Chapter Twenty-Six: Elders
Han Sen's grandmother, Chen Zhi, was a woman with a strong personality and had seven children.
When Han Sen grew up, he realized that he was a left-behind child, his parents had been doing business in Yichang, and Han Sen's three siblings had been taken care of by their grandmother since they were in elementary school until high school.
Because of his young age, Han Sen always misunderstands the words of many adults, such as Lu Yu saying that Chen Zhi is not careful enough to take care of his grandson and always likes to play cards.
was misinterpreted by Han Sen as his grandmother was a bad person. The ten-year-old kid learned to engage in confrontation, and deep down classified Chen Zhi as a hostile force.
When he grew up, Han Sen felt that his grandmother took care of Han Sen's three siblings with a few hundred yuan of living expenses every month, and it was completely reasonable to play mahjong in his spare time.
There are very few entertainment activities in rural life, except for playing cards, watching TV, and chatting, there is really no decent entertainment to be found.
When Han Sen was in his third year of junior high school, he rented a private house that competed with the school.
At first, Chen Zhi accompanied Chen Zhi to take care of him for a while, but later Han Sen thought that Chen Zhi was snoring when he slept, and proposed that he didn't want his grandmother to take care of him.
So Han Kun had no choice but to come back to take care of his son. In 2011, Han Kun brought Chen Zhi to Yichang, but Chen Zhi only stayed for 1 month before returning to his hometown.
Han Sen's family is busy outside, and she is bored at home alone. went out to act alone and was worried that she would get lost.
So Han Sen's father Han Kun's filial piety ended in a hurry.
When he grows up, Han Sen will always think of his stupid childishness towards his grandmother, maybe he will continue to be stupid when he grows up.
As for Han Sen's childish confrontations, Chen Zhi never took them to heart. For family affection, Han Sen still needs to spend more time to experience.
Han Sen's rural life was as simple as eating, sleeping, and growing up.
Chen Zhi's rural life is as simple as doing farm work, taking care of children, playing mahjong, and watching his son and grandson grow up.
Chen Zhi interprets the meaning of mother and grandmother in the most simple way, she is the foundation, rooted in the soil, she is the bond, connecting the past and the next.
Han Sen was ignorant when he was a child, so he thought that his grandmother didn't care too much for him, in fact, there were no polite courtesies in the countryside, every family had many children, and the family was relatively poor, so he didn't have time to play the kisses and hugs now.
Now Han Sen remembered that his grandmother raised her voice and shouted loudly that she would be very cordial when she went home for dinner.
There are many ways to care, some can be seen, some cannot be seen, some can be experienced, and some cannot be experienced under a certain age.
In 2018, Chen Zhi passed away, Han Sen looked at the house full of clan relatives, and deeply felt the greatness of his grandmother, and reproduction was really immeasurable.
It is only when our loved ones leave us that we feel the weakness of money and the paleness of speech.
In the end, what the elders left behind was a full house of children and grandchildren, laughter, and self-improvement.
When Han Sen's father Han Kun died in 2013, Han Sen couldn't understand these until his grandmother died, and the 30-year-old Han Sen understood what was the most precious.
Han Sen's grandmother Yu Ying and Chen Zhi are two types of elders, Chen Zhi is based on strength, and Yu Ying is based on love.
When he was a child, Han Sen liked to play at his grandmother's house, because his grandmother's house opened a commissary, and he could eat snacks such as instant noodles and shrimp crackers for free.
Han Sen's behavior of often going to his grandmother's house with Han Hu made Chen Zhi very unhappy. thinks that this is an accusation against himself in disguise, and he didn't give them good food and drink.
Once a good person in Yuying Village ridiculed Han Sen and Han Hu, you come to your grandmother's house to eat every day, and your grandmother's house is about to be empty. Next time, bring some rice.
When Han Sen Han Hu's small body appeared at his grandmother's house with a small bag of rice on his back, everyone present burst into amazing laughter.
This made Xiao Hansen feel that it was more popular to bring food.
Yu Ying has unreserved love for all her grandchildren, and will provide them with delicious food one by one, and feel very happy watching them eat. I
Ying's tolerance and kindness made Han Sen feel that this was the best grandmother in the world.
Once, 15-year-old Han Sen hit Yu Ying by mistake while playing darts, and Yu Ying was cut near the corner of her eye.
Xiao Han Sen was frightened, but Yu Ying just smiled slightly, and said don't throw it next time, so as not to hit people.
Grandpa blushed angrily on the side, this is his lover.
Han Sen later recalled that the same thing happened to him, and he would definitely be furious and memorable, and he would be haunted.
The magnanimity of our elders is not comparable to us.
Another time, Han Sen was in a bad mood and was in a daze on the sofa, Yu Ying touched Han Sen's hand with his hand and was about to say something, Han Sen quickly pulled Yu Ying's hand.
Yu Ying smiled and said, Sen Sen has grown up and dislikes his grandmother, and his grandmother's hands are dirty.
Suddenly, Han Sen felt a sour feeling in his heart.
Later, I heard my mother Lu Yu say that my grandmother Yu Ying had a fiery personality like Lu Ping when she was young.
I really didn't expect that the image of the person I hated the most when I was a child and my favorite person were actually intertwined, is it a coincidence or a hint.
Along the way, we are constantly growing, but most of the time we are relying on, relying on the comfortable environment created for us by our parents to pursue our dreams, without their selfless dedication, it is difficult to imagine what can be done in a remote and backward village for a lifetime.
When Han Sen watched Hunan Satellite TV's transformation timer, he once sighed that the fate of those children living in poor mountainous areas has been arranged for a lifetime in a sense.
That sad sense of fate is like an imprint, deep in every child.
Some people may say that studying hard and going to college can change their destiny.
People who say this kind of thing have never really come into contact with poverty, and it is not something that can be said in a few words, it is remembered by the sweat and backbone of their ancestors.
Han Sen was a poor child, so he could feel a little hopeless.
But he is not the most desperate group of people, because his father sacrificed a lifetime of pleasure to create a decent life for him.
In October 2015, Yu Ying and her wife Lu Jing wanted to return to their hometown in Caidian, Wuhan, from Yichang, because they had a bunch of luggage to take, so it was inconvenient to take the high-speed train.
The fourth aunt asked Han Sen if he had time to send the old man back to his hometown, and Han Sen said that he had time.
On the road of his hometown, his grandfather Lu Jing sighed with emotion, I never dreamed that I would enjoy your blessings.
Han Sen smiled and didn't speak.
He didn't expect that he used to think that it was his girlfriend who was driving a car next to the country road.