How sad a thirty-year-old woman is, Zhao Hong really doesn't know. But the man in his thirties was a little confused, and he understood it now.

The high school classmate Pengzi in front of me is a very typical example!

I once graduated from college and fantasized about how hard to work hard, and even had the idea of starting my own business, but I have long forgotten it with the end of my youth!

Because the reality of life forced him to try to forget!

"Nowadays, there are more and more college students, and the salaries of college graduates are getting less and less, and many companies have given the minimum wage!

It is also a beautiful name, not focusing on academic qualifications and ability!

In fact, it is not just that those who can immediately help the company make money can stay, and no one cares about what happens in the future!"

Pengzi talked about the discomfort in his heart while drinking, and he looked unconfident.

"Who isn't?

After entering my thirties, I got married, started a family, and had a son, the burden on my shoulders was heavier, there were more things to consider, and the financial pressure was greater.

When I was young, I worked overtime all night and sang, and the next day I was still alive.

Now my children cry a little more at night, I am exhausted, and every day when I ride in the car, I want to take a nap whenever I have the opportunity!

Not to mention, you can squint for a while while standing now.

Although today's work is not very good, but at least you can barely live, if you are unemployed and do not immediately find a new job, it will be a tragedy. ”

Ermao on the side is also a deeply sympathetic grief, as if life has entered a miserable world again.

At least you have a mother-in-law's family that is local, and it is difficult to say how much help there is financially, but at least I can help you watch the child, what about us?

During the day, the daughter-in-law takes care of the children, and I take over after work at night, so that the daughter-in-law can take the opportunity to do something of her own!

Bathe the child, brush his teeth, put him to sleep, when he sleeps, I can have some time for myself, tired and sleepy and hurry to sleep, or I may not be able to get up the next morning. ”

Pengzi said with some envy and jealousy, who let him find a classmate who was from a foreign country like him?

"Huh...... , Now the child is small, and it will be good if the child is older in a few years, who doesn't come over like this?"

Zhao Hong smiled and comforted his two classmates, after all, he doesn't have these things now, not to mention that the small ones can basically take care of themselves, but is there anything that doesn't have housekeepers?

"Yes, it's not easy to raise a child! People say that raising a child is the only way to know the kindness of parents, and now I have a deep understanding.

The cost of raising a child is really large, and he has to buy everything, and his milk powder, calcium tablets and everything are imported.

Not to mention that this is a request from the daughter-in-law, even we think it should be like this, but if we really do it, then spending money is the same as running water.

Now we are still carrying a mortgage!

You know what? Now I sometimes have nightmares when I lose my job, my house is repossessed, and my family becomes a homeless!

It's a cold sweat just to think about!

It's horrible!"

Ermao reluctantly told about his pain, because his family generally relied on his own money to earn money to get married and buy a house, and although his mother-in-law's family was local to Haishi, people had to take care of his brother-in-law first!

Back then, because of the so-called face, I bought a relatively large house, which is still the so-called school district house.

He has face, and now the burden is coming, and the inside is not very easy.

"We're all the same now.

The biggest pain is that I always feel that I don't have enough rest, and it is difficult to balance my career and family. Once you become a mother, a lot of energy will be involved in the child, which can be said to be a sweet burden. ”

casually gave the two classmates a cup of hot tea, Zhao continued to relieve them, no one can avoid this stage problem, take your time!

The good news is that this process is not only painful and stressful, but also a kind of happiness and joy in watching children grow up day by day!

I don't know if it's because of the drinking, the two of them gradually began to relax a lot after listening to Zhao Hong's persuasion, and the smiles on their faces increased.

"Huh...... In fact, I also understand! Even when I feel uncomfortable, I can't find anyone to say!

My daughter-in-law is actually more aggrieved than I am, and the once tsundere girl is now an old mother!

How squeamish it used to be, how sloppy it is now!

She doesn't care about anything, she only thinks about the child all the time, and she doesn't pay attention to what she originally cared about.

Cleanliness doesn't exist!hehe......"

Ermao happily talked about the changes in his daughter-in-law with a smile.

"My daughter-in-law is too. How troublesome it used to be! Every now and then she would call me to check on the post, and from time to time she would complain that I didn't have the love I had for her when I was in love.

Now, don't worry about me at all. Don't talk about checking the post, even if you don't complain, all your thoughts are on the child!

I'm a little jealous sometimes!"

Pengzi also said with a smile.

"Isn't that great? This is home, what happens when you have children.

Isn't that great?"

Zhao Hong responded with a smile.

The two of them glanced at each other helplessly, as if they were discussing who should speak first.

"It's not like I have some ideas, I want to find a project to do by myself, but I don't have that much strength. I was afraid that something would affect the family.

I'd like to consult with you and see if I can do it!"

In the end, it was Peng Zi who said a beginning first.

"Oh, that's a good thing! What kind of support do you need? Don't be embarrassed, old classmate, if you need me, don't be polite!"

Zhao Hong smiled and took the initiative to ask, and poured himself a cup of hot water, although he didn't drink much, but it was more comfortable to drink more hot water.

"It started as a small project that my daughter-in-law and his daughter-in-law worked together, and it has slowly grown a lot!

There is the help of the two of us, but the main thing is still done by them, and now that we have the opportunity to become bigger, we are also ready to go all out to participate, otherwise what will happen when we are older?

Now the age of the company's employees is getting younger and younger, and those like us who are just in their early thirties are already infinitely beautiful, but it's just near dusk!"

"Yes! Some time ago, I wanted to change jobs, went to the talent market, and looked at a few positions to consult.

Who knew that people disliked me for being too old, and I had no future for cultivation or anything special!

It's not good to be a leader at such an age, there is no position, and being an employee is older than the leader's age, and it is not very convenient for them to manage!

When we were young, people hired skilled managers with high salaries, but how did we become like this when we were older?

When you get older, you can't afford it with more work experience?"

"Huh...... , individually, not to. ”

Zhao Hong listened to the worries and experiences of the two old classmates and understood them very well. Even in recent years, the same problem has existed since Zhao Song Group Company.

With the rise of various domestic costs, the company's expansion has decreased a lot, and some projects have even begun to shrink or move to other countries.

But who is to blame for this?

After all, what enterprises pursue is efficiency!

And more and more college graduates continue to enter the talent market, how can it not impact the previous college graduates?

Someone in his thirties......