Chapter 360: The Visitation (Part II)
Yui watched Junsu talk to her father quite well, and her mood became relaxed. Because parents in China, Japan, and South Korea throughout Asia will have headaches because of their children's marriage problems. However, in Japan, there is a little more relaxation than in the other two countries. Maybe it has something to do with Japanese traditions.
This is because Japan has a more serious problem than China and South Korea. That is, if a woman in Japan gets married, they will follow their husband's surname, and they must go to live in the man's house. This feeling is like his daughter has completely become a man's person, and even the surname given by his father will be removed, which feels a bit like that....
Actually, if you think about it, you may think that this is unfair to women, but this is a tradition in Japan. Because most women in Japan will become housewives after marriage, even including many celebrities. After they got married, they automatically became housewives and quit the entertainment industry. Removing one's last name and giving up one's job would seem a bit too much in modern society.
Therefore, Japan's marriage for their daughters is relatively easier than the other two countries, and under normal circumstances, Japanese parents want her to find one that she thinks is suitable. As for the requirement for a man to prepare a 'marriage room', there is no such thing as a "marriage room" in Japan. I don't know if young people are used to renting a house? The same is marriage, which will not work in China or South Korea.
There is also a saying on the Korean side that the man is preparing a 'marriage room', but it is easier than the Chinese side that the Korean woman can accept the man's 'full rent'. However, in Huaxia, if the man does not have a 'marriage room', let alone get married. The minimum requirements for marriage in China, a new house must be available!(I don't know if this is the case in other cities, but the 'marriage room' in my city is the minimum requirement for a woman to get married.) Perhaps my city calls 'marriage' 'selling daughters' more appropriately. )
Yui sat with Junsu and her father for a while, and then went to the kitchen to help, and in less than half an hour, the table was set. Yui said that it was a simple home cooking, but in fact, Yui's family prepared quite a lot of sumptuous seafood sashimi, as well as fish soup, as well as beef and pork, Yui's mother said with a smile, "These are all Okinawan specialties, with Agu pig, Ishigaki beef, sea grapes, and bitter gourd." I don't know if you eat bitter gourd? Yui didn't like bitter gourd since she was a child. ”
Junxiu responded to Yui's mother with a smile: "I ate it, I ate it last time I came to Okinawa, and the slight bitterness is like drinking coffee on weekdays, and I can accept it, and I won't deliberately prefer it." My sister usually says that I am an elementary school student, and I prefer sweet, salty and umami dishes with a larger flavor. ”
"Oh, no wonder Yui asked me to stir-fry pork when I woke up this morning, and the flavor was a little more amplified. Yui's mother smiled at her daughter as she said this, and it seemed that she knew Junxiu's tastes very well.
As a woman, if you really understand a man's tastes, it's almost time to get married, and of course Junxiu and Yui won't get married so early for the time being. As for the premarital cohabitation of the two, Yui's mother is open-minded, she feels that marriage is a lifelong thing, and living together before marriage can learn everything about this man. Suitable, inappropriate, and found out as early as possible after cohabitation.
For Yui's advice to make dishes that favor Junxiu's taste, it's because Japanese tastes are generally lighter, so you have to take care of Junxiu's taste. Of course, because Yui herself has been with Junxiu for a few years, after his 'infection', her taste has gradually changed, and she has become very similar to Junxiu, and her taste is on the larger side.
At the official dinner, Junsu and Yui's family sat together for a sumptuous lunch, and Yui's mother chatted about traveling: "This is the first time that Yui has traveled overseas by herself without any work, she has no travel experience, and the two of you have to take care of each other." By the way, where was your first stop in Europe?"
"The first stop was Rome, Italy, and I felt that the three most important elements of a trip were: beautiful photos, delicious food and people to share it with. Rome has always been a dream city for many, it is also the center of European history and culture, and it is also one of the three largest gastronomic countries in the world. ”
Japanese people don't know why they have a Paris complex, so they prefer to go to Europe to go to Paris, Milan, such a fashionable city, compared to Rome and other historical and romantic capitals have to hesitate. Then Yui's mother said, "I've heard that the security over there is not good, so you have to pay attention to your safety." ”
"Uhhh There's nothing wrong with policing over there. Italy is much better than the United States, but there are a lot of thieves over there, so we just need to pay attention. ”
There are more pickpockets in Europe than you think, so just put your wallet and passport close to you after you pass.
"Then you have to pay attention, I heard that it is troublesome to lose your passport overseas?"
Junxiu nodded and said: "Well, it's okay to lose the money, but it's really troublesome to lose the passport, and then you need to go to the embassy to reapply for it, and it will take fifteen working days to reapply for it quickly, and the waiting time is too long." The most important thing is to affect the mood, I originally planned to travel to many European countries, but I lost my passport, so I can only stay in that one country. ”
"How many countries are you going to go to this time?"
"There are very few countries, just Italy and France, mainly because time does not allow it. I only have a week's vacation here, and I can only spend four days there on the way back and forth, to see Rome, and to see Paris. ”
"Also, it's nice to have a week off in your profession, so you'll have to wait until later. ”
Junxiu nodded and said, "Yes, I also want to go out and see more when I am young." Knowing different countries and different cultures, I think this is what makes our life worthwhile!"
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At the end of the meal, Yui's mother chatted about her travel, perhaps because it was her first time traveling overseas, and she was still a little worried. Fortunately, Yui had a reliable handsome presence by her side, which made her feel a little more at ease.
If it's just Yui going on an overseas trip alone, unless she doesn't say it, she quietly goes abroad. Otherwise, it is estimated that Yui's mother would not agree. After all, she has no experience traveling overseas on her own!