Wei Mingxu just smiled when he heard this, but the porridge in the bowl had already been drunk, it was very sweet and glutinous, Lin Zhixuan saw this, so she gave him another bowl, and said that she was not hungry and ate so cleanly.

Wei Mingxu took it, but only said: "It's a trivial matter, whatever you like." ”

Seeing Wei Mingxu say this, Lin Zhixuan seemed to be silent for a long time before she said: "The concubine doesn't know the prince's plan, but I just feel that this kind of thing should be prevented." The royal family has a big business, and there are hundreds of slaves, which is difficult to take care of, so you have to be careful everywhere. For example, the incident a few days ago, I was too careless, if I strengthened the defense against Yishen a few more times, and let Du Qin stick to it a few miles away, maybe there would not be such a thing. ”

Wei Mingxu listened to Lin Zhixuan talking, and the other bowl of porridge was almost at the bottom, Wei Mingxu looked at Lin Zhixuan and became serious, but he didn't rush to answer, he didn't know what happened to Lin Zhixuan today, whether he listened to who said what, or thought of something. But Wei Mingxu could see that she had something on her mind and wanted to talk to herself.

Wei Mingxu hesitated a little, slowly finished the porridge in the bowl, and put down the bowl and chopsticks. He is rarely willing to talk to Lin Zhixuan about political affairs, or about housekeeping. Because in his eyes, there is a share inside and outside, how to manage state affairs, that is his Wei Mingxu's business, and he doesn't want to use those things to make Lin Zhixuan feel bad. And how to manage the palace, that is Lin Zhixuan's business, Wei Mingxu believes that Lin Zhixuan has her own reasons for what to do, so she doesn't want to meddle and put her beak redundantly, which will make it seem that she doesn't trust Lin Zhixuan enough.

But today, the little girl may have encountered some problems, and she has some knots, Wei Mingxu ordered someone to come in and clean up, and he motioned Lin Zhixuan to go to the inner hall with him, and the two sat down on the kang, Lin Zhixuan served tea to Wei Mingxu, Wei Mingxu took a sip and put it down, as if sighing: "I just see too many of this kind of things, after all, where there are people, there is right and wrong, and this kind of person is inexhaustible." When these people die, they always have to recruit new people in, and when the time comes, I don't know who these new people are, I originally thought that it would be better to keep these few people who know the roots, so as to be a little guarded. ”

Lin Zhixuan seemed to be stunned, Wei Mingxu saw that Lin Zhixuan still didn't give him any feedback, so he continued: "Ah Zhi, the world is unpredictable, no one calculates things so clearly, after all, people's hearts are the most unpredictable. Up and down in this house, thousands of people have thousands of thoughts, and every day is thousands of things, how can you find out everyone's temperament and everything clearly?

And this is just a small Jingwang Mansion, if I want to see everything like you, then how should I govern the world? Even if I am exhausted, I will not know what everyone in this world thinks. Therefore, it is impossible not to be deceived by others, and it is impossible not to make mistakes.

After all, a person's energy is limited, and if I spend my days on these intrigues, where will I have so much effort to implement the New Deal and take care of state affairs. If I put too much thought into the new policy, I will naturally not be able to take care of these trivial matters, and it is inevitable that there will be omissions.

The same goes for you. It's just a little girl, without three heads and six arms, in charge of this huge palace, you should also be tolerant of yourself, you don't have to be too perfect in everything, and you don't have to blame yourself too much when something happens. Pick a few competent people and leave the work below to them, without having to bow down to everything. Those who are in the top position do not necessarily know everything, but they must know how to use and know how to recognize people, and this is enough.

Don't make yourself so tired, you always have some time to accompany the ninth sister, enjoy the flowers, watch the play, recuperate and recuperate, and live a nourishing little life.

It is said that they are not stupid, deaf, and do not be a family, and there are many things that do not have to be too serious with some minions and villains, but you can take out a tolerant elegance and watch them cocoon and bind themselves step by step.

Don't be too anxious, the more they calculate, the more they fail. If you want to clean them up, it will not be on this day or two, and it will be a long time to come. ”

Lin Zhixuan listened to Wei Mingxu's words, and was stunned for a long time, Wei Mingxu's remarks were completely different from the words of the old lady who taught her to handle family affairs in the past.

The old lady asked her to be clear-eyed, not to trust anyone at will, to bow down to everything, and not to be fooled by the minions below. If you want revenge, you must be ruthless, you must be ruthless, you must be ruthless, and you must be poisonous. I always feel that my own nature is contrary, so I can't learn the essence of the old lady, but subtly, Lin Zhixuan is still more or less influenced by her.

That's why she has so many things on her mind that she can't let go, so she is always worried about the palace and the marquis's mansion, and she has endless thoughts, so she is cautious in everything, tired of dealing with those trivial matters, and has no time to accompany Brother Jin in the past life and the ninth sister in this life.

And now, Wei Mingxu taught her not to catch, but to release.

It's to put it down.

Learn to trust the people under your hands and do not doubt them.

"But," Lin Zhixuan hesitated, "Lord Wang, aren't you afraid of being calculated?"

Wei Mingxu chuckled: "If others want to calculate you, you can't prevent it, what you have to learn is how to deal with it after being calculated, turn the crisis into safety, and even beat it upside." As long as you sit upright and have the ability to stand in the world, you are not afraid of being calculated. ”

Lin Zhixuan suddenly, yes, for example, this time the Jingwang Mansion was on fire, whether it was calculated or not, anyway, if such a big thing happened, Wei Mingxu and the Jingwang Mansion could still stand still, and that was enough. As long as you have the ability, you don't need to be afraid of those mayflies shaking the tree at all.

Lin Zhixuan smiled knowingly, and only looked at Wei Mingxu seriously for a long time and said, "But putting some people there is always a hidden worry, hasn't the prince thought about it once and for all?"

Lin Zhixuan asked extremely seriously in this sentence, and even deliberately lowered her voice, her eyes stared at Wei Mingxu with heavy eyes, and Wei Mingxu instantly understood what Lin Zhixuan was referring to. This time, Wei Mingxu really hesitated for a moment, and also looked at Lin Zhixuan seriously and asked, "Girl, what do you think is the most important thing for people to live for a lifetime?"

Lin Zhixuan saw that he pondered for a long time, but did not answer the rhetorical question, and was a little at a loss by his question. She opened her mouth several times, but could not give an answer.

What matters most to a person's life.

In the previous life, she duel and suffer in pain. is forced to be helpless, and if you don't fight, you can't live, so you fight with the women in the back house, and fight with the little emperor of the previous dynasty. After earning a lifetime and fighting for a lifetime, what she asked for was nothing more than the word peace, the peace of the Hou Mansion, the safety of the family, and in the end, it fell short after all.

In this life, he climbed the big tree of Wei Mingxu, and the Lin family undoubtedly kept peace and even prospered. And Wei Mingxu has a degree of advance and retreat, no better than Xie Wendong, Wei Mingxu never has to worry about Lin Zhixuan in the affairs of the court, he has enough ability to protect himself.

It stands to reason that what I want has actually been obtained, but why do I still have so much anxiety?

It's hidden worries, Lin Zhixuan is full of hidden worries, hidden worries that may threaten her "safety", Li Jing, Wei Yanxian, Wei Yanting, and even Shuhui, she has begun to go a little crazy.

What exactly do you want?

She had never seriously thought about it before, so what she wanted kept rising. The more you get, the more you want, and people's desires will always swell.