People know that they are easy to get drunk when they have something on their minds, but they like to drink when they have something on their minds, and they know that they are more worried when they drink to drown their sorrows, and many times they still pursue a moment of anesthesia and forgetfulness after drunkenness.

Zhao Hong is not such a person, but he understands them very well, and sometimes he is really powerless to change anything. An occasional drunkenness can relax one's mind, and if there is no restraint, it is to indulge oneself. Escapism, trying to forget, putting yourself in a thick shell, acting as if you don't know. Of course, sometimes Zhao Hong also wants to do this, but it has no effect, the more drunk he is, the more clear he is.

The more you escape from reality like this, the more reality makes you unavoidable. Therefore, some of the words that Mr. Lu Xun always remembered Zhao Hong the most: "Face the bleak life" and "Looking at 5,000 years is the history of cannibalism". Always remind yourself that only by being brave and bravely rushing forward, life will always be a journey of not advancing or retreating. Either it becomes a pleasant eater, or the meal becomes a delicious food on the table.

When Zhao Hong was a child, the books he read described that everything in the capitalist society can be measured by money.

In fact, it was only a stage of the development of the market economy, and in the period of rapid economic development, the loss of human nature has changed to a certain extent through self-reflection.

The domestic market economy has just begun, the development of the market economy is beyond imagination, and the ensuing ideological impact is too great, many people have been confused, it seems that anything can be bought with money, high-end houses, excellent education, high-end clothing and services, and even the so-called rental girlfriend, people's hearts are out of balance. The bosses are not ashamed to raise the mistresses, but they are proud, and the juniors are also proud, and they are no longer the street rats that everyone shouts and beats. What's more, I just want to find a boyfriend and girlfriend with good conditions, everyone has become accustomed to it, cars, houses, tickets, seats, face, only love and marriage have begun, if there is, there is no further cultivation. But is that possible? So divorce has become a popular trend again. This is the sad phenomenon of a certain period.

Morality has begun to become a resource of some kind of scarcity.

I don't know, but Zhao Hong still wants to be a good person, a person who is worthy of his heart.

Do what you have to do, do what you can already do, and finally have the energy to do what you like, and the order must not be wrong.

Let's learn, what you should do at the moment, learn to do what you can do at the moment, and it's still a little early to do what you like. The best youth can't all be wasted on some entertainment activities. While you are young, have time, and have energy, work hard.

Zhao Hong started to live in the dormitory again, getting up every morning to exercise first, slowly running a few laps, and then going to play Tai Chi alone, not afraid of their jokes. After exercising, I will help my roommates buy breakfast and bring it back to the dormitory, unite the brothers in the dormitory, and feel the joy of youth friendship.

Take every class on time, take the initiative to preview the content behind, work hard to learn professional knowledge, ask questions if you don't understand, and never fool.

After lunch, take a walk around the campus, enjoy the scenery and various announcements on campus, learn the contents, and understand the purpose and ideas of each other. When you return to the dormitory, you don't participate in recreation, and make sure that you have at least an hour of lunch break every day.

When I don't have classes, I go to the library to look up the economic materials I need to study, look up the latest journals, summarize all kinds of information that may be useful, and analyze and compare them with the experience and vision of later generations to find the information and opportunities contained therein. 10,000 words of reading or analysis every day. A 100,000-word summary again a week. It was difficult at first, but I slowly adapted to this rhythm and slowly increased my accumulation. Sometimes I think of useful information that was once overlooked.

Zhao Hong started his own cultivation mode, except that there was no pressure of the college entrance examination, and he completely took out that kind of spirit to study and exercise hard, and strive to be a better self. Instead of worrying that your girlfriend will leave you because of your disqualification, it is better to work your own from today to make yourself more excellent and perfect, so that she will regret leaving her excellent self, instead of letting her leave if she is not good enough for her own lack of hard work.

After a month of exercise, my physical fitness has improved significantly, I am full of energy, I have not gained much weight, but I have more muscle and less fat. I have more confidence in learning. I have a certain understanding of the knowledge points I need in the future. Self-confidence is more abundant.

Zhao Hong is very satisfied with his changes, he can't be a sad little boy, but strive to be a big man with lofty ambitions and good health.

The brothers in the dormitory were strange at first, Zhao Hongyi explained his thoughts, everyone agreed very much, and also started such a rhythm of life, I wanted to read professional knowledge and English for the graduate school entrance examination, I didn't want to take the graduate school entrance examination, and I also read some books or materials related to the future when I was preparing for work, and Wang Feng was also pulled in by Zhao Hong, and Wang Feng began to study the materials for the civil service examination. Be prepared in advance.

The friends slowly returned to the state of studying hard, no longer playing poker, and gradually began to discuss the future planning, and everyone began to learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses, all of which were beneficial. Occasionally, I also discuss the concept of love, good or bad, different customs in different places, understanding is the mainstay, mutual tolerance is the top, there is no right or wrong, just differences.

Among them, the most discussed is the amount of bride price in various places. Among them, the bride price in S province is the highest, followed by Gan Province, there are about 50,000 yuan, the poorer the bride price, the more patriarchal the bride price, the more the bride price in the southern plain is generally less than 10,000 yuan, and the bride price of Sichuan Sheng is the least.

However, there are also advantages in places where there is a lot of bride price, there are few divorces in rural areas, men generally cannot afford to remarry, and women do not have the ability to work and live independently. In areas with less bride price, women generally earn the same money as men, and even some places where girls are easier to find jobs than boys, just like the region of northern Jiangsu, small factories are generally willing to find some female workers, good management, and good labor performance, so girls in these areas can generally be employed nearby, and boys are generally not easy to find if they are not skilled jobs, and Sichuan Province is the same, girls are hard-working, but they are all looking for men by themselves, there is not much bride price money, but once you find that men are not good or dissatisfied, it is likely to leave you to live independently。

Everyone also discussed their expectations for the future family marriage, some of which were criticized by everyone, and some of which were admired by everyone.

Everyone has improved a little in this discussion, and they understand each other's differences, and they cherish this rare friendship with each other even more.

Youth is like this, not afraid of failure, not afraid of loss, get up and learn again, support each other, you can start from a new beginning, towards a new path and goals.