Chapter 584: Meeting After Hearsay (3)
People who don't have money will overemphasize the role of money in marriage, people who don't have a house will emphasize that a house is the premise of marriage, and only people who squeeze the bus every day will pay so much attention to buying a necessary means of transportation for life.
And for the majority of the more affluent people, these so-called wealth, assets, and tools are just things that should be possessed in the course of their careers! There is no need to deliberately pursue them at all, and they buy one when they need it, so what's the problem with this? Why do we need to put it up specifically?
There is only one reason, and that is that they are too poor, or at least not too rich.
Not to mention enjoying life, that is, barely living!
When it was long after the first meeting, the White Lotus finally understood this seemingly simple truth, but the difference caused by the different positions of each person.
Why didn't I hold back and ask that question at that time?
I feel a little blush just thinking about it!
Houses, cars, how can these things that most unmarried men and women are so desperate for so easily, why do they feel so unreal?
According to the calculations of people who are interested, even the current housing prices in Haishi are also the sum of the average income of Haishi for more than ten years! This is still the situation of not eating, drinking, and consuming nothing, but in fact, as long as people live, it is impossible to spend less!
It costs money to eat and drink, it costs money to sleep in the room, and it costs a lot of money to travel!
The bus is cheap, but from time to time there is no hour, even if you catch the bus, you may still not be able to squeeze in!
Not to mention men, even women, no one will be civilized and polite when crowding the bus, and if you can squeeze into the bus, who is not afraid of being late for work?
It's a trivial matter to be late and deduct money, and it would be too unjust if you were fired by your boss!
Coming out early? only earlier and not the earliest, many people think so, but it doesn't have much use.
The friends discussed it together and found out that maybe it's just the air and no money! because it's polluted!
It is said that if it is clean air, it may cost more! It is said that some people are already working on this latest way to get rich.
Housing is not only the ultimate dream of all outsiders, but in fact, how many people living in the local area are not the same as those who are hard to find in a lifetime?
Just like the girls in the neighborhood around her house, it is not a condition to be able to have a small family house as a condition for finding a partner and starting a family, if there is only one boy in the man's family, it is fine, if there are two or more, it is a disaster!
Is it that the whole family can buy it with the help of several families, or how much do you need to bear after marriage and borrow money to buy a house?
So in fact, the girls in Haishi, who seem to be very arrogant in the eyes of foreign boys, are actually not as good as they think!
There are too many family conflicts that occur because of the house problem, so they hope that they can not live with their in-laws after marriage, or simply leave Haishi to go abroad for development.
But how can the facts be as good as they should be! Because of this, it is not uncommon for older leftover women to waste their years!
Just like there are many such girls in her neighborhood!
She has also lived for several years like that, and if she wasn't at home most of the time because of studying, she wouldn't be able to stand it!
So she rarely went home during the day when she was in college, on the one hand, she was busy earning some money for her family outside, and on the other hand, she couldn't stand the strange eyes of her neighbors, and she went home in a hurry in the past few years.
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After a "simple" family dinner, Guo Yi's parents had already started a homely chat with their future daughter-in-law with a smile.
"Lotus, are you usually busy with work?
"Well, I'm very busy, and I still have to worry about the safety of the students. Today's students are all only children, and they are all treasures in the family, and if there is a little wind and grass, parents will be in a hurry. In general, the attitude towards the teacher is very good, but if the student does have something, the teacher will be in big trouble!"
White Lotus lamented the complexity of children's education now.
"Yes, without the company of my siblings, I don't even have a peer at home who can usually communicate. It's not easy for only children!"
Guo Yi's second sister also has a little personal experience, there is only one girl in her family who is less than eight years old, and she is usually lonely and lonely, and her favorite thing is to come to her grandfather's house occasionally, not to mention anything else, at least there are more peers in the family.
"But there are a lot of benefits. Nowadays, many parents of only children have begun to stop not only pursuing good learning, but also know that ensuring the physical and mental health of their children and happy growth is the king!"
White Lotus went on to talk about some new changes for the parents of the students.
"That's because almost all the children in Haishi can be admitted to college, but those who have a good life at work and life are those who are mentally healthy and happy, and simply demanding too much academic performance may bring too much pressure to the children!"
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The family and White Lotus had a very pleasant after-dinner exchange, and they went out together at the urging of Guo Yi's parents.
According to Mr. Guo's statement, "Hurry up and go out to play while you still have the opportunity and the mood, then go! After getting married and having children, who will think of going out to play with so many things at home and abroad?"
Brother Guo Yi happily agreed, took Xiaobai away, and went to enjoy the last two-person world in his life.
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"I'm doing well today! I'll just say, there's nothing wrong with that, you're just thinking too much. I'm bragging, my family is definitely a liberal and democratic family......, right?
As soon as Brother Guo Yi went out, he hurriedly praised himself with his fiancée, with a smug face.
White Lotus was also very happy when she looked at the happy man beside her. He had fought for a lot of benefits for their small family, and he could continue to use her savings and future income to support her parents, and she understood that he was thinking about himself everywhere.
Of course, such a good man will be her life's support, how can she not cherish it?
Along the way, they talked and laughed, the early autumn breeze was blowing, the branches were still green, and the rare good weather made the streets full of people who came out to shop, and there were not a few people like them.
In the cinema, it's the world of young people, and there are no older people like them!
And the people who wander around the park are mostly middle-aged and elderly people who are older than them, and there are basically no children at their age.
Walk around at will, no matter what the situation, they are very happy! A big thing finally has a good result, and a happy life in the future can be expected!
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