Zhao Hong hopes that Jack knows that his parents' love for him is an instinct, so don't be bound by too much family baggage, and when it's time to pursue your dreams, travel lightly, worry too much, unnecessary assumptions, will only make you indecisive and have no clear goals for the future.

Just like their parents now, they have been worried about their children all their lives, and they are still worried about their children when they are old, they have no requirements for their children, and their children's lives are the greatest comfort to them.

Besides, no one can predict what will happen in the future, so leave it to the future to plan, and the most important thing now is to do what you should do now, what you want to do, and what you can be happy about.

The reason for saying this is that Jack has begun to grow up, and he already has plans to learn more so that he can inherit and develop the family business in the future, as well as take care of his family. And Zhao Hong knew that this was not what he should have at his age, looking at the relaxed and free youth of others, how could he not be lost?

And now as a father, Zhao Hong naturally hopes that the child will be able to learn and succeed in the next youth, but he hopes that the child will live the most beautiful years of his life! Maybe it's a little greedy, and it's a little contradictory, but isn't this just the parents?

There really is no other thought, as it is said in some articles: all my devotion to my child is out of the instinct of love, I want nothing from him, and I don't need him to repay me. I raised him to make him a person who was proud of his life, and because I raised him, I also made my life more complete in the process. I want him to be completely free, and I don't want him to lose a lot of opportunities to feel the beauty of life because he wants to repay me.

And the meaning of parents is: joy your joy, sadness your sadness, no matter when and where, is the person who cares the most, cares the most, and always opens the door for you.

It is not uncommon to hear parents complaining about how ignorant and disobedient their children are. But they have forgotten that the child has not been given everything by himself? Does he (she) really not want to be smart and sensible? It is easier said than done, and as parents, how much better were they than their children back then?

Of course, there are also some children who complain that their parents can't help more? In fact, they don't understand how parents can do what they can't do.

Parents can't choose their children, stupid or smart, beautiful or ordinary, even healthy or not, no matter what, children are their parents' favorite treasures!

And children also can't choose their parents, rich or poor, wise or ignorant, even love or not, parents are the final destination of the child's lifelong home!

Mutual support and understanding, a lifetime of companionship is really each other's happiness!

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The reason why Zhao Hong wrote this letter to Jack is nothing more than worrying about Jack: one is too big, and the other is too anxious.

Every father has a template for a "good" son in mind.

Jack, who has a superior economic background, can get almost everything he thinks of when he is a teenager, he is smart and has excellent academic performance, and he also gives him a beautiful appearance, has a cheerful personality, has many friends, and has traveled all over the world to see and hear. But none of this means that he will be successful in the future, or happy in life, without the efforts of his youth that is about to begin, all the excitement may gradually dissipate, leaving behind the legend of a once excellent boy......

Spring Breeze is proud, what could have ruined him?

If many people are the most difficult at the beginning, then Jack is the most dangerous in the rising stage after the beginning!

Jack has all the conditions, a good mind, a good appearance, and a superior family economy, these are all things that almost every young person today wants to have. It's just that he was born, his career can go faster and easier with the help of the family platform, and his influence is greater, a good mind can make him comfortable in his studies, and a good appearance can make him easily gain the favor of many girls. And perhaps the biggest concern for his future seems to be the inertia that everyone has.

When Zhao Hong was thinking about Jack's shining experience, he was thinking: Jack has been blooming wonderful since he was a child, and he has continued to do so year after year. Everyone who knows him thinks that he is very smart, and he definitely belongs to a little boy with high emotional intelligence and high IQ. But life experience tells Zhao Hong that when he is so young and gets such a large amount of affirmation, there must be a lot of hidden dangers behind it. Many children from famous families already have all the factors of excellence, but why are there many people who have achieved nothing in their lives? He wants to find the possible reason from the children themselves.

One is to see the bigger side of the world, and the child's heart will become too big, and the other is that he is so young and anxious when he sees his parents succeed.

If the heart is too big, it is inevitable to deceive oneself;

If you are too anxious, you will inevitably make mistakes!

When you are young, you are always in a hurry, and after middle age, you are not in a hurry. The reason is that when you are young, you have a big heart and always want to do a lot of things, but your ability and energy are limited, so you are in a hurry; after you reach middle age, you understand that it is not easy to do a specific thing well, so you can calm down and you are not in a hurry.

"Anxious, because of the weak mind. A very thoughtful friend said.

Young people who want to do big things but can't do it are psychologically weak and naturally anxious. It just so happens that Jack's upbringing, and his language and behavior, are all full of one word: "anxious" - anxious to add color to life, to let his success surpass his father, so that he is no longer just someone's child, but who is his father, eager to succeed, eager to surpass, eager to make his family proud of him. Urgency is the embodiment of the weakling's desire to turn over, but if you are too anxious, you will have to pay the price!

Zhao Hong has always wanted to be a good father, guarding his home in the chaotic world, and keeping the initial happiness and joy.

Time is like a glass of still water, still deep and can still flow deeply. Many people, many things, many longings and longings that have been full of flowers,

It is still flowing slowly in the long river of years, and it is silently backtracking. The world is complicated, time is silent in the end, the so-called obsession may be just illusory, and the so-called arrival is just the end.

Life is endless, and the red dust is endless. Just one trip for one understanding, only one trip for one experience, and so on.

In the long sea of people, who are the passers-by and partners in whose life?

Push open a door called annual rings, and many storms will eventually be imprinted.

And the child is always a figure growing up, switching between yesterday and today. Who will accompany you and follow you all your life without regrets?

In this life, if the child is well, it will always be a sunny day.