166 Tian Tian
Morning, eleven twenty.
After breakfast, when the mother and daughter came to the teahouse, Chen Xi had already played Go with Gu Lao, and the brothers also piled up building blocks in the children's paradise.
As soon as Qin Ruoying put down the little guy here, she ran over and greeted the brothers with a big laugh.
I haven't seen each other for a day, but the three little things are like old friends who have not been seen for a long time.
After happily greeting the little one, her brother immediately yelled at her to come in, and they were working on how to build Transformers out of blocks.
When the little one saw this, he immediately took off his shoes, threw himself on the mat, and then crawled to the brothers.
Because of yesterday's experience, the little one is proud today.
After a few moments, she asked the brothers to guess where they had been yesterday.
The brothers are in a similar situation to her, their parents are not around all year round, so they rarely go outside to play.
Hearing the little guy boast about his experience yesterday, the two brothers immediately opened their mouths very cooperatively, with envious expressions on their faces.
"It's a lot more than here!"
"Dinosaurs, sand, mazes, seesaws, and so many children!"
"Everything! I'll take you there!"
In the end, the little guy didn't forget to pat his chest and promise that he would definitely call the brothers all the way in the future, which immediately attracted the two of them to agree.
She was showing off unscrupulously, but Qin Ruoying on the side shook her head when she heard it.
As long as a child has something interesting and novel, he can't help but show it off.
It's human nature.
Nian Nian didn't have many toys before, so the brothers' toys made her very envious.
When she has toys that others don't have, she will naturally take them out to gain the envy and recognition of others.
At this time, toys have lost the meaning of the toys themselves, but have become a tool for comparison, showing off, and not admitting defeat.
As a result, parents often see their children arguing over toys and comparing who has more toys and who has more toys.
Everyone wants to be excellent, and a healthy competitive and competitive mentality can promote the all-round and healthy development of children and make them better.
However, you can't be too competitive or have no direction, and if you go in the wrong direction, it will backfire.
If parents don't guide them in the right way, competitiveness is likely to turn into vanity.
Vanity is a character flaw caused by the excessive pursuit of false appearances, and it is also a distorted self-esteem.
Even adults can't escape the clutches of vanity, let alone children?
Qin Ruoying was sitting at the bar, thinking about how to establish good values for the little guy, but the door of the teahouse was suddenly pushed open.
The person who came was a mother and daughter.
The woman is about thirty years old, and she is dressed very gracefully and luxuriously.
And the most striking thing is the little girl next to her.
The little girl looked only a year or two older than Nian Nian.
At a young age, he wore a DIOR fur that cost tens of thousands of dollars, and carried a Balenciaga satchel in his hand.
Just this dress, you have to start at least 100,000.
Children grow fast, and many of the clothes they bought this year can't be worn next year.
Therefore, when this winter is over and comes back next winter, it is estimated that 100,000 yuan will have to be lost.
It's really rich and capricious.
The woman stood at the door and looked at the layout of the teahouse, and found that there were only Chen Xi and Gu Lao here, so she walked into the teahouse with her daughter.
Because Chen Xi and Gu Lao sat on the right side of the entrance, the woman sat directly on the left side.
It's a guest.
Chen Xi and Gu Lao were playing chess, so Qin Ruoying walked out from behind the bar, came directly to the woman and asked, "Hello, do you need something to drink?"
The woman took off her coat and motioned for the child to sit inside.
After hearing Qin Ruoying's words, she picked up the price list on the table and looked at it.
"Wuyi big red robe?"
The woman looked at the price list, and immediately couldn't help but mutter, but the tone was a little like complaining.
Although her voice was small, she was heard word by word by Qin Ruoying, who was standing aside.
Qin Ruoying didn't react, and Quan Dang didn't hear it.
The woman thought about it.
After putting the price list back on the table, she said a little helplessly: "Biluochun." ”
"Okay, wait a minute. ”
Qin Ruoying turned around and went to make tea for her.
At this time, the little girl brought by the woman noticed the children's playground in the corner.
When she saw the three little ones inside, she immediately raised her head and said to the woman with a little excitement, "Mommy, can I go over and play?"
After saying that, the girl also pointed to the children's paradise.
The woman had already heard the movement over there, and after thinking about it, she said to the girl, "Be good, don't go." You don't even know them, what if they bully you?"
Hearing this, the little girl immediately pursed her mouth, looking unhappy.
Seeing this, the woman hurriedly took the child into her arms and comforted: "We're going home after sitting for a while, Mommy will play with you, okay?"
"Not good!"
The little girl shook her head, immediately turned her head out of the window, and put on a posture that she didn't want to talk to you.
The woman couldn't help it, so she turned her head and glanced at the children's paradise again, and then said to the girl: "Then you go play......
"Good!"
Hearing her mother's consent, the little girl immediately happily climbed over her lap and ran to the children's playground.
The woman wanted to say something, but looking at her daughter's excited appearance, she had to let her pass.
At this time, Qin Ruoying came over with a teacup and a kettle.
After she put down the teacup and kettle, the woman said to Qin Ruoying, "The child wants to play with them...... It's out of the way, right?"
"Don't get in the way, kids, the more people there are, the more lively they are. ”
Qin Ruoying replied with a smile, and then turned around and returned to the bar.
The woman seemed to be a little uneasy.
After thinking for a while, she picked up her coat and sat down with a teacup to the nearest booth to the children's paradise.
The little girl came to the fence and glanced at the three little ones who were lying on the ground piling up blocks, and then asked with some trepidation, "Can I play with you?"
Hearing this, Nian Nian immediately raised his head and grinned, "Okay! But you have to take off your shoes before you can come in!"
"Good!"
After receiving Niannian's approval, the girl immediately took off her shoes and walked in.
But when she came in, she found that she could not find a place to sit.
The three little ones are centered on the building block castle, and one sits in one direction.
The brothers were lying on the ground, their buttocks were so high that they occupied a lot of terrain and couldn't squeeze in at all.
Seeing this, the little guy immediately patted the brothers and motioned for them to give up their seats.
"You give way, there's no place!"
The brothers were studying how to arrange the castle's gates.
Hearing the little guy say this, they finally came to their senses and hurriedly squeezed out a place to give up to the girl.
As soon as the girl sat down, the little one, as the host, took out a pile of blocks from behind her and placed them in front of her.
"My name is Chen Nian, you can call me Nian Nian!"
The girl looked at the building blocks in front of her, hesitated for a moment, and then smiled sweetly: "My name is Tian Tian!"