Realizing that he had answered too smoothly and seemed to have missed something super important, Yan Rushun's voice suddenly rose high, and his eyes were full of turbulence.

As soon as the words came out, Xin Weiyang cleared his throat and continued: "I said, do you want to consider marrying me? We can continue to get along like we do now, you know that I will not have other women, you can design this bungalow as you like." ”

Yan Rushun was a little confused in her mind, she felt that she couldn't keep up with the genius's logical thinking.

How to design this bungalow, does it have a half-dime relationship with marriage?

Thinking about the question in front of him, her brain suddenly became a little confused.

No, she'll have to figure it out.

"Why?"

"Huh?"

"There must be a reason for such an important thing as marriage. She carefully chose her words, "You see, there is no love between us......

At this, she paused slightly, and glanced at it quickly—the shadow cast down, hiding his gaze, and he couldn't see anything but the expressionless face.

I guess I'm not wrong.

For some reason, she palpitated for no reason, shrunk her neck and continued: "So, why did you suddenly say that you want to agree to marry or something?"

Xin Weiyang's hands were full of sweat, he had a lot to say, but he didn't know where to start, and he held back for a long time before he said slowly: "You know, my mother is urging me to get married......"

Yan Rushun suddenly realized: "I understand! Don't worry, with your conditions, if you want to find a wife for a few minutes, I can help you arrange a blind date, what conditions do you have, tell me, Baojun is satisfied." ”

He was depressed.

finally mustered up the courage to get up, and was taken crooked by her in just a word.

She couldn't have done it on purpose, right? With her emotional intelligence, how could she not understand what he meant?

For a moment, he secretly hated: how could she say that? He didn't lack a woman to find the bustard.

"No, I don't. He grimaced and coldly refused, "I don't have time." ”

Yan Rushun did it on purpose, she didn't want to tear her face, everyone would have to look up and not look down in the future, if they saw it, they would feel embarrassed, could this business be done?

She laughed dryly twice and said euphemistically: "Weiyang, as a friend, I will tell you two sincere words." We are now joining forces to get rid of our parents, which is an expedient measure forced by helplessness, but marriage is not the same as falling in love, it has responsibilities, obligations and rights, and it also involves a bunch of economic interests, which cannot tolerate child's play. Aren't you most afraid of trouble? Listen to me, if you really want to get married, don't ask for trouble. ”

Xin Weiyang looked at her steadily: "Do you mean money when you say trouble?"

Yan Rushun sighed: "It's not just about money. For example, I'm serious about marriage. Once I get married, I will live with my husband seriously and take care of the children. But how do you get married by agreement? How many years will this marriage be married? Will the child still be born? If I don't give birth, my youth will be wasted, will I be an elderly mother in the future? If I give birth, whose child will be counted in the divorce?"

Xin Weiyang groaned slightly: "What if you really get married?"

That's definitely not going to work.

In her opinion, it would be nice for him to take care of himself. When she has a child and she is so tired that she wants to die, can she still expect him to change diapers, coax the child to sleep, take the child to play, help with homework or something?

This typical traditional Chinese man has long been ready to dump everything on his wife, and whoever marries him will become a high-level servant, housekeeper, childcare teacher, tutor, and so on.

Sister Yan's lesson is in front of her, and she doesn't want to repeat the mistakes of the past.

Yan Rushun frowned and looked at him, coughed heavily, and adjusted his tone: "You know that I have high requirements for my husband, and you may not be able to do it." And even if you don't think about it, your mom is a problem. ”

"My mother?" Xin Weiyang wondered.

"Yes. Let's not talk about anything else, let's just say one thing: I am ready to be a full-time mother after giving birth, and I will not have a penny of income at that time, I will eat you and use yours, and I will ask you to do this and that, will your mother bear it?"

With her current job and family background, Xin's mother accepted it very reluctantly, and she didn't think she would accept the daughter-in-law of a full-time mother.

Xin Weiyang lowered his head, furrowed his brows, and did not speak.

Yan Rushun eased her breath and started a round with a smile: "To be honest, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really troublesome, so don't fall into it just because your mother urges you." Think about your dad, he won't approve of you getting married casually. ”

He was silent for a long time, and said sullenly, "Then leave the children's room empty for the time being." ”

Is this what it means to "temporarily" uncover the matter?

Yan Rushun held her breath and continued with a smile: "Okay, I know." By the way, as a friend, I would like to give you a piece of advice: don't propose to a girl casually, unless you really like her, it will break someone's heart. ”

But I really like you!

Xin Weiyang sighed in his heart, but in the end he didn't say anything, just stared deeply.

In the scorching eyes, Yan Rushun was uncomfortable, and hurriedly said: "Then I will think about the other rooms, draw drawings and show them to you." By the way, when do you need it?"

"Don't worry. Xin Weiyang raised his head slightly, and stopped talking, "There are some things that I still need to think about before deciding." ”

"Okay. She answered.

No matter what he had to consider, the money was already in hand anyway, so she wasn't in a hurry. Besides, she still has a suite to decorate, and she has the time to be busy with her own.

The next day, Xin Weiyang went on a business trip.

Before leaving, he briefly explained to Yan Rushun: "My students will move the materials back to school tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, and I will trouble you to open the door at that time." ”

"Okay. With a gesture, Yan Rushun responded happily and didn't ask much.

In fact, she is still a little curious, isn't the school winter vacation now, what is his business trip?

However, this kind of question is a bit ambiguous, and she doesn't want to cause any misunderstanding.

When the doctoral students came to move the materials, she was drying her clothes.

"My wife is so virtuous, and the boss is really blessed. "They were still very welcoming, even a little flattering.

Yan Rushun can only buy this virtuous for 500 yuan.

Without Xin Weiyang and Mu Yun by their side, both sides were less restrained, and chatted casually after greetings.

PhD students say they've finished their winter break and are back to work.

Yan Rushun asked: "Aren't you still on winter vacation, why are you so diligent?"

The self-proclaimed "Xiao Li" doctor replied honestly: "It's good to meet the relocation this year, everyone was already in the laboratory at this time last year." ”

The doctor who called himself "Xiao Wang" secretly kicked Xiao Li and said with a smile: "Geniuses are so diligent like bosses, what reason do we dare to be lazy?"

Yan Rushun also smiled: "In front of me, you don't have to flatter him so much." "Really, she doesn't really have anything to do with him.

Dr. Wang was serious: "I'm not flattering the boss. You said that I am as old as the boss, and my future is uncertain, and the boss is already a thousand people, so I have to obey it. ”

"Thousands of people?" What kind of nickname is this? Yan Rushun couldn't help but sneer, "Thousands of people are killed?"

Dr. Xiao Wang looked at her in surprise: "Don't you know? China has a 'plan for the introduction of high-level overseas talents', referred to as the 'Thousand Talents Program', which is to dig up foreign corners and dig up the more important scientific research experts in various fields back to China -- to put it bluntly, every 'thousand people' country has spent a lot of real money, and it is impossible to evaluate it without some ability." ”

Yan Rushun's small mouth opened round: she only knew that Xin Weiyang was a little talented and capable, but she didn't know that he was so good.

Xiao Wang looked at her appearance and was a little puzzled: "Didn't the boss tell you?"

Yan Rushun reacted and hurriedly replied: "I haven't asked - the main reason is that I'm too scumbag, and I don't understand any of these things about you." ”

Xiao Wang didn't notice anything wrong, blinked and joked: "It's okay if you don't understand." As long as the boss gives you the salary card, it's fine. ”

Yan Rushun hehe: She didn't dare to ask for it. That salary card must have been stared at by Xin's mother, and whoever took it was hot.

It took her a few more days to finalize the design plan of the nest, hand it over to the foreman of the decoration team introduced by her colleague along with the advance payment, sign the contract, and finally make time to meet the child king.

The meeting place is the "Aibei Early Education Center" where the child king works.

When I went, the child king was giving the baby a sensory integration exercise class.

Yan Rushun looked in from the small window on the door, and saw that the big room was painted with bright colors, the floor was covered with thick cushions, and the wall was also wrapped in a soft layer, which was full of all kinds of early education equipment, which dazzled her.

The child king was tall and thin, looked very energetic, and explained to the mothers with a gentle expression how to use different equipment.

In accordance with the instructions of the child king, the mothers took the baby to play happily in various equipment, some lying on a large cone-shaped plate, some climbing up the hill and then sliding on the slide, and some walking on the small balance beam......

The babies looked around with clear eyes, some were ignorant, some were happy, some were aggrieved, and some were angry. No matter what state it is, it looks so cute and cute, Yan Rushun's heart is about to melt away.

Wow –

For some reason, a child burst into tears.

Bao's mother was in a hurry, but the child refused to give up.

Yan Rushun couldn't help but be anxious for the child king, but saw that he was not in a hurry to invite all the mothers and babies to sit in a circle, chanting and singing something in his mouth, while rhythmically beating the beat, and greeting the crying baby with a very gentle expression.

The baby didn't appreciate it and still cried.

The child king smiled and took out a few small hula hoops, and cordially beckoned several other babies to come forward one by one to receive them.

When the other babies received the hula hoop and played with a smile, the crying baby finally stopped crying, turned his head to look at the child king, and he handed the last hula hoop over with a big smile.

The baby finally took the hula hoop timidly and shook it with the encouragement of his mother.

I don't know how the hula hoop met his appetite, and he suddenly burst into laughter.

Tears were still hanging on his cheeks, but people were stupidly waving hula hoops and laughing.

Yan Rushun felt funny and funny.

When a lively class was over, the mothers took their babies to say goodbye to the child Wang: "Goodbye, Teacher Zhao." ”

The child king also waved goodbye to them one by one.

Then, he saw Yan Rushun and stepped forward and grinned: "You are Ah Shun, right?"

Yan Rushun also smiled and praised sincerely: "It's me." You are worthy of being the king of children, you really have a set of children. ”

The child Wang stretched out his arm and made a "please" gesture, while taking her to wander around the early education center, he said modestly: "In fact, it is not difficult, the child's mind is very simple, as long as you observe carefully, gain insight into what they really want, don't force them to do what they don't want to do, reason with them well, talk to them about the conditions, it is easy to guide them to do what you want them to do." ”

"Really?" Yan Rushun raised her eyebrows in disbelief and sighed, "I was nervous when I saw that baby crying just now, and I couldn't think of what to do at that time." ”

The child king pursed his lips and smiled: "It's normal, because you haven't been in contact with children before and don't know them." However, if you really want to be a good mother, the first hurdle to overcome is to learn to face your baby's crying calmly. ”

Yan Rushun solemnly repeated: "Calmly face the baby's cry." ”

"Yes, you are an adult, no matter what the situation is, you must not panic in the first place. When you panic, the child panics, and the situation becomes more out of control. As long as you calm down and your attitude will be contagious to the child, then things will slowly get under control......"

From the point of the child's crying, he extended it to how to cultivate the child's temperament, guide the child's interests and hobbies, and what kind of child development concept should be established.

His eloquent appearance made Yan Rushun admire and appreciate it. She seemed to have seen how he patiently and lovingly taught his children, and the full fatherly love was so warm that it was intoxicating.

Let's see, this should be the right way for the future child's father.

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