Chapter 296: A New Experience of Happiness in Life
Leaving the port city may be the best choice, because the territory is narrow, in fact, the port city itself does not have too many opportunities, and the remaining opportunities are mainly in the mainland and the only superpower at this time, country M, after all, this is the locomotive that will lead the world in the future, and many leaders in science and technology. It's just that Zhao Hong knows that the next few years will be its most lost years, and country M is about to tighten its control over the wealthy class. Of course, these can be minimized, but they are much stricter than those in Hong Kong City and China. Besides, all adults and children still have green cards from country M, so it may not be so easy to apply in the future!
Zhao Hong told them his thoughts, after all, this is a relatively big matter, especially for Guo Yi, after all, she has lived here for several years, but she also found some limitations of Hong Kong City, which is even less suitable than Haishi in some aspects. Of course, there is also the Lion City that is actually more suitable, but if you consider the reunion of the family, it is obviously more suitable for Country M!
Of course, Xiao Wanting was very happy, and said very arrogantly, "You can go to SFS City! I am responsible for helping you buy a villa to live in, as well as basic electrical appliances." ”
The three of them are still receiving salaries and commissions so far, and share dividends have not yet been carried out, among which Xiao Wanting's salary and commission rewards have accumulated tens of millions of dollars, which are her private money! And Zhao Hong only has less than 50 million dollars of private money, Guo Yi is even less, and most of them are RMB and Hong Kong dollars, and most of them were fooled by Zhao Hong to buy a house in Shenzhen, of course, there is also a stable income! The villas are rented by the branch offices in Shenzhen, and the apartments in Shenzhen will be converted into the company's staff dormitories or rental houses. They even plan to set aside a floor for their family to live in when they return home, or to entertain relatives and friends.
Guo Yi hesitated a little before he said slowly, "I need to discuss this issue with my parents, after all, this is also a very important matter for them." The old people are more nostalgic. ”
Zhao Hong also comforted her and said, "Even if you are ready to leave the port city, it is not an immediate process, especially there are many projects in China, and we can't put all the treasures on country M, Europe actually needs to be laid out as soon as possible, especially in LD in country Y, which is also the world's financial center, and can be used as the basis for us to enter Europe." ”
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After discussing work for a while, the three of them began to discuss the issue of children's education again, after all, with the beginning of the growth of Jack, the sea, and the creek, this has become an important problem that the family has to face.
With the birth of children, children are growing up day by day, and the problem of children's education is also placed in front of them. How to educate the little ones in the family well? After discussion, the three of them summed up some general principles.
First of all, we should pay attention to teaching by example rather than teaching. As the saying goes: parents are the best teachers for their children, and their words and deeds will directly affect their children. After a child is born, he or she has to learn everything, and the first thing he has to learn is his parents and family. Parents' words, deeds and behaviors directly affect the development of children, children do not have the concept of right and wrong and right and wrong when they are young, and the unconscious imitation in the early stage is really what parents should pay attention to. Is it not bad for the growth of your own children?
Therefore, if you want your children to develop good living habits, if you want to make your children have a good ideological character, if you want your children to establish a correct outlook on life and the world, as parents, you must pay attention to learning and be a role model for your children everywhere and at all times!
The second is to exercise children's independence and autonomy, which is often a neglected corner of family education. A person's growth is bumpy, the child will encounter this or that problem in his growth, and parents cannot accompany their children for a lifetime, so parents should cultivate their children's independent ability, guide their children to do more housework within their ability, and tell their children that diligence is a good virtue, and laziness is the root of all evil. It is also necessary to cultivate children's belief in the courage to face setbacks and learn to adapt to changes. We parents understand these truths, but how many of them have really been achieved?
Through the small things in life, cultivate children's independent ability, as parents should not take care of everything that belongs to their children, which is harmful and unhelpful to children's growth.
Third, we should strengthen communication with children and be good friends with children. A child is a book, and many parents only care about turning it back, but it is not easy to really understand him. As a parent, you should communicate with your child frequently, communicate more, and care for and help your child as a good friend. Parents should look at their children with their children's eyes, put themselves in their children's shoes, and as their children grow up, children understand the world, and parents also understand their children, so they will naturally enter the children's spiritual world. Parents should communicate more with their children, experience their children's real feelings, have more understanding, and less scolding.
Therefore, as parents, we should patiently and meticulously communicate with our children heart-to-heart and communication, only in this way can we become children's bosom friends, only in this way, can we instill correct ideas and experiences into our children, and can we effectively prevent children from rebellious psychology. In particular, we should pay more attention to the ways and means of educating girls.
Fourth, we should gradually cultivate children's confidence in knowledge.
First of all, it is necessary to make children develop good study habits. Parents should be good at using various opportunities to let their children know the importance of study habits. Parents should pay more attention to their children's learning, do not ignore them, do not blame their children's bad study habits, and should guide them to correct them and re-establish their confidence in good study habits. Parents should educate their children to develop the habit of not being ashamed to ask questions, thinking independently, and being good at analyzing difficult problems. Teach children to learn knowledge to be flexible, draw inferences from one another, don't memorize, read dead books, and dead reading learning methods are not advisable. I used 10 to 20 minutes to play the English recordings he had learned and were going to learn repeatedly, whether he listened to it or not, I insisted on doing so, and it became a habit after a long time, and it had a certain effect on his learning English well.
Second, stimulate your child's curiosity. Love is the best teacher for children, curiosity is the nature of children, is a reflection of children's curiosity, parents should not only respect and correctly guide children's curiosity, but also take the initiative to tap the curiosity of children. Parents should answer their children's questions patiently, accurately and simply, and guide their children to find the perfect answer through reading and thinking. With the accumulation of knowledge, children are eager to know new things, and gradually stimulate children to explore new knowledge, and over time, children's curiosity evolves into a strong desire for knowledge.
Furthermore, it is necessary to cultivate children's broad interests and perseverance in learning. As a child's interests widen, his scope of knowledge expands, and his knowledge and experience increase......
The three of them talked about the topic of children's education are endless, it seems that this is their first career, parents once thought that there was only joy and happiness, and now they know that more experience is responsibility, not whose requirements, but they suddenly feel that their happiness is far more important than all their own things!
At the same time, they also found out that it is not easy for their parents, maybe the child is just a baby, and it is also a good life coach!