Walking side by side with me was obviously a hardship for a man of such a withdrawn temperament. —"The Man in the Suit"

Humans themselves are social creatures.

Some scholars in Western countries have even classified 'withdrawn personality and lack of social interaction' as an antisocial personality.

Because this in itself is a manifestation of pathology.

Loneliness is not the same as loneliness.

Lonely people crave people to socialize with people, don't get bored with anyone, and don't even be wary of everyone.

Withdrawn people are a personality defect in that they usually think highly of themselves and appear to look down on others, but they are extremely weak in their hearts and are afraid of being stabbed, so they are reluctant to associate with others.

When they have to socialize with people, withdrawn people can also appear to behave strangely, peculiarly, and contrived, always giving a sense of neuroticism.

They are actually very pitiful, not necessarily antisocial or violent, but they can definitely feel autistic, lost, inferior, nervous, depressed......

The inability to communicate with others makes them more likely to be alone and isolated.

There are not many congenital factors in the formation of withdrawn personality, mainly due to the negative impact of various subjective and objective environments, resulting in a long-term psychological depression and distortion.

For example, if Niannian continues like this, when she goes to elementary school in the future, she is likely to be ostracized by her classmates because she has not learned to communicate with her peers, and will be regarded as an alternative by her classmates.

Isn't it weird enough to talk to a little girl who only chats with cats all day long?

The results of the survey show that about 5% to 8% of children in the group of primary and secondary school students will be withdrawn.

And this is already an extremely exaggerated number.

Out of twenty people, there will be a withdrawn individual.

The class is a collective, but children with withdrawn personalities are never able to integrate into this collective, so that they are more likely to be ridiculed, ridiculed, excluded and blamed by their classmates.

This condition gradually decreases as the child gets older.

But this process, for those poor children with withdrawn personalities, is extremely long.

They will endure all kinds of psychological pressure, but in the end they will only become a stepping stone in the growth process of others.

Years from now, who will remember the freak who was ridiculed and teased in the class?

Who cares, is that freak doing well now?

……

Chen Xi panicked.

After all, there really is no cure for mental illness.

So after thinking about it carefully, he hurriedly discussed with Qin Ruoying: "Why don't you ...... Send Nian Nian to kindergarten?"

Hearing this, Qin Ruoying immediately nodded.

She happened to have that idea too.

Although Qin Ruoying wants to accompany Niannian more, in order to make Niannian have a healthy and happy growth environment, it is better to be cautious.

As long as it involves children, any parent will become extraordinarily worried, even if there is only the slightest possibility, they will extinguish that possibility in time.

The couple reached a consensus, so Chen Xi sat next to the little guy.

"Niannian, can Dad discuss something with you?"

"Huh?"

The little guy was busy watching cartoons, and Chen Xi just blocked her vision when he walked over.

After a chirp, she lay directly on her side on the bed and continued to watch the cartoon.

Seeing this, Chen Xi pretended to be serious and said, "Niannian, Dad is talking to you!"

"Huh?"

The little guy's eyes were full of doubts, and after glancing at Chen Xi, he muttered, "Baba, you're blocking me!"

"Dad is talking to you, you have to pause for a moment, otherwise Dad will be angry." ”

"Oh. ”

Chen Xi obviously still has some weight in the little guy's mind.

Therefore, after hesitating for a moment, she obediently took the remote control and pressed the pause, and then sat up very obediently.

"Baba, you say!"

Seeing that the little guy was so well-behaved, Chen Xi nodded with great satisfaction, then gently hugged her into his arms and asked seriously, "Niannian, do you want to go to kindergarten?"

However, when the little guy heard his question, he didn't even think about it, and immediately shook his little head like a rattle.

"Don't! I don't want to go to kindergarten!"

This was obviously a bit unexpected by Chen Xi, so he hurriedly asked, "Why? Didn't you like kindergarten before?"

Hearing this, the little guy pouted and replied loudly, "I don't like kindergarten!"

Perhaps to show his attitude, the little guy even repeated the shout: "I don't like kindergarten!

She didn't play her cards according to common sense, and she immediately confused Chen Xi.

In the past, she obviously wanted to go by herself, but now she suddenly doesn't want to go again, and this change of hexagram has become too fast......

There was no way, Chen Xi had to persuade patiently: "Nian Nian, the kindergarten is very fun, the teacher teaches you to draw, wears a little red flower for you, and there are classmates who play games with you, why don't you want to go?"

Hearing Chen Xi say this, the little guy exploded instantly.

I don't know why, she suddenly made a mess.

I saw that after she pushed Chen Xi's arm away, she lay on the bed and rolled up from side to side, and kept muttering: "I don't want to go! I don't want to go! I don't like kindergarten!"

Chen Xi was stunned.

When did Nian Nian become like this?

This is simply a bear child!

Could it be that there is really something wrong with his approach to education?

I still remember the moment when he just came back, Nian Nian was obedient, obedient and sensible.

How long has he been thinking about it?

Why did you raise your child like this......

Thinking of this, Chen Xi couldn't help but fall into deep reflection.

Seeing that the little guy was furious, Qin Ruoying also sat beside her.

After gently helping the little guy up, she patiently asked, "Niannian, can you tell us, why don't you want to go to kindergarten?"

After hearing this question, the little guy was stunned for a moment.

But then she burst into tears.

At this time, Qin Ruoying was also panicked, and hurriedly took her into her arms and comforted her softly.

"Don't cry, you don't want to go, and Mom and Dad won't force you, but you have to tell us why you don't want to go, right?"

The little guy cried that was miserable.

Seeing this, Chen Xi hurriedly went to the bathroom and brought her a hot towel.

The husband and wife worked together, and it took a lot of effort to stop the little guy's crying.

After a long while, the little guy sobbed and pursed his mouth, and said very aggrievedly: "I don't want to go to kindergarten, I want to be with Baba Mama......"

Hearing this, Qin Ruoying couldn't help but glance at Chen Xi, and instantly understood the reason.

Poor boy......

used to be raised by Aunt Zhang alone, and her parents have never been by her side.

Therefore, when the little one has Mom and Dad again, she does not want to be separated from them for a moment.

And this is obviously the root cause of her frequent mistakes recently.

Since the children have said so, it is obvious that they will not be able to go to this kindergarten.

Qin Ruoying hugged Nian Nian and thought for a while, and suddenly said to Chen Xi, "Or, let's change the method?"

"How?"

"Look at this cold day, few parents will take their children out to play......"

"I don't want to go to kindergarten, it's definitely not a way to go on like this......"

"Or else......"

"We open a bookstore, or a restaurant, a café, or something like that, so that Niannian can meet a lot of strangers......"

Hearing this, Chen Xi's eyes suddenly lit up.