Chapter 14: My brother's first home after his internship
In mid-November, Zhao Hong's older brother, who was in college, returned from Haishi, but did not return home until the weekend at the end of the month.
Zhao Hong knew that if he didn't run out of money, his brother might still not want to go home. Those who have gone to college can understand, most college students are like this, they ask for money when they go home or make a phone call, and their children have grown up, but they are still children, and they don't care much about their parents and families. College life is wonderful and busy, study is not very easy, club activities, and busy falling in love and talking about ideals. The same is true of Zhao Hong in the past.
The elder brother not only spent all the money he had with him, but also spent all the money that his father asked him to sell mahjong tiles on his behalf. According to my brother, when I went home, I only had 5 cents on my body. My brother has always been like this, and he lives very chic and comfortable. Zhao Hong was also speechless. This is like the boss of the family.
My father was also very angry when he heard that he didn't buy mahjong, and he quarreled with his brother for a few words, and there was nothing. My brother and my father have very similar personalities, and my father also values my brother, the eldest son, and my brother's admission to college is also my father's greatest pride. Especially when my brother grows up, my father, who has no ideas, relies on my brother even more.
Zhao's mother was also explaining on the side, in fact, her mother was very happy that she didn't buy mahjong.
In the past six months, the company's efficiency has plummeted, wages can not be paid on time, the unit often has holidays, and my father is very annoying, and likes to get together with colleagues who also have nothing to do to complain and play mahjong.
Mother didn't dare to say anything, and Zhao Hong was even more reluctant to say anything.
My father is almost 50 years old, he has been a worker all his life, he is old, he can't do it anymore, and he is very dependent on the company. With no culture, no physical strength, and no understanding of society, he was blinded all at once. What should I do if I suddenly have no confidence in myself, and my child is not yet fully independent? The father is confused, angry, and depressed. Physical fitness is also declining rapidly due to age. If there is no activity of playing mahjong, it may be more troublesome for him to vent.
Zhao Hong understands very well, because 30 years later, he is also the same, facing all kinds of loss and anxiety. Their own problems, the requirements of the children in the family for the economic foundation, and the troubles of middle-aged people. When you think you're unique, you chat with your friends, and most people are actually like that.
The same is true of my father's mahjong party. It's good for peers to get together after work, have fun, and whine.
In my previous life, I didn't understand and quarreled with my father a few times, but this time I communicated with my mother early, and my father would do whatever he wanted. Even if he goes out to work, his father will be sick for a month after working for a month, and there will be more trouble.
Zhao Hong discussed with his mother, and now he sees that his brother is about to graduate from college in the last half a year, and there are not many days left for hard days. My sister's normal university has no tuition, and the monthly subsidy is quite high, so I don't need much money for a year. Overall, there are no major financial problems at home.
Zhao Hong quietly told his mother that he also had a small treasury. provoked the mother to keep asking questions, until she handed over another 500.
Now the family's financial affairs are completely managed by the mother, so she tolerates the father's indulgence.
In the previous life, because of the family's poor economy, there was a small quarrel in three days, a big quarrel in five days, and family conflicts continued.
With more than 30 years of experience, Zhao Hong can already deal with such problems very calmly. If the family environment is good, Zhao Hong's life and study can be done well.
A popular saying in later generations is that as long as the problem can be solved with money, it is not a big problem.
The problem of the elder brother is better solved, and it does not even need to be solved. This way of life of the elder brother is a very popular one in the future. And life is also the happiest and satisfying.
Only the money spent is money, and all that is saved is paper.
The point makes a lot of sense. In a lifetime, in just a few decades, you can't always keep saving money, use money where it needs to be used, and let money serve people, rather than let people serve money. The premise is that you can earn it before you can spend it. As for right and wrong, it's just that everyone's concept is different, and there is no right or wrong.
There is a very popular story in later generations, a sheep herding baby, someone asked him what he was doing with sheep, and the sheep herding baby replied that he was saving money; he asked what he was saving money for, and he answered, he saved money to marry his daughter-in-law; he asked what he was doing with his daughter-in-law, and he replied that he would raise sheep.
Most people live like this, and no one notices that life is not just about saving money, but also about pursuing happiness.
I went out for a walk with my brother at night, and talked about my concept with my brother, and I was worthy of being a smart person who understood it as soon as he said it. My brother also cared about Zhao Hong's learning situation and supported his idea of going to high school and college. The brothers returned home happily.
Home is the eternal destination of a person's soul.
Family is the most natural and reliable partner for a person's life and career.
Family happiness is the highest goal that a person strives for.
I will always be part of the family, and I will share weal and woe.
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