Chapter 7 My Youth, I Call the Shots

What is love, these words made me fall into deep thought. Nowadays, we always talk about love, but we don't have a heart, is this really love?

Perhaps, in the eyes of our parents, our generation does not know what love is, what love is, and what true love is. Our generation is too fast-paced, people's hearts are too impetuous, and they will never understand the true meaning of love.

My mind also followed my father's words, I didn't put it on the chessboard, I took a few wrong steps, and my father caught the opportunity. Suddenly, I heard a hearty laugh on my father's lips, "Will." ”

As soon as I saw that the situation was not in my favor, I hurriedly took remedial measures. As a result, every step he took was passive, not only was he pumped by his father's general, but he was also killed. Seeing that the defeat was decided, I admitted defeat and said: "Alas, my chess skills are not as good as Mr. Hu after all." ”

"It's good to know. Dad listened to my compliments and smiled, "One more game." ”

"Not coming. "I don't want to be abused by my dad and refuse to fight him again. At this time, my mother took out the cut watermelon and walked out with a smile, "Come and eat some fruit." ”

I picked up a piece of watermelon and took a bite.

Dad said, "Why don't you hurry up and take out the guy you are eating and show it to your mother." ”

I hurriedly put down the watermelon in my hand, opened the suitcase, took out a document bag, handed it to my mother, and said respectfully: "Teacher Jiang, this is the guy your son eats." ”

The mother carefully took the document bag, as if she was holding millions of porcelain in her hand, and shouted: "It's good, my son is out." ”

My mother opened the file bag and gently took out my graduation certificate, "Our Jiang family has come out and a doctor has come out." ”

I glanced at my father when I listened to my mother's words, and I could tell from my father's expression that his mood must be very heavy.

My dad glanced at my diploma and didn't praise me.

But I said in a daze: "Teacher Jiang, Teacher Hu, in the future, I will rely on this mixed rice to eat." ”

My mother heard me say that this was a tool for mixing rice, and she hurriedly said, "I want to put away such a valuable thing." It's gone, my son has no job. ”

Dad sighed and said, "Look at your little bit of interest." ”

"That's all I have to offer. The mother said again: "What should I do if I put it away." No, I'm going to make a few more copies and stick them on the wall. ”

Dad was not happy when he heard this, and asked, "Why are you sticking it on the wall?" ”

My mother said, "I want everyone to know that there is a doctor in our family." In the future, you don't have to spend money to see a doctor. ”

When I heard this, the whole person was a little confused, and my face was quite embarrassed. Mom's words have made me feel a lot of pressure to be a son! The key is that I can't refute it yet.

The father said, "Aren't you causing trouble for your son?"

The mother said: "I publicized my son, how did I make trouble for my son." ”

Seeing that his mother was a little anxious, his father hurriedly said, "Your son is a doctor and has a chance." These seven aunts and eight aunts, who will be the first person who thinks of people when they are sick. ”

The old mother said proudly: "Of course it's my son!"

"Hospital who opened it. The father said, "Did your son drive it?"

"How could the hospital be opened by my son, you drank too much!"

"I was drunk, but not drunk. The father said, "Think about it, the hospital is not opened by your son." The seven aunts and eight aunts are our relatives, not to mention, the neighbors are sick, and they all go to find your son. Your son helps, or doesn't help. Help, your son suffers. If you don't help, you will offend people again. You promote your son, this is not to add to his work. ”

Mom understands people, and immediately understood the essence of Dad's words, and hurriedly said, "Oops." If you don't say it, I forgot. Now it's a hassle to be hospitalized. ”

"Is that it?" my father took my diploma and handed it to me, "son, you're an adult." The guy who eats, leave it to him for safekeeping. ”

The mother was worried: "What should I do if my son gets rid of the guy who eats." ”

Dad sighed: "The guy who eats can get rid of it, what do you want him to do." ”

My mother took my graduation certificate from my hand, looked at my graduation photo, and asked, "Why is my son wearing a white coat? ”

I said aggrievedly: "Yes, Mr. Jiang, you see that your son is so pitiful, with a graduation photo and a white coat." ”

Dad took a look at it and said with a smile: "Your son's expression is the most attractive among these people. ”

The mother smiled: "That's right, my son is the most handsome." ”

I looked at the second elder blankly, and said in my heart: "Do you know that your son was in a very sad mood at that time. ”

My dad pointed to the photo of my graduation and said, "What kind of bachelor's uniform to wear, it's good to wear white." I think my son is the most handsome in this dress. ”

Mom saw that the music blossomed, nodded and said, "Well, it's very good." The more I look at it, the more I think my son is the most handsome. ”

Dad said, "Who told this kid to inherit your genes?" ”

Mom said sweetly, "That's right." ”

I raised my hand and said, "Teacher Jiang, Teacher Hu, am I still here? ”

Dad said: "I graduated, and I am not young." You, might you consider bringing us a girlfriend back to meet? ”

I was confused: "Isn't this a bit harsh?" ”

Dad said, "Your mother has long wanted to hold her grandson." You've graduated, and you've grown up. We are also young enough to bring you children. ”

I said bitterly, "Mr. Hu, your span is too big. Shouldn't you let me fall in love first? ”

Dad said earnestly, "Can this question be omitted?"

I begged for help: "Teacher Jiang, Teacher Hu is instigating your son to commit serious style problems. You don't take care of it. ”

While peeling the orange peel, my mother said, "Teacher Hu is right. ”

Seeing that my plea for help was fruitless, I said angrily, "Okay, I'll go find one tomorrow and take one out to pack." In this way, is the second elder satisfied?"

When my mother saw me talking nonsense, she hurriedly said, "Look at you, you are pushing your son too quickly, be careful to bring you a grandson who is a few years old." ”

Dad didn't care and said, "It's good if he has this ability." ”

The mother asked, "Son, after graduation, what are your next steps?" ”

I said, "I plan to get a job first and solve my personal food and clothing." ”

My mother asked, "You don't plan to go to graduate school and improve your cultural level." ”

"The matter of the postgraduate entrance examination will be postponed for the time being. I said, "The most important thing now is to earn money to support the family and honor the two elders." I'm already in my twenties, so I can't keep reaching out to the second elder to ask for money!"

Dad said, "Yo, I've grown up." Knowing that it is not easy for parents to earn money, I feel distressed. ”

"That's it. I said in my heart: "Only by being financially independent, can I get out of the control of the second elder." Besides, a young man in his twenties can't support himself, so how shameless it is to talk about it! I also want to experience the hardships of my parents earning money. ”

My mother said, "I support you in whatever you do." ”

I said, "There is only a mother in the world." ”

Mom smiled, "What are your plans now?" ”

"Mr. Jiang, your son plans to contribute to the medical cause in his hometown. ”

Seeing that I was out of business, my father hurriedly said, "Young people should go out and break in, how can they stay in this one-acre and three-point land." Broadening your horizons is more important than anything else. ”

I crossed my legs and said with a smile: "No matter how good the outside world is, it is still not as good as being by the side of the second elder." ”

Dad said, "People go to high places, and water flows to low places." Young people will be motivated only when they are with people who have dreams. ”

I knew what my dad meant, he thought I should stay in this city while I was young. I want to use my youth to go out and break into a world of my own.

It is better to be a soaring eagle in a storm than to sit in a well and watch the sky and be a frog.

Before I could answer, I heard my mother say, "I'm such a son, don't drive him away." ”

I don't want to go out for a while, but I'm a family kid after all. As the saying goes, parents are here, and they don't travel far. Perhaps, my world is not here. But, where I am, it is the world of my parents.

"When children are young, they should go out and see the outside world. ”

"I don't care, my son should stay with me. ”

I hurriedly said, "Teacher Jiang, don't worry! I'll take a few days off and then go looking for a job." ”

When my mother heard this, she hurriedly said, "No, I'll go tomorrow." It's hard to find a job now. I'm relieved that you've found a job. ”

I said, "Mr. Jiang, your son is a graduate of the provincial university and has a guy to eat, and you are still worried that I won't be able to find a job." ”

Dad said, "Be humble." ”

My mother also said: "When you find a job, I feel at ease." I read on the news that college students are under a lot of pressure to find employment. No, you're going to find a job tomorrow. ”

I said to myself: "Teacher Jiang, this is too urgent!"

My father looked at me and asked very seriously, "Can you answer me two questions?"

I muttered, "Mr. Hu, you're so polite." ”

Dad didn't care what I said, and continued, "Now, in the future, have you thought about it?"

I have been looking for the answer to this profound question now, in the future. But every time I was close to the answer, I always denied it. I still remember that I had a career plan when I was in college... Fixed-point, positioning, qualitative. These six words have been bothering me for a long time.

Although I really want to stay in the big city, where there are abundant resources, it is more suitable for me to learn knowledge, and it can also make my path go further and the pattern is bigger. However, I am a person who has no future and want to be closer to home.

After a trade-off, I chose to stay closer to home. As the saying goes, there will be gains and losses, and if you choose, don't be afraid of losing.

Perhaps, now this decision of mine will be a mistake. However, it is also my own choice. Your own youth, make your own decisions, and don't say you regret it. For the future, who will know what it will look like.

My dad seemed to find the answer in my eyes, "You're an adult and can make the right decisions." I also believe that you have made a choice about your future and your present. No matter what the future holds, you now, don't say you regret it. ”

I know that my dad is not interfering with my decision. He was there to tell me that my youth always had to make a lot of decisions. My youth, I call the shots. Youth, don't say regrets, let alone regrets. Now and in the future.