The things that he had worked so hard to prepare were ridiculed like this, and Yan Rushun couldn't help but feel a little angry in her heart.

But she still suppressed her emotions and patiently explained: "Mom, I don't want Jian Jian to learn the Four Books and Five Classics now, but just to create a language environment for her, so that her cranial nerves can be stimulated more and develop better - you don't know, children are in the golden period of brain development before the age of three, and during this time, the more sensory stimulation she is exposed to, the better it will be for her." ”

Xin's mother was disdainful: "Ouch, forget it, An An will have to sleep after eating milk later, how can she sleep with your voice?" Since she knew the name her son gave her grandson, she changed Jian Jian to An An, and always felt that this name was better than that chosen by her daughter-in-law.

Yan Rushun didn't care about her name, but said, "Mom, you said it wrong." Small babies should not sleep too quietly, otherwise they will fall asleep and be easily frightened in the future. You have to let her get used to the normal language environment, and she is easy to feel at ease. ”

"You are a crooked reason, I don't believe it, ask your mother. ”

Yan's mother was still busy classifying the things brought back from the hospital, and when she heard Xin's mother say, she quickly raised her head and responded: "Hey, mother-in-law, I think as long as it's not a bad thing for Jian Jian, let's wait for Shun Shun to toss her, after all, the child was born by her, right?"

Xin's mother was unconvinced, and she felt that she was also stupid - the mother and daughter were of the same heart, she asked what Yan's mother.

So, she turned her head and asked her son: "Yangyang, do you say that the sound of chanting scriptures is noisy?

Xin Weiyang didn't understand this kind of thing, and he didn't think there was any need to argue over such a trivial matter, so he simply compromised: "I'll turn off the voice a little bit, just treat it as a lullaby, it's okay." ”

seems to be a compromise, but in the end he still supports his wife.

The corners of Yan Rushun's mouth were slightly upturned, and Xin's mother pulled down her face again.

At this time, she didn't like anything.

It just so happened that Sister Wu began to wash the child's buttocks, and when she saw it, she immediately shouted: "Huh! How can you lift the child's feet? Be careful to lift the hip joint." ”

Sister Wu let the child's head, neck and back lean on her thighs, and then held two little ankles in her left hand and washed her buttocks with her right hand. ”

"Who said that they all wash like urine? Mother Xin said that she was going to correct Sister Wu's "mistakes".

Sister Wu hurriedly said, "No, grandma child, you listen to me." It takes about three months for the child's neck to grow stiff and stand up on its own, but now the neck is soft, and if you use the posture of urinating, her neck can't stand it, and it is easy to put it on her chest and cause suffocation. ”

Xin's mother still insisted: "Then don't you just lean on my chest when you wash." ”

Xin Weiyang couldn't bear to come forward: "Mom, don't interfere if you don't understand." Sister Wu has been doing this for decades, will you know more than others?"

"But if you lift the child's foot like that, aren't you afraid of An An's dislocated joint?"

"I see that An An is very comfortable, there should be no problem. ”

Yan's mother couldn't help but whisper to her daughter: "I don't know how your mother-in-law brought Yang Yang up, I don't think she understands anything." ”

Yan Rushun is not good at speaking ill of her mother-in-law, anyway, she didn't expect her mother-in-law at the beginning.

So, she smiled, made a strange look at her mother, and then went to look through the pictures she had prepared before, some black and white, some color, some geometric shapes, and some world famous paintings, which were hung on the wall next to the crib one by one.

In this way, as soon as Jian Jian opened her eyes, she would be able to show her these pictures.

The picture hasn't been hung up yet, and it's time to clean up and breastfeed.

Yan Rushun hurriedly found a place to sit down, put on a good posture, and asked Sister Wu to send the child over.

While feeding, she couldn't help but sigh: "It's really pulling after eating, pulling and eating." You're a snacker. ”

Jian Jian didn't care what she said, sucking her food hard.

Yan Rushun felt that her milk volume seemed to have increased, but it was still not enough for Jian Jian. It's only been a few days, and the little one's appetite is soaring, and in addition to her milk, he has to drink another 60 milliliters of milk.

Xin's mother couldn't help but complain: "It's been four days, why can't the milk keep up?" Shun Shun, you have to drink more soup and drink more soup! I think back then, the day after I gave birth to Yangyang, there was so much milk that Yangyang couldn't finish drinking. Now that you are a mother, you must think more about your children. ”

It was as if she was grateful for treating Jian Jian for herself.

Yan Rushun was upset when she heard it: In the past few days, as long as her mother-in-law and mother watch her breastfeeding, she will babble these words, even if she does it once or twice, it is simply blocked when she listens too much, making her feel as if she is incompetent.

But is the lack of milk what she thinks?

She also hopes to be a qualified cow in no time.

I didn't want to reason with my mother-in-law, but she still didn't hold it back, so she argued: "Mom, the doctor said that this milk is growing slowly, as long as you insist on breastfeeding, you will soon be able to keep up with the needs of the child." You're a little patient, okay?"

The tone was a little heavy, and Xin's mother didn't like to listen to it: "You don't have enough milk yourself, what's the use of telling me patience? I'm not here for your good." ”

Yan Rushun was so depressed that she wanted to vomit blood.

A sentence of "I'm not here for your good" is simply murderous without blood.

Xin Weiyang saw that his wife's face was not good, so he hurriedly interrupted: "Mom, you can't help with breastfeeding, so don't express your opinion." Let's see how Dad is doing in the kitchen, ah!"

It was easy to coax his mother away, and he also had a headache: since he came home, every little thing has been going on. He hates trouble the most, and now he finds that there is trouble all around him anytime and anywhere.

What is called chicken feathers all over the ground, now he can be regarded as knowledgeable.

Although he has a certain amount of psychological preparation for living with his parents, it seems that his psychological construction is still not sufficient.

However, Xin's mother was looking forward to her granddaughter, and it was impossible to invite her out of the house.

Besides, nowadays, the family also needs someone to do laundry and cooking, and even take care of Yan Rushun, he is self-aware of himself, and feels that he still has to rely on his parents at this time.

So, he had no choice but to hold his wife's hand and sighed: "Don't take it to heart, my mother said her, your left ear is more than your right ear." ”

Xin's mother is chattering in front of her every day, how easy is it to get more out of her left ear and right ear? But with Xin Weiyang's words, Yan Rushun felt that with the backing, he still felt a lot better.

She was about to say a few thoughtful words to her husband when there was another quarrel on the other end of the kitchen.

Yan's father cooked a bowl of light sweet potato porridge for his daughter, and made a green vegetable and egg soup, Xin's mother felt inappropriate when she saw it: "Father-in-law, Shun Shun's milk is not enough now, how can you have enough nutrition for such a light soup?" You have to boil fish soup, chicken soup, bone broth or something!"

Although the meal was made by Yan's father, the recipe was drawn up by Yan's mother.

She immediately came forward to defend: "Shun Shun is now a few days after the operation, and he can't eat too greasy, otherwise it will not be conducive to the recovery of the wound." Those soups are best to wait a few more days. ”

Xin's mother insisted on her opinion: "It's been four days after the operation, you can't eat green vegetable soup all the time! Why don't you add some chicken soup! If your father-in-law is tired and doesn't want to do it, Xin Hao, you can do it." ”

Although she is divorced, she is still justified in instructing her ex-husband.

Mother Yan saw that Mother Xin had a tough attitude, and Father Xin was displeased, afraid that the two would quarrel on the spot, so she compromised: "It's okay, but don't bother your father-in-law." Lao Yan, go get a rooster and make some soup. ”

Xin's mother immediately objected: "No, we should use hens, we met confinement there, and we all came to cook soup and milk with a few old hens." ”

Yan's mother is very confident in her profession: "Mother-in-law, milk needs to suppress the secretion of estrogen in the mother's body, so it is more necessary to have a rooster that contains more male hormones." ”

"What estrogen androgenic, haven't heard of. I believe in the experience of so many years......"

So, in order to use the question of rooster or hen, the two mothers began to go on endlessly.

Xin Weiyang felt a big headache, and had no choice but to rush forward before the battle escalated, and pulled his mother aside to comfort him alone: "Mom, don't worry about this." Shun Shun's mother is a doctor, and she must have studied more in this area than you. ”

Xin's mother was just about to speak, but her son hurriedly added: "Besides, the chicken soup is boiled out for Shun Shun to drink, will she harm her daughter?"

Xin's mother couldn't refute it, and she felt unwilling in her heart, so she snorted hatefully, and at the same time glared at her son fiercely: "I will raise you for nothing! ”

The so-called being more wronged than Dou E, Xin Weiyang finally had a personal experience.

After a long day of commotion, everything was finally cleaned up, the meal was ready, and the family sat down to eat together.

Although there was a lot of unpleasantness before, but now it is the time of the Chinese New Year, the family is reunited, and there is a little granddaughter to accompany them, everyone is very happy, and they specially opened a bottle of red wine to help the fun - of course, this is not Yan Rushun's share.

Everyone raised their glasses and said happy new year to each other, and even Sister Wu was infected with this atmosphere and drank three cups with a smile.

After a lively and lively for a while, Xin's mother took advantage of the excitement and solemnly said to her daughter-in-law: "Shun Shun, you worked hard to give birth to An An, you can be regarded as a hero." ”

Of course, Yan Rushun didn't dare to say that he didn't dare to say that everyone worked hard, and thanked everyone by the way.

Xin's mother's purpose was not to be polite to her, and continued to say earnestly: "Shun Shun, even if your task is completed here, your main energy in the future should still be on caring for your husband and your own work." ”

Poof-well, it's okay, Yan Rushun endured it with difficulty.

Everyone subconsciously stopped what they were doing and waited for the follow-up development.

Yan Rushun glanced at Xin Weiyang quickly, then turned back to look at her mother-in-law, and almost asked with the smile of "I will listen to yours", please say it again?

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