Chapter 194: Chatting with his parents
"No, it's really gone! Where is it so exaggerated as you say!" Zhao Hong said a little embarrassed.
"You're exaggerating enough. Who's a child like you! Come back to be a teacher, go home every day, how good is the family and Meimei! Who is running around like you. It's like you're so busy!"
Zhao Hong's father was a little dissatisfied and complained.
Zhao Hong was also a little speechless, but he also had to explain a few words, "Isn't it good to be busy? Is it good to be laid off and worry about being together every day when I go home? I am also afraid of being eliminated, and if I don't work hard and don't study, it will be too late to cry when that day comes." ”
My father was also a little gloomy and said, "Why can't you say that this is a good enterprise? This year, many units have begun to lay off employees, and many people who have been exercising together have been talking about it recently, and the temporary workers and auxiliary units of the steel company have begun to reduce their personnel, and the enterprises known as 10 miles of steel city will also have this day, and many people are also very difficult to accept. The same is true for several units in the south and west of the river. Tell me what's going on?"
Zhao Hong hurriedly comforted and said, "Our family must be fine." My sister is a teacher, it's okay, my brother-in-law is the same, my brother is going to graduate school soon, he should be a university teacher in the future, and there will be no problem, my sister-in-law is busier now, a senior engineer, a business backbone, and there is no problem. Besides, it's all about me! It's a big deal to be my own boss, maybe I can earn more money! ”
The mother said a little reproachfully, "It's easy for you to say." It's so easy to do it yourself!"
My father chimed in and said, "It's easy for you to say. If it were that easy, everyone would do it themselves. Who is still running all over the world looking for a job? Standing and talking doesn't hurt your back!"
Zhao Hong also has nothing to say, it is true, if he is not reborn and cheats, he is not the same as everyone else, he runs around with headless flies, suffers losses and is deceived, and occasionally has a job that is also the level of coolies. It's still a day to work, and there is a possibility of unemployment anytime and anywhere. At most, it was the first year, due to their own inadaptability, and also due to the small scale of private enterprises at that time, the management was not standardized, not to mention paying insurance, not even a minimum employment contract, the so-called salary is a verbal agreement, not that I don't want to fight, but that the job is difficult to find, everyone is pretending to be stupid and acquiescing to the behavior of these bosses. Zhao Hong changed no less than seven or eight jobs in his first year of part-time work, and there was only one reason, that is, he was unwilling to pretend to be confused. I have been educated since I was a child, and I must be serious and diligent in my work, but if I pay and be deceived again, I can't just endure it. I suffered a lot of losses, and it wasn't until the second year that I discovered some of the mysteries of the talent market. It turns out that finding a job also requires skills, and you can't just listen to their fools.
In fact, to put it bluntly, most of the private companies in the 90s were informal, so the choice is very important. The unit that often recruits can't go, because it doesn't regard employees as the wealth of the enterprise at all, but as a money-making tool that can be recruited and lingered, which can have a variety of reasons and is very high-sounding. For example, "what our enterprise needs is talent, not manpower", but there are a few people who are not ordinary people, or people, doing ordinary work and earning an ordinary income, instead of taking a salary to do the work of talents; "Our enterprise is developing rapidly, and it is inevitable to work hard now" The enterprise is your own boss, the development of the natural is your income, the nature is the wisdom of the boss, hard work when the staff and you struggle, the development of the enterprise, tell the quality of the staff has not been able to keep up with the development needs of the enterprise, but also require the employee to take the initiative to leave. Second, when recruiting, we should observe the quality and level of the recruiter, talk about themselves, wear an ordinary dress, and talk about the company's great future, "income tens of thousands is not a dream, income of 100,000 is not a dream", it sounds like a blind person, if it is really as good as he said, how can it be your turn, he himself has already gone, Mongolian people are not willing to use their brains, you go to be deceived again, who is to blame? In fact, there are many companies that you can't go to, so finding a job is also a life lesson that needs to be studied well.
Therefore, Zhao Hong's parents' statement is correct, but it is not applicable to Zhao Hong, the reasons are known, and I don't want to say more.
But how to dispel this concern of his parents, this time Zhao Hong was indeed ready for a long time, that is, the Internet café project. met her classmate Zhang Meihua and her boyfriend (who is also her future husband). This time, they happened to invest by themselves, and their husband and wife came forward. Although they have failed in business for many years, their experience is still there, and Zhao Hong's brothers and sisters are all locals, so many things can still be solved. In fact, it is indeed a good partner.
It's just that it's not suitable to talk to your parents now, you can't solve the problem, you just fill in some more worries and worries. My parents are getting older and more timid. This is also the inevitability of life, and no one can escape it.
Even Zhao Hong's mother told his father that Zhao Hong's children were not surnamed Zhao at present, and his father also said disapprovingly, "What does it matter what the surname is? Everything with the surname is our family's children, and they are all our family's seedlings! The two sons have not married any family, isn't it understandable that the surname of the mother has been given? Although the money has already been given, there is still a lot. But we still owe something, and it's good that the surname of the child's mother can alleviate their grievances. As for the future, rest assured. When the child grows up, he will change it back. Isn't that the old Dong in our village? His surname is Dong, and his son's surname is Xue. ”
Zhao Hong also breathed a sigh of relief, his father wanted to open it more than himself, so there was no problem. I'm also blindly worried.
The father was full of curiosity about the other two grandsons who were about to come back, "Look at how beautiful the names people have come up, the sea, the stream, the boy has the open-mindedness of the sea, and the girl has the quiet and quiet of the stream." When will you come back? You go to the capital to pick you up, and come back quickly to arrange food and lodging. Let's just choose the best room in the high-end hotel near the alley, and clean up the house and see how to arrange it?"
After eating, my father called Zhao Hong's brother and sister again and invited the whole family to come back at half past seven in the evening to have dinner at the big restaurant at the door. They happily agreed.