Chapter 33 Pattern
Han Sen was one of the few people who completely resisted Chinese-style dinners. All the dinners, not to exchange true feelings, Han Sen is responsible for eating from beginning to end, listening to others blowing water and chatting, drinking and talking, drunk like mud, drunk and dreaming to death.
Han Sen couldn't understand why a bunch of unfamiliar people were fighting for acting skills together, and they were saying extremely hypocritical lines. It is even more vulgar to add those who persuade alcohol.
If you really love to drink, it's understandable, if you don't like to drink and force it to drink, then it's more of a jerk.
Perhaps some people start out as a refusal, but are slowly assimilated, and eventually become people who persuade others to drink.
However, Han Sen insisted on his principles, he had always belonged to the people who did not accept persuasion to drink, he felt that he was already at the bottom enough, why should he be pressed lower by strangers. Besides, he didn't ask for anything, so he had the confidence to refuse.
Combing through all the dinners he has attended, Han Sen has an impression that he keeps eating without any waves.
Han Sen does not have the social demeanor of his father Han Kun at all, Han Kun is tall and burly, with a voice like a bell, and he is the big husband at the wine table.
Han Kun has a wide range of friends, and he is even more arrogant when he drinks wine, and wine has become a footnote to Han Kun's life.
Han Sen's memory of his father was a white undershirt, because his father was relatively fat, so he always sweated every summer, and the white undershirt was attached to his back.
Han Kun turned out to be a carpenter, and later Lu Yu came to Yichang alone to set up a stall, and Han Kun came over without worry.
For decades, Han Kun and Lu Yu have always had a clear division of labor and close cooperation, Lu Yu is mainly responsible for purchasing and selling underwear in the store, and Han Kun is responsible for decorating the store, cooking on the fire, and taking care of the family's diet and daily life.
Han Kun has a strong and irritable temperament, while Lu Yu is gentle and considerate, and the two often quarrel over trivial matters, but rarely quarrel in front of children.
The love story of the 80s was more sacrificial and forbearant for the whole family. Seeing his grandfather teasing his grandson at a banquet reminded him of his father Han Kun, if Han Kun was still alive, he would especially treasure his granddaughter Han Yuqing.
Life often has one or another flaw. Han Kun died 4 months before Han Yuqing was born, and Han Sen's grandmother Chen Zhi died a month before Han Sen's marriage.
Han Sen didn't know why his father was always full of confidence in himself, and Han Sen himself felt that he had always been mediocre.
Although he was admitted to Hanyang No. 1 Middle School, a key high school, in high school, he has been going downhill since then, and he has been playing for four years in college, and he has achieved nothing in society, even in the 6 years since his father's death, he has not staged a counterattack.
Gradually, Han Sen began to doubt his father's judgment of himself, maybe it was a kind of primitive and unreserved love from his father.
Han Sen also wants to prove that he can succeed and add glory to the family, but reality is reality, he has never succeeded, it can be said that he is a failure.
Han Sen thanked his father for his encouragement, which allowed him to get back on his feet and face new challenges after repeated failures.
Perhaps believing that a person will succeed does not mean that he must succeed, but he must never be defeated by failure.
After a long time, Han Sen gradually accepted the fact that he was the most ordinary ordinary person, no longer struggled, and looked at his life more peacefully.
What he wants now is to do his own small business, support his family, and be able to lie comfortably on the sofa and watch TV when he comes home.
Just when Han Sen was deep in the quagmire of blind date, Lin Rouer walked into Han Sen's life.
People especially need companionship when they are most lonely, and there are many kinds of companionship, some are time companionship, some are physical companionship, and some are soul companionship.
Companionship is also a very magical thing, one person's world is particularly empty, but the world of two people can be full, feel fulfilling, and lively.
Once back on the normal track of life, Han Sen is no longer confused.
Fate is a very delicate thing, you don't come when you believe, and when you don't believe, it comes. And it's not early, it's not too late, the timing is just right, if you come early, you don't cherish it, and if you come late, you have to miss it.
Lin Rouer was an extremely insecure girl, and Han Sen suffered a lot when she first started dating.
Because he didn't know the character the best when he first met, there were often many misunderstandings, Han Sen felt that Lin Rouer was unreasonable, and Lin Rouer felt that Han Sen was inattentive.
The two of them quarreled every once in a while, it didn't seem appropriate at all, it was a mistake to be together, and Han Sen was exhausted during this time.
The run-in period is always the most difficult, and the slightest carelessness will be wasted.
However, Han Sen had a firm belief in his heart, as long as he was unwavering, he would always be able to keep the clouds open and see the moon.
It turned out that Han Sen did it, and Lin Rouer was also moved by Han Sen's sincerity.
The reason why Han Sen was so patient with Lin Rou'er was because Lin Rou'er appeared in Han Sen's most difficult moment in her life, and she didn't dislike her ordinary conditions, and Han Sen was grateful to her.
In addition, he had quarreled with Lu Qin'er and Zhang Min'er before, and his shortcomings were exposed, if he still quarreled with Lin Rou'er seriously, then Han Sen would be a big fool.
Han Sen once joked to Lin Rou'er, you have to thank Lu Qin'er and Zhang Min'er, if it weren't for them, the two of us might not be able to be together.
Lin Rouer said, I always have a question I want to ask you, why does your girlfriend have a child's character?
Han Sen said that it may be true or false, as long as it is convenient to call it, calling Lu Qin'er is almost the same as calling Lu Qinqin.