Chapter 40: Contradictions
Han Sen doesn't have many hobbies, reading, watching movies, watching today's headlines, driving, and sleeping lazy. He also wanted to learn smoking, drinking, and playing cards, but he didn't learn well, so he gave up later, and it was difficult to force himself on things he didn't like.
Many people learn to drive first easy and then difficult, and Han Sen is difficult first and then easy. The road from Yichang to Lu Qin'er's house (a village near the Three Gorges Dam) is Han Sen's advanced road.
After Han Sen basically mastered the driving skills, he broke up with Lu Qin'er. The world is so ironic, when one thing slowly gets better, other things gradually deteriorate.
The first time he went, Han Sen made a lot of mistakes, on the Three Gorges Expressway, he braked every corner, in fact, many corners on the highway as long as he was not driving at high speed, he could pass by adjusting the steering wheel.
Lu Qin'er's home is in the winding mountains, and Han Sen doesn't control the distance between cars well, so he lets Lu Qin'er watch the road distance on the side, and the whole person is extremely nervous.
It was because of driving that Han Sen and Lu Qin'er had many new contradictions, at first Han Sen needed Lu Qin'er to help confirm the spacing, but after getting a little familiar, Lu Qin'er was still helping Han Sen confirm many things in detail, which made Han Sen feel very annoyed.
Just after a week, Lu Qin'er's best friend asked Han Sen to drive her to the airport through Lu Qin'er, but Han Sen refused directly without being sure.
Once after parking the car in Han Sen in the community, because Lu Qin'er was sitting in the back row, he asked Lu Qin'er to get off on the left side, because the right side was about to stick to the wall, Lu Qin'er didn't think much about it and got off from the right side.
This made Han Sen not angry, and couldn't help but yell at Lu Qin'er, Lu Qin'er hid in the quilt and cried, Han Sen also knew that he was wrong, his temper was too impatient, and he kept apologizing to Lu Qin'er.
However, some scars cannot be repaired, and a mistake is a mistake, and a mistake will pay a price.
Han Sen didn't expect that having a car would have to adapt to more new problems, and it was not as simple as the two of them walking around the night market, taking a bus, and taking a taxi.
Han Sen bought the car in March, and Lu Qiner decided to go to Wenzhou to work in July.
Han Sen even thought about whether Lu Qin'er's departure from him would be delayed for a few months if he didn't buy a car.
But at least tell Han Sen the fact that having a car and a house can't keep the girl he likes, and getting along with each other will eventually return to the essence of going to the heart.
Han Sen admitted that after buying a car, he always wanted to practice his driving skills, and it would be more convenient to go to Lu Qin'er's house, ignoring Lu Qin'er's feelings, which made the already fragile relationship between the two come to an end directly.
In December 2015, Han Sen was opened in front of a hospital, scratching a long mark on the car and breaking the corners of the headlights.
However, Han Sen's mobile phone ran out of battery, and he used the other party's mobile phone to call 122, while waiting for the traffic police, Han Sen discussed with the other party that he wanted to go home and get the charger, and the other party said that you should buy a charger nearby.
Han Sen said, "My home is nearby, and I will be able to come back soon." I'll leave the car here, and I'll come right over.
When Han Sen came back with the charger, the other party's car had already driven away, so Han Sen made a phone call while charging in the car, and the traffic police said that the other party had withdrawn the report.
Han Sen was anxious, and called the insurance again, and the insurance said that the other party was fully responsible for opening the door.
Han Sen contacted the other party through the mobile phone number provided by the traffic police, and the other party said, "Why don't we fix it ourselves."
Han Sen said, the car damage on my side is more serious, so let's go through the insurance process. The other party said that you didn't honk the horn just now, and there is also a certain responsibility.
Han Sen said, I have already asked for insurance, and the car door is fully responsible. The other party said, I'm having dinner, I'll contact you later.
Han Sen said, okay, I have a dash cam, and I'll send it to you later. After 5 minutes, Han Sen received a call from the other party, hoping to judge everyone equally responsible.
Han Sen said, it's okay, I just want to solve it as soon as possible. As long as I have insurance coverage for my car damage. So the two went to the traffic police brigade to determine the responsibility, find insurance and make a claim.
Since it was the first time Han Sen had dealt with car damage, he was in a hurry throughout the whole process, and he only hoped that his car would be repaired as soon as possible.
He didn't regret agreeing to the other party's equal responsibility, because the car was a woman holding a child in the open door, so it was difficult to pay attention to it very carefully, and it was understandable.
However, the owner of the car did not say a slightly comforting word to Han Sen during the whole process, as if he was afraid that he would show his cowardice if he said a good word, so that the other party would seize the handle.
This made Han Sen still quite uncomfortable in his heart, he gave in, but the other party took it for granted.
Han Sen understands this phenomenon very well, people like him are treated as fools at the moment, and everyone else uses all reasonable rules to fight for their own interests, of course, there is nothing wrong with this, but it is just a lack of conscience and kindness.
Indifferent elites abound all around us, and even Han Sen himself would become such a person at some point.
It wasn't until September 2017 that the block in Han Sen's heart was removed, because the same thing happened to him.
Han Sen was going to take Lin Rouer to buy clothes, and took Lu Yu and Han Yuqing to CBD by the way.
Han Sen parked his car on CBD Central Street, there were a lot of pedestrians around, and the traffic flow was also large, when Lu Yu opened the door from the back seat, he couldn't pay attention to the car coming from behind because he was holding his granddaughter Han Yuqing, and a motorcycle almost crashed into it, and Han Sen was scared into a cold sweat.
apologized to each other again and again, and the other party's carefulness helped the two families.
Han Sen directly thought of the situation in 2015 when someone scratched the door of the car, and it was exactly the same.
If Han Sen had handled things with a reasonable and unforgiving attitude at that time, it was hard to guarantee that what Han Sen encountered this time would not be the other party's unforgiving attitude towards him.
really responded to that sentence, everything people do is done for themselves, even if it seems to be done for the other party at first, in the end, after a big turn, they still fall into the benefits.