"A saint has a cloud, and he cannot be presumptuous. Mao Xiaoyu ignored what I said, and said seriously, "It's not terrible to lose." The terrible thing is that I don't even have the courage to fight. ”

Seeing that he didn't understand what I was saying, I raised my voice and said, "You tell me what to fight for." Now I have what qualifications to fight. ”

He exclaimed, "If you're a man, you can fight." ”

"You're right, I'm a man and I should fight. But, you also saw the scene just now. What's the point of me fighting? I shouted out uncontrollably, "I can lose, but I can't lose the dignity and backbone of a man." I am a loser, a complete loser. ”

"How are you a loser. ”

"He's an internist, and what am I. I'm just a nice-to-haves in radiology. What I have to fight with him, and what I have to fight with him. People, I can lose, but I must not lose my dignity and backbone. ”

Mao Xiaoyu looked at me with surprised eyes. He couldn't seem to believe that I would speak loudly with anger.

At this moment, my worries at work are like a volcanic eruption. I don't know how my emotions can get out of control. I didn't know that I would say something like that.

said that the youth is good, how can it become like this.

After I vented, my mood calmed down a lot. I also know that I shouldn't infect him with my bad feelings.

I lowered my tone and said, "I'd rather leave in style than humbly ask why." There are some things that you can understand if you understand them. There is no need for results, let alone answers. ”

"You're right. Mao Xiaoyu took a breath, and said faster and faster, "Some things don't need results, they don't need answers." I'm a total loser, just like you. You say I've been graduating for so many years. What to want, what not to have. ”

"You're better than me, at least you have your own love. ”

"Love? I hope it's love. Didn't you notice something wrong with me and her? ”

I said, "Aren't you all right?"

Mao Xiaoyu's eyes were a little gloomy and said, "Last week, I went to see her parents. ”

I said, "Ugly son-in-law, sooner or later I will see my mother-in-law." ”

He smiled wryly, "I met her in college. I've always had a soft spot for her. I thought that we had gone through a lot of hardships and achieved positive results. But I failed again. I'm not like you, I'm a loser. ”

"If, I'm not because of her. As a seven-foot man, how could I stay in the obstetrics and gynecology department? You can look up to the sky and roar and leave in style. And I'm always not having the courage. Whenever I wanted to leave and saw her, I surrendered completely. ”

I saw that he was sad, and he must have encountered a problem on the road of love. But, comforting things, I'm not good at. All I can do is be a listener.

"If I hadn't met her, I could have lived with the loneliness," he said. Over the years, I haven't waited for her, it's just hard to like others. Several times, ready to put it down. When I saw her, I was beaten back to her original form. ”

"Life is short, and it is not easy to meet someone you like. I said, "If you have grabbed your hand, why let it go so easily." ”

"Now I don't have anything. He took a breath and said sadly, "Her mother wants me to buy a house, a car, and a generous bride price." What do you think I can do? Her mother asked me what I could do to give her daughter happiness. Brother, what do you say I will give her happiness? ”

I said, "You can spend the rest of your life giving her happiness." ”

His laughter was cold, "I think so too." But can you be happy without the bread of love?"

So, you have a retreat in your heart and want to give up this relationship. "When I heard that, I always felt a bad feeling.

"What can I do if I don't give up. ”

"You have won the war of resistance, how can you easily say that you have given up. ”

"You think I want to give up! Now I have nothing, what do you want me to do. ”

"It's not easy for parents to raise a daughter. Their words mean nothing else, they just want their daughters to live well. You don't think too much about it. ”

"Do you think I can't think too much? I'm a man. I don't have money, I don't have a car, I don't have a house, I will only be looked down upon by women. Love without bread can also become fragmented. In the end, he was ruthlessly abandoned by a woman. ”

"So, you guys quarreled. ”

He nodded, sort of an answer.

When I watched Mao Xiaoyu say these words, I was really sad. Could it be that without bread of love, the happiness index will be too low.

Having money, a house, and a car, is this really a dangerous hurdle to cross love?

I still remember my dad telling me that when my grandfather married my grandmother, he used half a bucket of rice. My father married my mother and used half a cow. Why, when it was time for us to marry a daughter-in-law, we asked for half the life of our parents.

Is it that people's hearts are changing too fast, or are we being changed by this impetuous society? Or rather, I didn't meet the right person.

He said, "What do you say I'm going to do." ”

I asked, "What did she say?"

He said, "My parents raised her so big, and marrying me was cheaper for me." Her mom didn't ask too much of me, not too much. If this requirement cannot be met, she will not be happy if she follows me. ”

I asked, "What did you say?"

"We need to calm down," he said. ”

"So, you plan to let this love come to an end. ”

He said, "Sort of!"

I said, "You're so stupid. ”

"How stupid am I. ”

"What kind of love was like for our parents' generation, we don't know. However, our parents know a lot about the love of our generation. ”

"Big brother, I'm a victim. ”

"Listen to me. I saw that his mood was too volatile, and I said, "What's wrong with my mother-in-law asking us for money, a house, a car, and a bride price." ”

"What's wrong?"

"They just want their daughter to have a better life. Is there something wrong?" I saw that he did not speak, and said: "As far as parents are concerned, our generation does not understand love at all, let alone what love is. For them, what can be seen is what makes people feel at ease and real. ”

He said, "I don't have a car, a house, or money." They are real, relieved. In order to give them peace of mind and truthfulness, I asked my parents to give half their lives? ”

"How is Ji Xiaoyu a person. I don't have to say, you know. Your mother-in-law was able to raise such a good daughter. Could it be that your mother-in-law is a greedy person for money? ”

"But—" He thought for a moment, but said nothing to meet.

"Not bad. Now this society is very complex and materialistic. There are even more people who regard their daughters, not daughters, as cash cows. However, I believe that there are still more parents who hope that their daughters will find a good home. ”

"Is that so?"

"Isn't it?" I said, "our generation is no longer the underfed and underclothed people of our parents' generation. What is missing in our generation is love and affection. Even if you reluctantly get married, you have no feelings, and you will be separated. Why do many people say that there are too many negative men and thin lovers. It's so hard to find a good man or a good woman. ”

"Why?"

"Can a marriage without distraction be happy?"

"What does this have to do with what my mother-in-law said? ”

"They all say I'm stupid, why are you stupider than me. Think about it, what Ji Xiaoyu usually does to you. ”

"She didn't ask anything too much of me. ”

"What kind of people will Ji Xiaoyu's parents be?"

"Why would her mother say those hurtful words? ”

"You're smarter than me, don't you understand? ”

"You mean to say that my mother-in-law is here to test me. See if I have a man's responsibility. But, I..."

"Your mother-in-law is really the kind of person who treats her daughter as a cash cow. She can just keep you out the door. She can also use her mother's identity to threaten Ji Xiaoyu and break you up directly. ”

"He made these demands to humiliate me and make me retreat," he said. ”

"Wrong. I said, "She's here to see if you're responsible and self-motivated." ”

"Is that so?"

I nodded and said, "A man who is not responsible and motivated, who would want to marry his daughter to you." Would you marry your daughter to someone like that?"

"No, it won't. ”

"Is this over?" I said bitterly, "young man, be calm in trouble, and don't think that your mother-in-law is a heinous sinner at every turn. Love without bread is not secure, but you have to find bread. Preferably, there is someone who is willing to go with you to find bread. Such love and marriage will be strong. ”

"But I already said those things to her. ”

"You stupid! I don't know, call. ”

He pulled out his phone and asked, "What did I call for?" ”

"You've never eaten pork, you've never seen a pig run. I said, "You can ask her if she would like to fight with you to find the bread that fills your love." ”

He said, "Well, I'll ask." ”

I said, "It's not sincere." ”

"You mean you want me to go to her and say it to her face. ”

"You don't even dare to face this little thing, what use do you want. ”

"Just go. Mao Xiaoyu said, "You go with me." ”

"Shall I go with you?"

"Don't you want to testify that we are happy when we are. ”

"I don't want to be abused. ”

"You've been abused less often, and for the sake of my happiness, you're going to be abused again. ”

"Do you have such a friend?"

"I'm lucky to know you. ”

"Don't say it, it's a headache. I reluctantly said, "I'll go." ”

Mao Xiaoyu and I stopped a taxi and took a taxi to the community where Ji Xiaoyu lived.

Mao Xiaoyu made a phone call at the bottom of the community, while I stood in a dark corner.

It didn't take long for Ji Xiaoyu to come out and say in a somewhat unwelcoming tone, "What are you going to do." ”

"Xiaoyu, I'm sorry. I shouldn't have said anything like that, please forgive me. ”

"Are you willing to buy a house, buy a car, give a bride price, and marry me?"

"I do. Mao Xiaoyu said, "I have no money, no house, no car, no bride price." There is no bread in our marriage. Will you go with me in search of a marriage with bread?"

"I do. ”

Mao Xiaoyu stepped forward and knelt in front of Ji Xiaoyu, took out a ring woven with flowers and plants, and proposed, "Marry me." ”

People passing by stopped to watch when they saw someone proposing. Seeing that Ji Xiaoyu didn't speak, they were even more nervous than Mao Xiaoyu, and urged in unison: "Marry him." ”

Ji Xiaoyu nodded when he saw that he was embarrassed.

Mao Xiaoyu excitedly put the ring on her hand and got up to hug her. When I saw that they were reconciled, I thought to myself that nothing had happened to me. I whispered out of the dark corner.

But, I don't know, you have to swipe your card to enter and exit this community.

I was mistaken for a thief by the doorman and stopped. I explained to the doorman to no avail, so I had to take out my mobile phone, "Don't show affection, don't come to pick me up." ”

Not long after, Mao Xiaoyu and Ji Xiaoyu joined hands and came in a panic. They laughed heartily when they saw that I was being mistaken for a thief by the doorman.

I scolded, "There is no humanity of the opposite sex." If it weren't for you, I'd be taken for a thief. ”

Ji Xiaoyu smiled, "I hope you are a thief." ”

I snorted coldly and said, "I'm sorry. I am a person with a higher education and an ID card. ”

Ji Xiaoyu said disgustedly, "You are so capable, why don't you steal other people's hearts." ”

"What did you say?"

Ji Xiaoyu said, "If I were you, I would be a thief who stole my heart." ”