It was a daily photo taken by other teachers and sent to the parents of the students.

Kindergarten teachers are uniformly dressed, which is clear at a glance and cannot be denied at all.

What to do?

"Oh, Mom, aren't you going to send a text message to your uncle?" Yan Rushun took the phone back with a hippie face, but her heart was pounding secretly.

Yan's mother was not fooled by her, and asked, "What the hell is going on? Are you a teacher in a kindergarten?"

This question, the others also cast their eyes on.

Xin Weiyang pinched the sweat for her, and said "Mom, Dad, it's served, let's eat first." ”

"It's okay, let's put it aside for now, I'm not hungry yet. ”

Yan's mother was coping with it here, and Yan's father was already curiously stretching out his hand: "What is being a teacher in kindergarten, Shun Shun, show me." ”

Everyone is eyeing each other, waiting for the follow-up development.

Can't escape.

Yan Rushun held her breath, her heart was in her heart for a while, and her palms suddenly became slippery.

She pinched her phone, suddenly smiled, and generously handed it over: "I am a teacher in a kindergarten, but part-time." Didn't I also work part-time at the Children's King Early Education Center in the past? Later, I thought that the early education center was not interesting, so I changed to a kindergarten to play. ”

Time in the restaurant's private room seemed to stand still for three seconds.

"You can really toss. Yan's mother finally said angrily, went up to look at the photos with Yan's father, and asked casually, "But you often have to work overtime, where is the time?"

It seems that Yan's mother is not suspicious, and it is estimated that she would never have imagined that her daughter would quit her job with a monthly income of tens of thousands and become a kindergarten teacher.

Xin Weiyang breathed a sigh of relief for his wife.

"It's the same as the child king, it's still a weekend. They do activities, so I go and help. Yan Rushun didn't blink, and the lie came smoothly.

Father Yan said curiously: "But what class can you go to kindergarten? You are not a graduate of kindergarten teacher." ”

"English teacher. ”

Xin's mother also came to join in the fun: "What kind of kindergarten?

"Happy Learning Kindergarten. Every year, a student has to pay more than 40,000 yuan. ”

"Yo, the fee is so expensive, this kindergarten should be good. Xin's mother praised and asked, "Then can you enjoy the benefits of kindergarten teachers?"

Yan Rushun didn't know what her mother-in-law meant, and replied vaguely: "It should be possible." ”

Xin's mother came to the heart: "That dare is good." In the future, if your child goes to school and attends that kindergarten, the teaching staff will definitely have a discount. ”

Yan Rushun was afraid of talking about it, so she hurriedly changed the topic: "I didn't think about it that much, I just like children." I think motherhood is not a simple job, it requires professional knowledge and skills, just like all other professions, there should be systematic training before taking up the post. However, this course was not offered in the society, so I had to find a way to find a 'training course' on my own. ”

Xin's mother smiled when she heard this: "Shunshun, do you like children?"

"That's right. ”

"How many are you going to have in the future?"

"Two. Yan Rushun gave her scissor hands, "If the conditions are right." ”

Xin's mother nodded with satisfaction: "Two good, a son and a daughter, both children and daughters, just make up the word 'good'." ”

Yan Rushun catered to Lian and said: "Yes, yes - because of this, professional knowledge is more needed, so I went to the kindergarten to learn from teachers." ”

Yan's mother couldn't help but sigh: "You really like to be a teacher so much, why didn't you fill in the normal major in the university? If you were admitted to the normal school, with your aunt's relationship, now you will go to the middle school to be a teacher, and there will be winter and flood harvests, as well as winter and summer vacations, it will not be much easier than now." ”

"Forget it, I am deeply suspicious of the concept of mentorship in the system and the teachers trained under the system. ”

Teacher Xin, who was lying on the gun, was messy in the wind.

Yan's mother asked, "Why?"

Yan Rushun said: "Otherwise, I wouldn't have met Teacher X in my third year of junior high school." ”

Yan's mother's face froze: "Why do you hate Teacher X so much? If it weren't for Teacher X, you wouldn't have been able to get such a high score after graduating from junior high school." ”

Yan Rushun pursed her lips and didn't speak.

Yan's mother couldn't hold back and said, "I don't know why you are so sensitive and have delayed the crucial three years of high school." If it weren't for that, you might have been admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University. ”

Yan Rushun was unconvinced: "What is delayed? It was an important period for me to reshape my three views, although it affected my grades, but my whole life was sublimated, okay?"

"What did you sublimate?"

"I've learned at least one important thing: grades are really nothing in my whole life, and the most important things in life are often overlooked. ”

The mother and daughter got together without saying a word.

Yan's mother turned on the mockery mode: "Ouch, hey, you have been wasted for three years and have thought about these things, why don't you take the philosophy department if you are so good?"

"Eh, the psychology I was going to take is a branch of philosophy, don't you have to let me fill in?"

"Yes, after you are admitted, you will be unemployed after graduation, and you will not starve to death. ”

Father Yan, who has always liked to be a peacemaker, stood on his wife's side this time: "Shun Shun, even if you want to sublimate, do you say you can't wait until after the college entrance examination to sublimate?"

Yan Rushun immediately choked: "I'm about to drown, and you still let me hold on to a straw for three years, is it possible?"

Yan's mother said angrily: "I think you have a good life, you don't lack food or clothing, and you don't know the suffering of the world to know that you are free from disease and moan." Drowned, throw you into a poor ravine for half a year, and you will immediately know what is bad. ”

Xin Weiyang sweated silently: It seems that Yan's mother didn't know that Yan Rushun had the idea of jumping into the lake to commit suicide.

Everyone's donkey lips are not the horse's mouth, Yan Rushun doesn't want to waste his tongue, and he laughs and doesn't smile twice: "It's good if you're happy." ”

The three members of the Yan family pinched each other like this, and Xin's mother finally felt that she should come forward to reconcile, and said with haha: "Oops, today is Shun Shun's birthday, why bother talking about some unpleasant topics." The dishes are almost cold, eat and eat. ”

Yan's mother was still unsatisfied, and recalled the melancholy past with Xin's mother heartily: how good her Shun Shun was back then, and when she was in the middle of the first ten grades, she entered Q Middle School, but unfortunately because she was angry with the head teacher of the third year of junior high school, she was in a bad mood and delayed high school, which was a big regret in life.

Yan Rushun had a wooden face, and ate the vegetables without saying a word.

Xin Weiyang reached out under the table and shook her hand vigorously.

She gritted her teeth and smiled, and said in a suppressed voice, "Eat you, I'm fine." ”

On that face, there were clearly written words "I'm in a bad mood, stay away from me".

Xin Weiyang took out his phone and sent a text message.

Yan Rushun's mobile phone rang, she glanced at it, but she didn't click.

Xin Weiyang couldn't, pulled her sleeve and whispered, "Do you want to eat mousse cake later?"

She puffed up: "Don't eat." ”

"Where's the chocolate cake?"

"I'm losing weight. This time it turned into a hum.

Xin Weiyang continued: "Tiramisu?"

She slammed her fist at it: "Why are you so annoying! I hate that someone tempted me when I was losing weight." ”

When Xin's mother heard the last sentence, she hurriedly turned her head and said: "Shun Shun, don't lose weight, it's not easy to conceive a child if you're too thin." ”

Yan Rushun perfunctorily hehe: "Don't worry, Mom, it won't." ”

The meal ends in a strange and harmonious atmosphere.

At the end of the day, Xin's father called and made a special trip to congratulate his daughter-in-law on her happy birthday.

Last time Xin Weiyang's birthday banquet, Xin's father did not attend, but he had dinner with his son and daughter-in-law alone the next day. This time again, anyone with a heart could see that he was avoiding someone.

Xin's mother's face suddenly became gloomy.

Xin Weiyang saw that his mother had a tendency to explode, and as soon as the meal was over, he hurriedly pulled Yan Rushun away in the name of "living in a two-person world".

ran far, Xin Weiyang laughed: "I didn't expect you to be able to fool around like this, admire and admire." ”

Yan Rushun glanced at him: "Are you gloating?"

"Don't dare. ”

"Don't you dare, you'd better pray that the tiramisu you said will conquer my stomach, otherwise the consequences are not something you can bear. ”

When tiramisu was served, Xin Weiyang said, "There is no impermeable wall in the world, and you can't always hide it from your parents." ”

Yan Rushun didn't know what she thought of, she was a little absent-minded, she tasted the cake without a bite, and her eyes looked out the window.

"What's wrong?" Xin Weiyang was worried that she was stimulated by Yan's mother, and she was in a low mood, so she tried to find words to comfort her.

She looked back and said, "I didn't mean to keep it a secret from them, but I was thinking about quitting." ”

"Huh?" Xin Weiyang was stunned, "Why?"

It's not a semester yet.

Yan Rushun shrugged his shoulders and said, "Do you know? I now think it's not worth paying more than 40,000 yuan to go to music!"

"How?"

"Do you remember what I told you about Yue Yue before?"

"Hmm. "That's a boy in Lele class who often gets into trouble and cries easily.

"One day when I woke up from a nap, I saw him sitting on the bed buttoning his coat and his movements were clumsy, but he was very patient, again and again, and never gave up. I was so touched at the time that I didn't expect a four-year-old to show such resilience, and I almost wanted to applaud him.

At this time, Mr. Zhao went up and forced him to put on clothes, but he refused, twisted around, Mr. Zhao couldn't button them, scolded him twice, and left him to dress other children. He burst into tears and never tried again. I tried to encourage him, but he hung his face in frustration, refused to move, and finally let me fiddle with things. ”

Speaking of this, Yan Rushun took a deep breath: "Hey, I really think it's a pity." It's not easy for a child to try so hard to do something. I think when Mr. Zhao forcibly wanted to help him, he probably felt that his efforts were denied, which is why he was so sad and frustrated.

"The point is, it's not a one-time or two-time accident. Before, Xiaoxiao was like this. He likes outdoor activities very much, every time he is outdoors, he keeps running, jumping, laughing, and he comes to me to say, 'Mr. Yan, I'm so happy', but often when he hasn't had fun, the outdoor time is over. He cried a lot, but was eventually brought back to the classroom, and his mood was depressed for a long time. ”

She has been talking about similar things a lot lately.

Thanks to her repeated chatters about Montessori and Kobayashi Sonori, he now knows a little about the basic principles of preschool education, such as: when children's sense of autonomy sprouts, talent training or focusing on game work, they all need encouragement and protection, which is very important for cultivating children's self-confidence and concentration.

Even a teacher who is a halfway monk knows the truth, and it is impossible for a kindergarten teacher from a regular class not to know. However, none of them could do it.

Xin Weiyang asked, "Why does this kind of thing always happen?"

Yan Rushun couldn't help sighing: "Because there is no way, I can't blame Teacher Zhao either." She has her own difficulties, the school has a rule that lunch exercises should be done after a nap, so the teacher must get all the children up in the shortest possible time before going out to gather.

"In addition, the school's daily classes are also arranged in advance, one by one, and they cannot be disrupted at will, otherwise it will lose order. In this way, it is basically impossible to take into account the teaching of aptitude.

But in fact, the younger the children, the more they need to be taught according to their aptitude to protect their young minds and talents. Therefore, I now deeply feel that a place like Lexue Kindergarten is not an ideal paradise for children. ”

Xin Weiyang asked: "You mean, kindergarten has no value?"

Yan Rushun unexpectedly denied: "You are wrong, it's not that you are worthless." On the contrary, no one can deny the significance of the existence of kindergartens. ”

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