Chapter 580: The Most Awkward Meeting (5)
The social divorce rate of the whole society is getting higher and higher, and unscrupulous means are only judged by success or failure, and the resulting "scumbag (female)" culture has begun to appear. Marriage may be one of the backgrounds of the whole society!
After all, human society is nothing more than composed of different countries, and countries are nothing more than all kinds of families.
Every day, everywhere is the "cat theory" that "black cats and white cats are good cats if they can catch mice", and doing things is more and more unscrupulous for the sake of success and achieving the goal, and the marriage that should be based on feelings is more and more utilitarian!
White Lotus has always been vigilant to meet certain scumbags to prevent the erosion of her future happiness!
If there are men in the world, there will be women, and if there are scumbags, there must be scumbags, which complement each other, and the proportion of the two in the crowd is roughly the same.
The "scum" of ordinary men is nothing more than not learning and unskilled, having all five poisons, being passive and lazy, valuing profit over righteousness, thinking differently, and abandoning his wife.
It is estimated that there are only a few items, if there are more of them, it will already go beyond the scope of "scum", but a sin.
There is a joke about some women in the market: "A good woman has a lover and a husband; an ordinary woman has a husband but no lover; a bad woman has only a man, and there is no lover and no husband."
What is a "lover"? The original meaning of a lover is a person who loves each other, that is, a person who has affection. But today's word "lover" has long been alienated and has become synonymous with extramarital affairs, extramarital sex, and messing with relationships between men and women.
Nowadays, with the progress of social civilization, people can no longer look at the relationship between the sexes with the concept of chastity and martyrdom in the feudal era, but loyalty and mutual trust are still the most solid foundation for the marriage relationship.
Such a blatant promotion of this kind of "laissez-faire" is actually recognized by some people, and some people are sought after, and many women who don't know whether it is an intellectual problem or a character problem actually take it as their slogan in a grand manner!
Some time ago, a young colleague of hers talked about her criteria for choosing a man in front of everyone: "If a man really loves you, he will definitely be willing to spend money for you, and a man who does not spend money for you must not love you."
White Lotus feels that there is also a certain amount of truth in this statement, love is giving, love is fulfillment, a person who has love in his heart will definitely pay for his love wholeheartedly, which of course includes spending money.
But this sentence is one-sided, and there is another meaning that should be: "A man who is not willing to spend money for you must not love you, but a man who is willing to spend money for you may not necessarily love you."
A man spends money for a woman, either out of love, or a "take it beforehand, give it first" investment, or a straightforward transaction, or it may be a handout or show off.
Equating the "gold content" of a relationship with the "economic proportion" in the relationship, and promoting it as the only standard, people can't help but think of the classical saying "sisters love pretty, bustards love money".
A woman who says this, or a woman who agrees with it, doesn't know what identity she puts herself in?
Is it an item to be sold at a price, or a special professional who sees money?
White Lotus, as a post-70s person from a laid-off family with many children, still disagrees!
Her family may be the poorest type of family in Haishi, but she still thinks that such a family is actually quite happy!
Except for the lack of money, which leads to less enjoyment, other happiness even exceeds that of most families.
Like-minded, like-minded, supportive parents, sisters and brothers understand and help each other.
This is her pursuit, and it is also what she has always insisted on!
And Guo's ability is not excellent, whether it is EQ or IQ.
Although it cannot be said that the work career has achieved nothing, it is also a small fight.
is also a second-married man with a child, which is why he is disliked. But this is also the reason why he can take a fancy to him, not to mention the reason that he is too lofty, at least he can live with his daughter and run his own small business at the same time, which shows that his ability and family background are good!
What's wrong with the divorce? At least it means that he wasn't left behind.
What's wrong with having a child? At least it proves that the family is financially good! There is no need to ask questions about the house, because he must have it! How else can he live? And he can take care of his own home while he is working, isn't this what most girls are looking for all along?
Older age is not a problem! Because she is not young anymore, isn't it a good match for him in his thirties and her in his thirties?
"This is a more formal visit, but don't care too much about the attitude of the family, after all, only we are the real parties!
He has been relieving her all the way, don't worry too much, don't be too nervous.
She didn't speak, just smiled and nodded her head in response.
Because she understands that it is actually him who is really a little nervous, and all the words of comfort are actually said to himself.
And looking at his chatter in the taxi, she was not impatient at all, because she understood that this only showed how much this man loved her, and that enjoying herself was king, so how could she be the slightest bit impatient?
Before getting out of the car, the driver said a little ridiculously, "Don't worry! You will definitely succeed today!"
At this time, Brother Guo Yi realized that he had said too many things that should not be said in the taxi, and he instantly felt a little annoyed.
"It's okay, just say it. As long as I think it's right, it's enough! What does it matter if someone else hears it?"
White Lotus smiled and comforted softly.
"Hehe......"
Brother Guo Yi is a little embarrassed, but it is more of a kind of happiness, as long as his fiancée can understand, it is actually enough.
Young and beautiful women are liked by everyone, but smart women can make people feel happier after getting along.
Brother Guo Yi feels that he is very discerning and lucky, being able to meet a woman who knows how to appreciate himself makes him feel as if he has returned to adolescence, his life is full of hope, and his body is full of vitality!
Along the way, the two of them looked at each other while walking, smiling, they didn't need more words, and they didn't need to care what others thought, he firmly held her hand, just like a little young couple, maybe this is a rare romance in life!
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Seeing that the small courtyard where his parents, his little sister, and brother-in-law lived together in front of him were in front of him, he couldn't help but say another word to her.
"Don't be nervous, everything has me!"
The hand he was holding couldn't help but push a little harder.
Today, no matter what, he can meet a real and healthy love with "equality, mutual trust, mutual love, and mutual assistance" as the basic norms, if you count some romance and sweetness during the period, then it can be said that this relationship or future marriage is already very perfect!
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