Chapter 82: Privacy
Every couple has their own little secret to get along. Han Sen is no exception.
When she first fell in love with Ning Xian'er, the two bought a rabbit at a stall when they were playing in the playground. It was kept in Ning Xian'er's bedroom. A week later, the little rabbit died. Ning Xian'er was very sad, she was scared, if she didn't buy it back, maybe it would live longer. I don't know how to raise rabbits at all.
Ning Xian'er asked Han Sen to place the little rabbit well and not throw it away. This was a problem for Han Sen. I can't think of any good place to bury the rabbit for a while. It was drizzling in the sky, and Han Sen walked back to the boys' dormitory from Sanli with a cage containing a rabbit. Walking to a plaza clearing, the soil had softened due to the rain.
Han Sen thought to himself, isn't this just a good place? Pull the dirt squeegee apart with your hands and put the bunny inside, then cover it with soil. On rainy days, there are fewer people, and not many people see it. A small episode of youth is quietly going on.
Now it is very popular to reward anchors, and Han Sen does not reward these people who have not seen the truth. Han Sen rewarded Lu Qin'er, which was a little mood between the two. The two started because of the tip, and ended up with the tip.
19-year-old Lu Qin'er likes small surprises, and after 10 days of dating, Han Sen charged her with a 100 yuan phone bill, and Lu Qin'er was very happy. Lu Qin'er likes to buy new clothes, and Han Sen complains while transferring the money spent on buying clothes to Lu Qin'er. Once the two of them are good, Han Sen will give a reward. Han Sen tried his best to meet all the small requirements of Lu Qin'er. There was also a good time when I was in love with a concubine.
He likes the drunken beauties of the chivalrous men of the rivers and lakes, the spring is late, and the broken silver in his bag is scattered, winning the girl's heart.
Han Sen proposed role-playing, and lived an ordinary life full of freehand.
Lu Qin'er said, it's so cheesy, it feels weird.
Han Sen said, this is the role play of the two of us, I play the role of the Jianghu knight, and you play the confidante.
Lu Qin'er said, isn't it strange that I have read too many books, and I am thinking about ** things in my head.
Han Sen said that a good mood is a slight color, not a explicit vulgarity. Men and women love, human nature, not so disgusting.
Lu Qin'er said, I don't like this setting, I want to be the kind of woman who walks the rivers and lakes, not Gillian who is wrapped in you. Like a caged bird, there is no spirituality.
Han Sen said, you are still young, you don't understand, this is called contrast stimulation. Let a pure woman play the role of Hongchen Beauty Niang, it will be more charming, because outsiders see your purity, and I can enjoy your charm exclusively. Isn't it something special?
He has a tacit understanding with Lu Qin'er, he likes to spend your money and likes to give you money. A little secret exclusive to Han Sen and Lu Qin'er, you are my exclusive beauty, and I am your exclusive son. If you talk about listening to outsiders, it will change the taste.
In the past, when I was with Ning Xian'er, because of my lack of experience and shallow knowledge, most of the time the two got along with each other in the original groping stage. When he arrived at Lu Qin'er, Han Sen became more sophisticated. Know how to add interest to life and judge the girl's mind.
Lu Qin'er was also very cooperative with Han Sen, and the love of the two of them was quite harmonious at the beginning. Many of Han Sen's suggestions also made Lu Qin'er feel very fresh. But after a long time, Lu Qin'er began to get a little tired.
Because Han Sen was in too much of a hurry, he always started having sex without any prelude. This made the immature Lu Qin'er unacceptable, she still liked the kind of joy that was slow, step-by-step, and with lines, rather than routine possession.
Once the two of them are familiar with each other's bodies, it is easy to suddenly feel bored at some point.
Men are always the ones who are more likely to get tired, while women are better on the contrary, although the feeling comes slowly, but the further you go, the more you ask, these are two completely opposite curves.
It's the same with Ning Xian'er, and it's the same with Lu Qin'er. Because it was only a short-term dewy relationship, Li Shan'er did not come to the point of sharing the same bed for many years, so she didn't have time to get bored. But even if the two really get married, it is inevitable that there will be such a show. People can deceive others, but they can't deceive their own bodies.
Liking the new and hating the old is liking the new and hating the old, which is an understandable instinctive physiological reaction, but once the two are together, they have more responsibilities, and they are not blindly based on enjoyment.
Affection, love, sex, heart, and lust are often entangled. Affection is not necessarily sexual, sex is not necessarily love, desire is not necessarily affection, heart is not necessarily sex, love is not necessarily desire.
Many boyfriends and girlfriends sleep together every day, but the two can't think of going together, one wants to continue sleeping like this, and the other has secretly slipped into someone else's arms.
Many couples have already had children, and the relationship is beginning to calm down, one may want to create some romantic excitement, and the other is already physically and mentally exhausted.
A lot of cheating starts with freshness, and then slowly begins to alienate, and when the meat in mind can be enjoyed every day, it is not called stealing, it is called use. Without that veil of mystery, it is just a physical indulgence, no different from the original life.
Many feelings that can't be asked for, after years of waiting, finally look like a stick, untie their clothes, or the flesh is not immortal. It turns out that the fantastic feeling of fantasy is just hot-headedness, and not being able to catch up with each other is just continuous heat. If it's really better, the fever will go away.
Lu Qin'er will never play this kind of role-playing very much Han Sen anymore, she no longer wants to accept this man's reward, because she doesn't have that sense of novelty, instead of a sense of strangeness.
Lu Qin'er once hugged Han Sen and said, I only use your money, and I don't want other people's money to give me. This is one of the few love words in the ordinary life of the two.
Han Sen once thought that Lu Qin'er liked to buy clothes too much and like to spend money too much, but in fact, Lu Qin'er didn't spend much money, she just used her salary to dress herself up beautifully. There are no exaggerated spending.
If you want to say it, it is that Han Sen himself is too narrow-minded, he is still stuck in the thinking of the time when he fell in love with Ning Xian'er, thinking about being full of love and drinking water, rolling the sheets, talking about love, not buying clothes, eating, drinking and having fun.
If it's not the same person, you can't force the other party to follow your own at all. Lu Qiner likes the feeling of shopping, the fun of shopping, and the novelty of travel. She is not Ning Xian'er, not the canary who is willing to be locked in a cage. She wants to have her own world.
And Han Sen has always treated Lu Qin'er as Ning Xian'er, so in the end, he lost very badly. Times have changed, Han Sen's feelings are still stuck ten years ago, can he not fail?
At this moment, another of his loves died. His feelings were lost in time. All he could do was quietly bury the other rabbit, the time when it was alive and kicking. Today, there is no wind or rain, and people move forward alone.