family, no one else can count on it - on key issues, mothers can only rely on themselves.

She turned around, rolled up her sleeves, and explained to her daughter seriously: "You have two choices now, first, get dressed by yourself, where you can't go, your mother will help you, get dressed, and then we go out to eat; ”

Jian Jian quickly stated: "I want to get dressed." ”

Yan Rushun said very simply: "Then I'll count three, if you haven't done yet, I'll leave." 1.2......"

Jian Jian panicked and screamed anxiously.

Yan Rushun was unmoved, and continued: "I'll shout 'three' right away, if you haven't taken the clothes in your hand yet, then I'll go out-three!"

Jian Jian didn't move.

Yan Rushun immediately turned around.

"Ahh

Xin Weiyang frowned and plucked his ears, thinking that he might always have earplugs in his pockets in the future.

Obviously, Yan Rushun still did not compromise, because what followed was Jian Jian's crying voice: "Mom, I won't let you go." You're back!"

Yan Rushun's voice was still cold: "You don't wear clothes, why should I go back?"

"I'm wearing it, I'm going to wear it now!"

It's finally done.

Most of the half-hour wrestling, just to get dressed.

This efficiency ...... Forget it, efficiency is no longer able to complain.

The point is, is it really worth it?

"It's worth it! It's worth spending twice as much time!" While Jian Jian was nibbling on steamed buns, Yan Rushun brainwashed Xin Weiyang while washing, "Now is the time to form habits, and she must be allowed to develop the consciousness of 'doing her own things by herself', even if she does less and does it slowly, it doesn't matter, but it must be done anyway-to be realistic, if you don't spend this time now, are you going to wait until she is late for school every day?"

In just over a year, Jian Jian should go to kindergarten.

That's exactly what happened.

It's just that the process is too torturous.

Xin Weiyang felt uncomfortable listening to it next to him.

He asked, "How long does it take to build habits?"

"Look at people, the book says that it takes at least three months to develop a habit. ”

So, for the next three months, he will wake up screaming, crying, and counting one, two, three?

Xin Weiyang had a bitter gourd face with a capital letter: "Wife, won't you be working hard every day for the next three months?"

Yan Rushun shrugged his shoulders and sighed sincerely: "Hard work is hard, but this must be! Otherwise, this is how to get up in the future, eat like this, do homework like this, every day is like this, who can stand it? Hard for a while, easy for a lifetime - anyway, isn't it for this time that I am working full-time?"

Yes, if you are not full-time, how can you have the time and energy to slowly grind your temperament with the baby.

How many working mothers have to lose their temper every day after their children go to elementary school?

If you want to find a parent of a primary school student to accompany you to do your homework, I don't know how much blood and tears there are. Otherwise, there would not be the blood-vomiting article of "Lady, I did something wrong, I want to accompany my child to do homework ......" that is popular in the circle of friends.

The young couple comforted and cheered each other for a while before finally mustering up the courage to face their daughter again.

This time it's housework time after breakfast.

Jian Jian was very interested in her mother's housework, and rushed to "make trouble".

Yan Rushun took the rag, she grabbed the rag, Yan Rushun took the mop, she grabbed the mop, Yan Rushun took the basin to wash the underwear, she came to grab the soap. If it weren't for the sink, I'm afraid she would have jumped into it.

For this point, Yan Rushun prepared a small rag and a small mop for her daughter early in the morning.

Jian Jian danced very vigorously, wiping the floor and the table with a rag, and dragging the mop to the white wall, where she passed, it can be said that it was getting dirtier and messier.

Yan Rushun's head is big, but thinking that her daughter's studious energy should be affirmed, and the awareness of doing housework is also worth cultivating, so not only did she not blame her, but also praised her, and at the same time taught her hand-in-hand for a while.

Jian Jian was praised and full of enthusiasm, but she was not very impatient to listen to her mother's explanation, and she still did what she wanted.

Yan Rushun had no choice but to watch her wreak havoc at home, ping pong the whole process, as if she was staging a full martial arts, and finally left a huge amount of mess, waiting for the little couple to slowly clean up.

Even if Yan Rushun, who repeatedly told himself that he should be happy at this time and should continue to encourage and support his children, he couldn't help but smile stiffly and his scalp tingle.

Xin Weiyang couldn't stand it anymore: "Shun Shun, I think we should stop doing housework, right?"

Yan Rushun squinted: "Then someone has to do this, right?"

"Why don't we hire a housekeeper to do it?"

The eyes of the little couple lit up at the same time, and they both felt that they had found a way to salvation.

There was only one question: "My mom and my mom won't agree." ”

"Then don't tell them. Xin Weiyang is already very proficient in this set, "Anyway, they won't stay here in the future." ”

That's right.

Yan Rushun readily agreed: "You are right, anyway, there are more than one or two things we are hiding from them." ”

When a major event was solved, both of them breathed a sigh of relief, and then immediately divided their labor and cooperated.

Those who are looking for housekeeping are looking for housekeeping, and those who are looking for parent-child reading are parent-child reading.

However, it's almost noon, do you want to go out to buy groceries and come back and cook for yourself?

Outside the window, it was windy and rainy, and everyone shivered when they looked at it.

The two looked at each other: Well, anyway, I've already let myself go once, so let's make persistent efforts and order a takeout!

Well, the takeaway brother has worked hard, so it's good to give a red envelope.

In short, those who can be lazy are lazy, so it's time to be relaxed, right?

However, at the end of the day, there was hardly the slightest bit of leisure.

Why?

Because when her daughter is open, Yan Rushun can't always let her be idle in a daze!

You can't tell a story all day, can you?

Not to mention whether Jian Jian can sit still, even if Yan Rushun and Xin Weiyang's two voices are combined, they can't last that long.

It's windy and rainy, and there's nowhere to walk, so you have to find a way to get her to exercise, right?

Xin Weiyang wanted to throw the baby into the children's playground in the mall, but Jian Jian has been moving slowly, and she can't climb a ladder so far, let alone running and jumping, throwing it into the playground, just afraid that she will be crushed into a meatloaf by other nimble children in minutes.

There was no way, Yan Rushun had to use his own brains and invented a mash-up game that used toy tennis rackets and table tennis balls to play baseball.

Xin Weiyang raised his hands and feet to show his respect.

The two ran around the house with their daughter, and the little one was happy to close his mouth and laugh constantly, but the father and mother thought together: This is even more tiring than playing a game of baseball!

The most torturous thing is that Yan Rushun adhered to Yan's mother's strategy and vowed not to watch TV for Jian Jian before she was three years old.

This meant that they didn't even have time to breathe throughout the day, except for naps.

And what is devastating is that after a short nap, there is a second dressing battle.

How I want to find a universal teacher to take care of it all!

30,000 yuan a month is not a problem.

However, at present, except for Yan Rushun herself, there is no such person who can do everything according to her requirements for the time being-no matter how expensive early childhood education institutions can't do it.

Because to ensure the sense of security of children over two years old, the first thing is to have enough company from relatives, which is irreplaceable.

Xin Weiyang deeply felt that spending money is really too simple, and the difficult thing is those things that can't be bought with money.