Everyone knows that graduation is a season of breakups, but there are still many classmates who have entered the season of love one after another.

They all say that college life is incomplete without love, but what kind of character is the person who accepts her in the end? What kind of mood is it?

Some things have actually begun to go far beyond what is called love. Is it easy for everyone to let go? In fact, this is also the reason why the reputation of later college students is getting worse and worse.

No one can trust a person who indulges himself to be accountable to others. Therefore, the number of divorced and unmarried people is increasing rapidly, especially female college students.

In the final analysis, this society is still a male-dominated society, and when he is required to buy a house and a car, he is given more power while taking on more responsibilities.

Only those who are serious about falling in love, even if they fail, are worthy of respect, at least they can not regret it, and the game of the brave must have the courage to face failure.

Zhao Hong is not a brave person, nor is he ready to take on or accept the courage of a loser. Love really requires not only courage, but also the determination and strength to take on the future.

This determination refers to the common struggle that can start from scratch like my parents, and support each other all the way through the years of hard struggle. This strength is not the ability to have a car and a house, but your ability to achieve the ability to have a car and a house. Even if you can't achieve it, you can live a life of poverty and enjoy a life full of love and hope even though you don't have money.

Didn't our parents have many examples of this? Just prepare yourself before you fall in love?

Zhao Hong once joked that if there was a girl who was still willing to love him and marry him when he was poor, Zhao Hong would believe in love. But no.

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Enjoy love when you should study, then you have to be busy with work and life when you should be in love, and when you can get married, you will find that you are already the one left.

College love is okay, love is okay. Learning and laying the foundation are the most important things at this age

So later there was a phenomenon that when the number of college students increased, the number of older men and women who could not get married also increased. Among them, the female college students who have increased the most are also the most hurt, and those who were once brave are the girls. Maybe you will be lonely for the rest of your life!

Love can't come too early, especially when you don't have the ability to control your own destiny.

Those girls who are in love think more about the consequences, and the boys think about some responsibilities and think about each other, maybe there will be a lot less tragedy.

Zhao Hong communicated his thoughts with Xiao Wanting, but he didn't expect her to agree very much.

Xiao Wanting thought for a while and said, "Actually, when I came to college, my parents discussed this issue with me. The father focused on the issue of love. The love between men and women is a natural attribute, no need to fear, no need to escape, but how to love, that is a big problem. First of all, you can't just fall in love because of loneliness. Loneliness is a difficulty that people must face in life, today because of loneliness in love, tomorrow because of loneliness in love, tomorrow because of loneliness in the derailment. Falling in love because of loneliness is problematic in itself. Secondly, at least be in a relationship with a kind man, because he will think about you. Rather than blindly pursuing their own happiness feelings. Third, never fall in love with stupid people, a person can be stupid, just do it a few more times, stupid people will never know what to do and what not to do. ……”

Zhao Hong thought about it and nodded, what his girlfriend's father said was good, a person who can't stand loneliness will never know what perseverance is, and being able to endure loneliness is the basis for victory. It's like studying, 12 years, 16 years or even 20 years of continuous learning, that kind of loneliness is really very.

In fact, it is not only men who are looking for kindness, but also women. It's hard for a woman without kindness to imagine that she will go through the ups and downs of life with you.

And stupidity is terrible everywhere,

If a person is stupid, he can learn to make up for it, but if he is stupid, there is no way to change it.

Xiao Wanting glanced at Zhao Hong and was satisfied with Zhao Hong's thoughtful state. Sharing his father's education on himself hoped to help him, and her father told her that she always remembered that a good man should be slowly cultivated by himself is the most suitable for himself.

Xiao Wanting then said, "My mother also talked to me about love. Love is sometimes inevitable at some stages, but at least a few basic conditions must be met, the first is that I really love him, I have the idea of living with him for the rest of my life, and he has the same idea, and the two of them have already experienced a certain run-in. Secondly, love has a price, and I am ready to bear the consequences. The first love is a lifelong event, and you must give yourself the person you think you love, at least I can enjoy the joy of love. Third, pay attention to safety and cherish yourself. Be generous, prepare in advance, and clean up afterwards. Minimize the occurrence of accidents, after all, there are still some troubles, and other possible sequelae. But don't panic if you have an accident, after all, you still have the last way out of your parents. Parents are in charge of everything. ”

This is the gap! Where would an ordinary family think of so many things? An ordinary family would find it very difficult to produce a college student, but when a talent is produced, they feel that their children must know more than themselves. What the child wants to do, there must be her (his) reason. Generally supportive.

And if something goes wrong, they don't know how to solve it, and many parents have entered the mood of complaining and complaining, not knowing that their children need help and comfort the most at this time.

Zhao Hong has always felt that he is not very stupid, why did he always go all the way in the previous life, even if he was in the right direction, sometimes he would give up halfway, because he didn't know if the front was where the dawn appeared. However, many students are basically walking smoothly on the avenue, and they have been walking forward and getting wider and wider. Now I understand that a good family education is indeed very important.

Zhao Hong looked at Xiao Wanting with some gratitude, maybe Zhao Hong could also think of these truths, after all, with decades of experience, there will always be something to gain if you lose more.

Zhao Hong said to Xiao Wanting, "I understand, I will think more and pay more attention to things." If you have any doubts, I will ask you. ”

Xiao Wanting said a little arrogantly, "That's it, I'm your sister." Sister is, of course, the embodiment of intelligence, beauty and wisdom. Well, if you have any questions, please ask for more instructions and report more. ”

Zhao Hong picked her up,

"I think you're going to have to learn less. ”

"Haha. Xiao Wanting's cheerful voice slowly came from inside the room.

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