7. Your son is likely to be calcium

As we all know, from elementary school to university, teachers will put their eyes and ears in the class to watch the students' every move, and the class leader is like an embassy or consulate abroad, which is a reasonable, legal and well-known spy agency. Liu Chenyu is no exception.

Yao Shunze may feel that after listening to the statements of both parties, he also needs to listen to the opinions of a third party as a bystander. So after reading the manuscript of Jiang Shuiyuan's "Tasting of Handsome Guys in the Third and Fifth Classes of Junior High School", he said to Liu Chenyu who was sitting at the desk: "Liu Chenyu, as far as you know, what happened to the fight between Jiang Shuiyuan and Zhao Kangfu?"

Liu Chenyu swept the broken hair in his ears: "I heard from my classmates that it should be Zhao Kangfu who took advantage of the river source to go to class to exercise, stole through his drawers, looked at some of his things, and circulated them to other classmates in the class." Jiang Shuiyuan came back and questioned Zhao Kangfu, but Zhao Kangfu did not answer directly, and deliberately said something unclear, and finally Jiang Shuiyuan beat him in a fit of anger. ”

It seems that Liu Chenyu is also very unkind to Zhao Kangfu's behavior of rummaging through other people's drawers, looking at other people's things, and chewing the root of other people's tongues.

"Do you think Zhao Kangfu is mainly responsible for this matter?" asked Yao Shunze.

"This matter is indeed Zhao Kangfu's fault first, but Jiang Shuiyuan is not right to beat people, especially if he is so heavy, he broke Zhao Kangfu's nose!" Liu Chenyu immediately pursed his lips, and seemed to have made a lot of determination before continuing, "But I think Jiang Shuiyuan is indeed a little abnormal, so he will be annoyed and angry after being exposed by Zhao Kangfu." ”

Unexpectedly, Liu Chenyu would say this, and Yao Shunze was suddenly stunned. But he also knew that Liu Chenyu had a good family education, and as a squad leader, he had always been reliable, and he would never talk nonsense, so he hurriedly asked, "Oh, why do you say that?"

Liu Chenyu said: "Because recently, I found that Jiang Shuiyuan often peeked at the good-looking boys in the class during class, and when I went to buy clothes last weekend, I saw Jiang Shuiyuan picking clothes at the girls' counter!"

If Zhao Kangfu said that the water source of the river was abnormal, then Yao Shunze would definitely not believe it. But now Liu Chenyu said the same, and gave two examples in a row, and Yao Shunze's confidence gradually began to waver. And after Liu Chenyu's reminder, Yao Shunze seemed to feel that Jiang Shuiyuan's eyes did often glance at a few handsome boys in his class.

-- Perhaps, this is the power of all the people to become gold, and the three of them become tigers!

"Liu Chenyu, you just know about this matter yourself, don't talk nonsense to other students! Now is the critical moment to prepare for the high school entrance examination, study is your most important task, and you can't let everyone be distracted by this!" Yao Shunze admonished.

After Liu Chenyu left, Yao Shunze picked up the manuscript of Jiang Shuiyuan's "Handsome Guy Tasting Record" again and read it carefully. This time I really see the problem, although Jiang Shuiyuan occasionally mentions someone's grades and conduct in it, but basically uses words such as "talented", "excellent grades" and "good conduct", but when it comes to appearance, he is tireless, from tall, short, fat and thin to eyebrows, eyes, mouth and nose, and then to language and demeanor, his careful observation and meticulous description make Yao Shunze admire.

But should we talk to the parents of Jiang Shuiyuan about this problem? If so, how should we say it?

Yao Shunze had been thinking about this all morning. If you don't cover the lid and don't say it, it can not only ensure that the class is not messy, but also let the parents not lose face, naturally hello, I am good, everyone is good, the only disadvantage is that it may affect the life of Jiang Shuiyuan. According to the book "Health Education in Adolescence", it is normal for boys to have a sense of affection for the same sex at some point during puberty. Jiang Shuiyuan's current situation is only a little over-the-top and a little misguided, and if he intervenes appropriately to correct it at this time, it should be easy to change the evil and return to the right. If you leave it alone, you may ride your horse on the road of no return until you reach the dark!

But what if you say it? The parents of the calves will speak ill of themselves, and even fight with them, causing an uproar and affecting the century-old reputation of Shanyang Junior High School. It is also possible that parents do not know much about this, do not know how to deal with it, and adopt improper methods, which will eventually arouse the rebellious psychology of young people and lead the water source of the zhì river to go further and further down the evil road.

These are all questions that Yao Shunze needs to consider.

It wasn't until Yao Shunze saw that the parents who came were Jiang Shuiyuan's father, Jiang Youzhi, that he decided to tell the truth, because he believed that the top students who graduated from Liangjiang Normal University would be able to deal with this problem.

After the greetings, Yao Shunze first praised: "Recently, Jiang Shuiyuan has studied very seriously, and he has been very good in this mock test, ranking nearly ten places in the class, ranking 20th. To say that Jiang Shuiyuan is really a very smart child, he was not very active in learning before, so his grades have been hovering in the middle, but now he is willing to work hard and work hard, and his grades have immediately improved greatly. If this momentum continues to develop, it will be easy to get into Huai'an Mansion!"

"Jiang Shuiyuan's grades can have such a big improvement, mainly because of your good teaching, Teacher Yao!" Jiang Youzhi is also a school teacher, so he naturally knows that it is impossible for the head teacher to call parents to the office because of the students' rapid grades, and it must be a bad thing: "Jiang Shuiyuan has been relatively stubborn since he was a child, and I have no way to teach, so it is inevitable that I will do some things out of line, and I will trouble Teacher Yao to discipline you more!"

Yao Shunze said: "Then do you know about the fight between Jiang Shuiyuan and his classmates this morning, Mr. Jiang?"

Jiang Youzhi smiled bitterly: "He's a little bastard who doesn't report bad news, he first told me about the results of this exam at lunchtime, and then he said lightly that there was a little dispute with his classmates, and asked me to come to your office in the afternoon, but I didn't expect it to be a fight with my classmates." What the hell is going on? Is the other student injured? Do you want to go to the hospital?"

Yao Shunze said: "That classmate only had a little blood from his nose, but nothing else was serious. But then again, Jiang Shuiyuan can't be blamed for this, this morning, when he was exercising during recess, Zhao Kangfu, who was at the same table, took advantage of him to go out for exercise, stole through his drawers, and peeked at his things, and publicized it in the class, saying something unpleasant. After Jiang Shuiyuan came back, he found out about the situation, the two had a disagreement, and he was angry for a while before he started beating people. ”

Jiang You said straightly: "No matter what, after all, it was Jiang Shuiyuan who did it first, and I asked Teacher Yao to criticize him harshly, and I, as a parent, will actively cooperate." If necessary, I, as a parent, can accompany Jiang Shuiyuan to apologize to the beaten students!"

Yao Shunze was very satisfied with Jiang Youzhi's statement. In fact, the poor education of primary and secondary school students is a problem of family education. If the parents of his students can be as open-minded and polite as he is, why worry about the poor education of the students? At that moment, he smiled and said: "Actually, it is not a big deal, the relationship between lips and teeth is so close, sometimes it is inevitable that it will be bitten, let alone between the same table? Huai'an Mansion has a population of more than one million, and there are nearly 3,000 students in our Shanyang Junior High School, so it is a great fate to be able to sit at the same table and study." The friendship between classmates is the most precious, let alone the same table? Maybe a big fight now will become a rare memory decades later. In the afternoon, I also called Zhao Kangfu's father, and then the two of you can talk to each other, learn about educational experience, and strive to let the two of them be admitted to Huai'an Mansion at the same time!"

Jiang You smiled and said, "Okay, when the time comes, I will invite Teacher Yao and that Brother Zhao to dinner, and by the way, I will compensate the two of you for Jiang Shuiyuan." ”

Yao Shunze continued: "Actually, today I asked Mr. Jiang to take time out of his busy schedule to come over, because there is one more thing I want to tell you, I hope you can stay calm and restrained, and deal with this matter calmly. ”

"Oh, please!" replied Jiang Youzhi hurriedly.

Yao Shunze opened the drawer, took out the manuscript of Jiang Shuiyuan's "Tasting of Handsome Guys in the Third and Fifth Classes of Junior High School" and handed it over: "Teacher Jiang, this is what Zhao Kangfu turned out in the drawer of Jiang Shuiyuan this morning, please take a look." ”

Jiang Youzhi took a cursory look at it and recognized that this was indeed his precious son's note: "Teacher Yao, this isβ€”"

"The names above are all the boys in our class," Yao explained, "and Jiang Shuiyuan is actually very commendable in drafting this list as a model for himself to follow, and the progress in this exam proves the effectiveness of this move." But Mr. Jiang, did you find that Jiang Shuiyuan pays more attention to the appearance of boys in the list, followed by grades and conduct, I am afraid that it is a little biased. ”

Jiang Youzhi's expression was a little stiff: "What do you mean?"

Yao Shunze said softly: "Teacher Jiang, you are a top student of Liangjiang Normal University, you must have studied education and psychology, and you have been teaching for so many years, you have a good understanding of the psychological development of teenagers, you should know that they will have a certain period of addolescence to have a love for the same sex, which is a normal physiological phenomenon." But Jiang Shuiyuan's current appearance is probably a little overdone, in addition to this list, it is said that he will also peek at other boys in class and buy some fancy clothes. As a parent, do you have any similar findings?"

The fancy clothes in Yao Shunze's mouth refer to the women's clothes that Liu Chenyu said, and Jiang Youzhi understands them as the new clothes that Jiang Shuiyuan was clamoring to buy a few days ago. And these days, Jiang Youzhi has indeed found Jiang Shuiyuan looking at pictures of handsome guys on the computer several times, and he didn't care about it at all before, but now he feels that it is not normal after being reminded by Yao Shunze. Could it be that his own son is?

Thinking of this, Jiang Youzhi's voice trembled slightly, and he asked in a tone of disbelief: "Teacher Yao, what do you mean, the source of the river water is likely to be calcium?"

Yao Shunze waved his hand again and again: "Teacher Jiang, don't make a big fuss, in fact, this is just a normal phenomenon for all teenagers, it's just that Jiang Shuiyuan is a little too much, if it is allowed to develop or mishandled, it may indeed become calcium in the future." But we found it earlier, as long as it is handled properly, it can be completely recovered. Please also ask Mr. Jiang to stay calm and don't be impatient!"

Jiang Youzhi relaxed slightly: "Let Teacher Yao smile, I only have such a child, and it is inevitable that I will be concerned about it." It is said that the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, and now I am in a big mess, I don't know if Mr. Yao has any good opinions?"

Yao Shunze scratched his head: "At noon today, I flipped through the books on psychology and found that calcium is divided into two types, one is congenital and the other is situational. Like Jiang Shuiyuan, it is obviously because he has been in the class for a long time, so the list is full of classmates in this class. I think as long as he changes the environment and meets different people, this tendency will definitely disappear!"

Jiang Youzhi nodded and said: "Jiang Shuiyuan will take the high school entrance examination soon, and it will naturally be difficult for the classmates to get together again after the high school entrance examination, and the situation should improve." ”

Yao Shunze denied Jiang Youzhi's point of view: "It's not a secret, Zhao Kangfu has already hyped it up in the class after seeing this list, if Jiang Shuiyuan still stays in the class during this time, I am afraid it will become a psychological shadow for his life." Therefore, I still don't want to go to the class for the time being, so as not to be stimulated and affect his performance in the high school entrance examination!"

Jiang Youzhi was suddenly in a dilemma.