It's only late November, the first one of the year

The snow came early.

Zhao Hong looked out the window at the snowflakes like catkins and reeds, when they were falling from the sky one after another, when the earth was decorated with snowflakes like a white carpet.

Zhao Hong looks at them, and he will have a lot of feelings: he is in a happy mood, even if he encounters something unpleasant, he will feel that his mood is very smooth.

The snowflakes are very white and white, so white, so white, they make the earth very pure, very beautiful, and it makes people feel that snow not only makes everything pure, but also makes people's hearts as beautiful and pure as it.

It's just that at present, Zhao Hong can no longer enjoy this scenery, and the arthritis of his fingers has already flareed up. In addition to the thumb, the other eight finger joints are a little painful and itchy, the right hand side is especially serious, it is already a little can't be bent casually, you must come, how careful you can't dodge, but this time it is not as serious as the attack in the previous life.

As soon as he got up, Zhao Hong told his parents about the situation, and he had to inform his parents of the situation, and his parents accompanied him to the hospital to see a doctor. Because in 88 there were no private clinics and pharmacies.

The parents frowned and looked at Zhao Hong with some worry. Picked up Zhao Hong's finger and looked at it.

The father muttered, "There are so many stupid people, what kind of illness is this?"

Mother also looked at Zhao Hong, "Isn't there too many snowball fights, don't pay attention to keeping warm at all, let you be able to, it hurts, you deserve it." ”

Zhao Hong was speechless, what were they all thinking at this time? as if he liked to get sick.

Zhao Hong had to popularize science, "Rheumatoid arthritis is an autoimmune disease. It is a genetic disease. A lot of people have it, and it's not a big deal. ”

The parents looked at each other, and finally decided to be accompanied by their mother to the factory hospital for treatment.

A neighbor and classmate handed over a leave slip on their behalf, and Zhao Hong and his mother set off for the hospital.

After running in the hospital for less than an hour, Zhao Hong went to school after seeing his mother go to work.

In fact, Zhao Hong understands that this disease is actually caused by some malnutrition, which causes low immunity. This acute attack reminded Zhao Hong of his illness again, and the recent smooth sailing made him feel that everything was fine and everything was under control. In fact, I am just an ordinary person, but I have 30 years of experience and live more clearly.

Zhao Hong returned to the school with the diagnosis certificate and medicines, and the school informed the news of the provincial mathematics, physics and chemistry junior high school subject competition.

In my previous life, I listened to the teacher's foolishness, my confidence swelled, and vanity drove me to devote myself to the preparation for the competition.

As a result, at the end of April of the second semester, I found that I still had a lot of revision work to do. I regretted it, worked hard, and boiled my body to the brink of collapse.

In June, I basically didn't dare to study hard. And after the high school entrance examination, I was seriously ill, and I didn't go out much during the summer vacation. After knowing the results of the high school entrance examination, it was a very dangerous score, and the whole family complained. I was forced to go out to work. It wasn't until the end of August that I received the admission letter, and I knew that I had exceeded the admission score by 2 points, and I was very lucky to be admitted. However, I lost precious summer vacation preparation time, and I was physically and mentally exhausted, and I had a very bad start to the three years of high school.

Zhao Hong will never participate in this time, it is better to rest and rest more if you have time, and then have time to make up for Chinese and English, especially English, after many years of experience, I know that English is still a very useful subject, and I also have the ability to improve my English scores, after all, Zhao Hong also knew how to learn English.

Getting rid of the foolishness of his math and chemistry teachers, Zhao Hong went to the top floor alone to recite politics. Zhao Hong has a kind of happiness that changes his original fate.

With his own efforts, his parents and family have changed a little, and he has also gotten rid of a lot of drags and corrected many mistakes. Simply, slowly moving forward step by step according to your own plan, a little setback is just a small ripple in the course of life.

With the accumulation of bits and pieces, happiness is like a trickling stream, gradually converging into a rushing ocean.

All along, Zhao Hong only knew what it was like to be happy. But I can't say it clearly, I just feel that everything looks so bright when I feel happy.

Happiness is always having a grateful heart, having a healthy body, some lovely friends and a hopeful future. After thinking about it, I think it makes a lot of sense.

Zhao Hong thinks that having a grateful heart is the most important thing. So what is happiness? When you see flowers blooming, when you talk to your mother, when you share joy with friends, when you work hard for tomorrow......

Happiness is only in your own heart.

What is the greatest advantage of being a born-against? When others are frustrated by the past, you have to fight for a clear goal, because you know what you need, what you want, and how to work hard to achieve it!

It's so good to be full of happiness!

In mid-November, Zhao Hong's older brother, who was in college, returned from Haishi, but did not return home until the weekend at the end of the month.

Zhao Hong knew that if he didn't run out of money, his brother might still not want to go home. Those who have gone to college can understand, most college students are like this, they ask for money when they go home or make a phone call, and their children have grown up, but they are still children, and they don't care much about their parents and families. College life is wonderful and busy, study is not very easy, club activities, and busy falling in love and talking about ideals. The same is true of Zhao Hong in the past.

The elder brother not only spent all the money he had with him, but also spent all the money that his father asked him to sell mahjong tiles on his behalf. According to my brother, when I went home, I only had 5 cents on my body. My brother has always been like this, and he lives very chic and comfortable. Zhao Hong was also speechless. This is like the boss of the family.

My father was also very angry when he heard that he didn't buy mahjong, and he quarreled with his brother for a few words, and there was nothing. My brother and my father have very similar personalities, and my father also values my brother, the eldest son, and my brother's admission to college is also my father's greatest pride. Especially when my brother grows up, my father, who has no ideas, relies on my brother even more.

Zhao's mother was also explaining on the side, in fact, her mother was very happy that she didn't buy mahjong.

In the past six months, the company's efficiency has plummeted, wages can not be paid on time, the unit often has holidays, and my father is very annoying, and likes to get together with colleagues who also have nothing to do to complain and play mahjong.

Mother didn't dare to say anything, and Zhao Hong was even more reluctant to say anything.

My father is almost 50 years old, he has been a worker all his life, he is old, he can't do it anymore, and he is very dependent on the company. With no culture, no physical strength, and no understanding of society, he was blinded all at once. What should I do if I suddenly have no confidence in myself, and my child is not yet fully independent? The father is confused, angry, and depressed. Physical fitness is also declining rapidly due to age. If there is no activity of playing mahjong, it may be more troublesome for him to vent.

Zhao Hong understands very well, because 30 years later, he is also the same, facing all kinds of loss and anxiety. Their own problems, the requirements of the children in the family for the economic foundation, and the troubles of middle-aged people. When you think you're unique, you chat with your friends, and most people are actually like that.

The same is true of my father's mahjong party. It's good for peers to get together after work, have fun, and whine.

In my previous life, I didn't understand and quarreled with my father a few times, but this time I communicated with my mother early, and my father would do whatever he wanted. Even if he goes out to work, his father will be sick for a month after working for a month, and there will be more trouble.

Zhao Hong discussed with his mother, and now he sees that his brother is about to graduate from college in the last half a year, and there are not many days left for hard days. My sister's normal university has no tuition, and the monthly subsidy is quite high, so I don't need much money for a year. Overall, there are no major financial problems at home.

Zhao Hong quietly told his mother that he still had a small treasury. provoked the mother to keep asking questions, until she handed over another 500.

Now the family's financial affairs are completely managed by the mother, so she tolerates the father's indulgence.

In the previous life, because of the family's poor economy, there was a small quarrel in three days, a big quarrel in five days, and family conflicts continued.

With more than 30 years of experience, Zhao Hong can already deal with such problems very calmly. If the family environment is good, Zhao Hong's life and study can be done well.

A popular saying in later generations is that as long as the problem can be solved with money, it is not a big problem.

The problem of the elder brother is better solved, and it does not even need to be solved. This way of life of the elder brother is a very popular one in the future. And life is also the happiest and satisfying.

Only the money spent is money, and all that is saved is paper.

The point makes a lot of sense. In a lifetime, in just a few decades, you can't always keep saving money, use money where it needs to be used, and let money serve people, rather than let people serve money. The premise is that you can earn it before you can spend it. As for right and wrong, it's just that everyone's concept is different, and there is no right or wrong.

There is a very popular story in later generations, a sheep herding baby, someone asked him what he was doing with sheep, and the sheep herding baby replied that he was saving money; he asked what he was saving money for, and he answered, he saved money to marry his daughter-in-law; he asked what he was doing with his daughter-in-law, and he replied that he would raise sheep.

Most people live like this, and no one notices that life is not just about saving money, but also about pursuing happiness.

I went out for a walk with my brother at night, and talked about my concept with my brother, and I was worthy of being a smart person who understood it as soon as he said it. My brother also cared about Zhao Hong's learning situation and supported his idea of going to high school and college. The brothers returned home happily.

Home is the eternal destination of a person's soul.

Family is the most natural and reliable partner for a person's life and career.

Family happiness is the highest goal that a person strives for.

I will always be part of the family, and I will share weal and woe.